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Take your pick!  
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I learn from it and move that person into a new file in my life ...... one with big red letters [image] Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it 
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It will hurt for a while but I find it's better to move on than to dwell on it.
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No need to feel bad or feel you made a mistake. Getting involved with men that are married or on the re-bound, never will work out. Choose someone that is not attached or otherwise involved with another. Avoid men that are still carrying a torch or some other type of baggage.
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Hi, I'm going through something along these lines right now. There are two sayings that I work to keep in mind. "Time spent in getting even would be better spent in getting ahead." And to paraphrase the lovely [blog damnedvixen] "I am not making you a priority in my life if I'm only an option in yours." So I just keep moving. I'm not really into casual sex, so a hot one night stand won't do a thing for me. The depth and intensity of my relationship with her was such that I don't have a desire to go out looking for someone else to get with as she still has my heart and I would just be using any other woman because I know what is going on in my head and heart right now. Anyway, that's what I am doing. I hope your friend is able to find the path that helps her heal from this wound without adding a wall. Take care, H
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I get frustrated but behest behind us and move on with my life! I think you should do the same! Good evening girl.....
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Take some and get over it, and by all means, keep moving forward !! Like falling off a horse, or a bicycle, you get right back on.
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All I can say is at least she had closure, its harder when you don't and she needs to take some time organize her thoughts and move on. You know men are like buses one comes around every fifteen minutes..  Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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All you can really do is deal with till it eventually dissipates. Thoughts from the Garden...
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chalk it up to experience and hopefully,increased wisdom
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am what i am, no lies, just me!
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The whole key is to take one's time in assessing the potential of a partner. As adults, we should go in with a little skepticism, a lot of caution and with libido in check. And if one throws caution to the wind, he/she shouldn't be surprised if what glittered in the lights of Saturday night suddenly looks garish and cheap in the light of Sunday morning.
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Very Deep Subject for Halloween, Beautiful Lady....!!!!! I am like most people, I guess... I am hurt, I wonder what I did wrong, I get angry sometimes at myself for not realizing what was going on or that I fell for that load of crap..... LOL I move on....!!!! Sometimes, I think I am too gullible ....!!!!!! HUGS and Lots of KISSES
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It's a horrible feeling ...that needs to have a closure Either revenge or complete cut off One needs to proactively shut out whatever feelings or guilt
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It some ways it's relief.....this car was going to crash....better now to reduce the amount of time invested.... Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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Morning, That is a wonderful saying! It sums up something I've told myself and many friends to quell those feelings of rejections of self that a breakup can bring forth. I am going to add it to my wall of sayings. Thank you for the wishes, they are appreciated. Take care, H
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That is why I stay out of relationships. To much BS. I love swinging with the same people that enjoy just doing that. FWB's I love it!!
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There's a difference between pointless self-blame and being accountable for your actions. I used to think I was smarter than popular wisdom. I now know for a fact married men, or even people recently out of a relationship are always going to suck the life out of you. Being a rebound however wonderful it feels to have someone make you feel like you are their much needed savior is a recipe for disaster.
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The whole key is to take one's time in assessing the potential of a partner. As adults, we should go in with a little skepticism, a lot of caution and with libido in check. And if one throws caution to the wind, he/she shouldn't be surprised if what glittered in the lights of Saturday night suddenly looks garish and cheap in the light of Sunday morning.
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Evening, I shall not violate your confidence my lady. None will learn it from my lips or fingertips. I gladly accept your kind invitation and extend the same to you, come by for a visit any time luv. I'll brew a pot of Community Coffee and set a cup out next to my system for you if I know in advance that you're coming. Take care, H
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11/1/2015 6:22 pm |
There is nothing worse than being misled and then when push comes to shove, they leave you high and dry. Last time it happened to me, I didn't go online for several months and then was extremely cautious about what I did and who I interacted with.
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The hot one night stand may make her feel better for a night, but just like booze, it will wear off. Then the next morning, afternoon or night reality will set in. God knows I have felt my share of being used and left out. I don't have any answers. Just a lot of unanswered questions. Most of them are "why" type, why me, why did I not see it coming....... I still haven't figured out what happened to my first marriage and that was 25 yrs ago!! I'll let ya know when I have the answer! [I]Da Focker!!
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MissK...Sorry to hear that about your friend. Advice is nice, but each person is going to react/adapt to that situation in their own way based on their past experiences. I usually crawl into a hole of self doubt and isolation. No one can really say anything comforting. It's just S-O-S for me again. And of course the scars deepen.
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Lucky for me I ignore those emails from Russian girls now. This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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life is too short. move on.
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