Cougar or sexy mature woman?
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Posted:Jun 26, 2013 10:43 am
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2015 4:20 pm
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The term cougar to me is derogatory. What defines women as cougars? If you look it up, it states "if a woman over 40 exclusively pursues men more then 10 years younger then her" Why is age such a hangup for people? Doesn't dating bring up enough self-confidence issues without the harsh criticism of age differentials?
Yes, I do find some younger males more fun and interesting than some men of my own age who have lost their zest for life. I don't set out to find younger men but I am regularly pursued by them. There are some that I find intelligent and mature as well as the fact that they have more energy, are more inclined to be spontaneous and they aren't stuck in their ways like older men. I choose to be with a man based on their behaviour and personality, not their age. You hear "age is just a number" but in actuality a 50 year old man can date a 30 year old woman and be thought of as a stud. A 50 year old woman who dates a 30 year old man is instantly judged by society. It's definitely a double standard. My question is why does everyone care so much anyway?
Life is short and not always easy. If you find happiness with another human being, whatever the age and as long as they are adults, then go for it. Whether it's a sexual encounter, a sexual relationship or however you define your relationship.
I guess that makes me a "Semi Cougar" 
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I'm so much cooler online!
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Posted:Jun 24, 2013 12:09 pm
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2013 1:52 pm
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You may have heard the country song "I'm so much cooler online" Well for some people that's true. Those of us looking for real companionship try to be honest and up front. Others, not so much. Online dating is kind of like applying for a job. You sell yourself with words, but eventually you have to meet face to face. If you have exaggerated or lied do you think they won't realize that? Like the "catfish" phenomenon...your true identity will be discovered. So why bother playing with people's emotions and feelings?
Be honest, be yourself, you will find someone who will like the real you. They will enjoy being with you, not what you can offer them. People will forget what you say, they will never forget how you make them feel.
But be careful for what you wish for …
A hopeful gentleman joined an online dating site and registered his wants.
He wanted someone who enjoyed water sports, liked company, favored formal attire, and was very small.
The search engine sent him a penguin.
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Squirtng
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Posted:Jun 23, 2013 4:18 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2015 4:21 pm
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The first time it happened I actually wondered if I’d peed even though the sensation did not feel at all like peeing. It is sometimes like a whole body orgasm. Since then, for me, it happens frequently. I wonder if it's more about being comfortable with your sexuality and letting yourself experience the waves of pleasure?
Sometimes, with the right partner, at the right time, the amount of fluid can be unbelievable. Almost embarrassingly so 
It can be messy and now I try to have absorbent towels/pads close by. Thinking I need to invent disposable squirt pads lol but that's another story. 
So here's what I want to know: for men, is there such a thing as too wet? What is it like for you to make a woman have this powerful reaction?
Inquiring minds want to know 
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Sex noises
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Posted:Jun 22, 2013 8:18 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2013 9:50 am
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"Deep down, we're all animals in bed. After all, sex is an extremely primal act, and when we use our verbal human brains to talk about it—and sometimes during it—it's clear that the tongue and the groin are linked (in a much less graphic way than you're picturing right now)."
I am extremely noisy during sex, unless I have to be quiet 
It is amazing when the sex is really good to express that verbally. Either with moans or words. One of the things I really like is to hear my name, especially being whispered breathlessly in my ear. {=}
As an added bonus, men seem to like hearing how good it feels. 
What would you like to hear?
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when??
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Posted:Jun 21, 2013 7:23 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2013 9:51 am
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When I meet a guy, I generally like to get to know him a little before we jump into sex. I confess there have been exceptions but generally not on the first meeting. I don't think it's unreasonable. I am worth the time and effort to get to know me. Don't get me wrong, I love sex, a lot...but I am more then a vagina. If you don't want to have an intelligent conversation, then go get a !
But...if I say no, for whatever reason, then continuing to try to convince me won't help. Nor will being an ass, just so you know. 
So be respectful, be kind. Then after we are comfortable with each other if we want to role play or whatever we choose to do together, then have at it. It's supposed to be fun for all parties, isn't that the point??
If sex isn't fun, you are doing it wrong.
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Men
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Posted:Jun 20, 2013 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Jun 20, 2013 9:45 pm
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I'm not man bashing or gay bashing so don't be insulted....just thought these were funny.
Q. Why is it hard for women to find men who are sensitive,
caring and good looking?
A. Because those men already have boyfriends
"Men are like...Computers. Hard to figure out and never have enough memory."
Q. What do men and mascara have in common?
A. They both run at the first sign of emotion. 
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Amusing
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Posted:Jun 20, 2013 11:05 am
Last Updated:Jun 20, 2013 1:10 pm
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"Getting a lot of girls is not something to be proud of, keeping one is."
"A real girl is not perfect and a perfect girl is not real."
These are 2 quotes that amused me. What do you men really want? Do you want the good girl who cares about you fiercely and does whatever she can for you OR the bitchy girl who makes you chase her?? You say women are hard to understand....gheesh 
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Surprise
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Posted:Jun 19, 2013 9:18 am
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2013 10:54 am
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Life is full of surprises. When you are down in the dumps and need a boost, a friend reaches out to touch your hand and touches your heart. It gives you renewed optimism. Whether you realize it or not, a small kindness can be something meaningful to others.
Thank you to all those people who have been kind to me in my life. You are the reason I haven't given up on people. 
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Letting go
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Posted:Jun 17, 2013 3:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:14 am
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Letting go is hard. Whether it's a friend, a boyfriend, a lover, etc. Things happen, we grow apart for whatever reason. But, change although necessary for growth, is hard. Sometimes we cling too tight. It makes it worse. Feelings get hurt, we get frustrated. We say mean things when what we really mean is "please don't go" "I want you in my life". As I have said before, life gets messy.
So we try to move on. Maybe with our dignity, maybe without. But, always with that empty feeling that person leaves behind. Good or bad, they have affected your heart and your life.
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Real
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Posted:Jun 16, 2013 3:15 pm
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2013 12:49 pm
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I wish people were like money so i could hold them up to the light and see if they are real.
So tired of people coming off as someone they are not. Just be yourself, that's all I want.
"Some people just need a hug...around the neck...with a rope!"
"Some people are like slinkies.......totally useless until you push them down the stairs"
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Thoughts
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Posted:Jun 15, 2013 6:58 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:14 am
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Thoughts for today.
Take chances. Tell the truth. Date somebody totally wrong for you. Say no. Spend all your cash. Meet your crush. Fall in love. Get to know someone random. Be random. Say “I love you.” Sing out loud. Laugh out loud. Laugh at a stupid joke. Cry. Get revenge. Apologize. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Tell the jerk how you really feel. Let someone know what they’re missing. Laugh until your stomach hurts and there are tears in your eyes...life is for living.
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Thinking
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Posted:Jun 15, 2013 10:32 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 10:14 am
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Some people should try thinking, it’s not illegal yet. Maybe if it was, more people would want to try it!
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Tears
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Posted:Jun 14, 2013 7:57 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2013 2:16 pm
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"Crying doesn`t make me weak, it just makes me look so."
Why is crying such a big deal? As strong women, we try not to cry, we think it shows weakness. But, is it weak or is it just a part of life. After we have had a cry sometimes it makes us feel better. Now, for guys it's the ultimate no no. When we cry, it makes them feel what? helpless? guilty? I just know they hate it lol
What they have to learn is that it is part of us. We are emotional beings. That's one of the things you love and hate about us at the same time. So...when we're mad and crying, just let us be. If we're sad a crying, just love us. It's that simple.
"I'm okay today. I'll be okay tomorrow. And the next day after that I'll still be okay. But in a year you will see me, I'll be amazing."
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