My Ideal Person I am hoping to meet someone who can do the following:
• relax once in a while! Take time off from "must dos" and try creative boredom occasionally. Think "porch swing" or "sunny walk."
•Smile easily. In the past I have prided myself in being generally optimistic. Eventually, life wore out my optimism. I need it back and am working hard to regain it. It would be nice if a friend could be a positive influence in that respect.
• Be open and trusting/trustworthy, both as the situation allows and unless there is an issue. In other words, take things at "face value" unless that is unwise or impossible. I am a pathetic liar, so I don't do it much. You shouldn't either. I'm a big person and can deal with truth without drama. Give me that chance. I am not asking for "100% disclosure" or "no secrets." I want to know where I am, though.
• Laugh often. I love humor, laughing and comedy. For me, it balances the seriousness of the rest of life. I like jokes and standup comedy and the way it can wipe away everything else so my brain gets to breathe.
• Be somewhat independent. By nature I am a "helper." If a friend has needs, I usually come through. If unbalanced, though, I can dig a hole that I can never dig my way out of. I have learned how to respect and provide boundaries in the past few years, but don't want to slip into and unhealthy relationship role. I have a generous nature (not discussing money here) and like to be able to exercise it without always having to second guess myself or anyone else.
• Be physical. Because I am. I like touch and all the good things you get from it and give with it. If you don't like touch you probably won't like me.
• Be open to creativity and wonder. I am a creative person and hope to find others that either participate in creativity or at least enjoy the process. I am an artist, play music for fun and have lots of "projects" on the fire at any given time.
420 friendly would be a kick as well.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, not specifically. I like real people.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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Sexual Orientation:
Straight
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Looking For: Women or Couples (man/woman) |
Birthdate: | December 15, 1959 |
Relocate?: | Prefer not to say |
Marital Status: | Separated |
Height: | 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm |
Body Type: | Average |
Smoking: | I'm a non-smoker |
Drinking: | I'm a light/social drinker |
Drugs: | I don't use drugs |
Education: | BA/BS (4 years college) |
Race: | Caucasian |
Religion: | Agnostic |
Male Endowment: | Average/Average |
Circumcised: | Yes |
Speaks: | English |
Hair Color: | Brown |
Hair Length: | Short |
Eye Color: | Hazel |
Glasses or Contacts: | Glasses |