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AFFHW0000 63M

11/7/2015 11:08 pm

I would take some time off to allow the feelings of betrayal to subside. I would then move on and try not let this experience jade you too much. It would be completely natural to be wary in your next relationship. Be honest and explain your recent experience. A man worthy of your affection should be understanding. Good luck.


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
11/12/2015 2:30 am

Luckly it never happened to me so i don´t know how i would deal with it. Kisses


rm_chocokid1980 43M
40 posts
11/12/2015 10:02 pm

interesting...


Suppletitties 63M
291 posts
11/13/2015 1:39 pm

Ok, from the man

I've probably been that dude. I've been in the lifestyle off and on for twenty years. I've had some women that I cared for and some who knew what was happening when they took off their panties.

I guess the best way for a woman to manage this time in 2015, is to first quit thinking, acting and hoping to get what women got in 1915. No one drives a car that is 100 years old, so why should we hold on to Victorian ideas of what a relationship between a man and woman should be like? That is the first and most critical mistake that women make when entering a relationship of any kind.

I would say the woman should be fluid, the guy is, now he will settle in with a cool sane woman that treats the relationship very in the moment instead of EVERY MOMENT. If the woman is flows like that she'll be ok,,,,,I've been in the lifestyle for 20 years and to me it is a business...

you keep records, to track thinks, you set up schedules etc... you TREAT IT LIKE A SERIOUS BUSINESS, YOU STAY ORGANIZED ETC.....

that is the key to keeping your sanity young lady


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/14/2015 4:13 pm

When looks and a smooth line kill.Everyone then is assumed to have the same motivations.They won't ever listen to someone who doesn't have those
motivations and it happens again.To the few that never listened,they saved me so much anguish.I often wonder what part of taken people don't understand.
Losing someone always hurts and the faster you put it behind you the better.Getting under someone to get over someone is an error that is made
everyday.

Using more than all the road!


redhotfun4you2 61F  
1596 posts
11/14/2015 11:00 pm

This make me think of the end of my marriage. My ex said I would never survive without him. I did, I didn't give him the chance to say "I told you so". I moved on and worked even harder to be a better person for the kids. They are now amazing grown adults and I am very proud of the people they have become.


rice1738 35M
19 posts
11/15/2015 10:52 am

Moving on...life is to short for all that


rm_shyman697783 46M
1 post
11/15/2015 11:23 am

me too


bigtimberidge57 67M

11/20/2015 5:02 am

forgive ..and forget and move on with your life ...do not dwell on things that happen ..hurt feelings are just that ..move on with your life and your good feelings and times


rm_BIGYODAG2 71M
39 posts
11/21/2015 12:48 pm

U kno - he used her = she used him / no1 lives happy ever after. It's all a grand illusion!

Never give up the hunt!


rm_yogirl12312 31M
71 posts
11/21/2015 7:22 pm

make him/her relize that what a person he/she is


FarmGirl6969 61F  
286 posts
11/23/2015 5:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Not familiar with the sites that were mentioned but so refreshing to hear a positive ending.


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
11/24/2015 8:02 am

Move on and let it go. I am sure there is someone out there for her.

LadyTeddieBear


2BaTwistedLover 62M
87 posts
11/26/2015 9:44 pm

TAKE IT ALL IN - FILE IT AWAY IN YOUR HEAD - THEN MOVE ON


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
11/27/2015 12:35 pm

    Quoting rm_BIGYODAG2:
    U kno - he used her = she used him / no1 lives happy ever after. It's all a grand illusion!
I think people can live happily ever after!

It's my intent to be one of them.


SteveL0016 30M
18 posts
11/28/2015 6:25 am

Forget about it and just move on


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