Hopefully you are looking at this page because I have sparked your interest or curiosity in some way, shape or form, which is a good thing. I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be in; I have learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances. I?m very active and always enjoyed a challenge, I mountain bike, kayak, golf, softball and travel extensively. I do find some of the comments that men make on some of your profiles quit amusing. What women in her right mind would actually say thank you to some of the crap these men write lol. I guess some men don't get it; they never take the lead in making decisions. They act nervous because they're attracted to you. Never take the initiative to hold your hand or kiss you. Some even act like a female friend that wants to be your the. Why focus on the same ole boring topics: family, school, work, ect! I would rather have a conversation about other things and be more entertaining. Things like history, romance, storytelling, music, fashion and traveling. I don't need no special lines, just go up to a lady and say hello, I just thought I would take a few minutes out of your day to find out more about you. For some rea a lot guys have no idea what to do when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same default thing. With that dumb look on their face, they offer her a compliment she's already heard tons of times. Ask a group of women are there a lot of attractive women they will say yes, ask the same group how often they run into a real man the answer would be not that often. I hope I was able to provide some insight that I'm far from your average man; I'm more of an Alpha Male. Just know when people show you who they truly are...Believe Them! Don't try to change them it's not your job.

My Ideal Person Attraction is key within every meeting, it's what sparks desire. Nothing more attractive than a strong independent woman. A woman that knows what she wants out of life. The type of woman that is comfortable in any setting and can adapt to any situation. The type of woman who is just as physical outside the bedroom as she is in it. One who's not afraid to live, laugh and enjoy the little things as well as the big things in life. MY ideal match....understands everything I wrote.