Rejected - Which is Worse?
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Posted:Dec 23, 2008 5:51 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2018 6:53 pm
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I was chatting with a friend of mine last night and he told me he had been on two dates recently. Took both women out to dinner. One ended in a pretty intense make-out session in the car the other he went back to her place and had what he thought was mutually enjoyable sex. He talked to both on the phone for a few days afterwords as well as chatted online. After asking both if they wanted to go out again the responses were similar..."I had a nice time, but.."
The question is ---- Is it harder to take rejection from a person you've had sex with or haven't had sex with. He wavered on his answer. Of course both times his ego was deflated, but he pretty much came to the conclusion that being rejected after what he thought was a sexually gratifying experience was worse. Could I get some other opinions on this?
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Nothing like a sexually explicit email to make me wonder.......
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Posted:Dec 17, 2008 5:50 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2019 7:17 pm
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You know you're out there, the thousands (mega-thousands) of men who send emails touting their talents in cunnilingus, and a cock, that would cause any woman to beg to be fucked in every orifice...I was wondering...what response, if any do you expect from your emails? Do you truly think a woman will take you up on what you have to offer? Or does just the act of writing your thoughts and fantasies get you off? I need to emphasize I am NOT in anyway offended by these emails. I feel A F F is a place for anyone to express themselves sexually however they want, to whomever they want. Even though many are not here (so they say) for mainly sex...it is in reality a porn site. So I'm not asking these questions to judge anyone. I'm asking them because I'm curious what goes through someone's mind when they send those type of emails. I also wonder, do any women (not professional ones) send emails (intro emails) telling men they'd like to suck their cocks and fuck them with the hope they'll get emailed back and taken up on their offers?
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DIVINE GLADNESS
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Posted:Dec 11, 2008 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2022 5:29 pm
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The experience of being with someone who's very presence makes me relaxed, feel joyful..brings a smile to my face.
And the sex......more than sex...it's passion to the nth degree. The desire to kiss, touch for hours. Holding each other so close that even when he's not inside me we feel as one. And when he is inside me...aaahhhh bliss. The desire to please each other is so intense...him to me...his tongue on my clit...licking inside me...tasting. Me to him...can't control the desire to take his cock in my mouth...devour it..suck it, lick it...kiss it. The constant touching, caressing all over...and the laughter...oh what fun it is to enjoy the compassion and companionship of someone you feel a deep connection with.
 
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Fuckin Drunk?
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Posted:Dec 6, 2008 12:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2019 12:07 pm
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Not I...won't fuck a drunk.
Is it just me, or are drunk people unappealing and not at all sexy?
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Escape from Reality
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Posted:Nov 30, 2008 1:40 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2022 5:30 pm
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Do you ever want to just pick up and move? Go somewhere no one knows you? Start a new life leaving all your baggage behind? I wonder if it's possible. I don't think it is and I know I couldn't do it. But it's something to fantasize about at times, isn't it?
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The Symptoms of Inner Peace
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Posted:Nov 27, 2008 6:50 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2020 2:58 pm
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Something to think about on Thanksgiving (and every day). Not that many years ago I was working to achieve this goal...lost my way some how....returning to the quest.
A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than for fears based on past experiences.
An unmistakable ability to enjoy each moment.
A loss of interest in judging others.
A loss of interest in conflict.
A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others.
A loss of ability to worry (this is a very serious symptom).
Frequent, overwhelming episodes of appreciation.
Contented feelings of connectedness with others and nature.
Frequent attacks of smiling through the eyes of the heart.
Increasing susceptibility to love extended by others and the uncontrollable urge to extend it.
Increasing tendency to let things happen rather than make them happen.
If you have all or even most of the above symptoms, please be advised that your condition of PEACE maybe so far advanced as to not be treatable.
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Late night booty calls
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Posted:Nov 27, 2008 6:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2019 9:40 pm
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They're fun and can be quite erotic...but leave me wanting something more. Then why do I do them??....lonely, depressed, the need for physical contact, distraction from everything else on my mind, better then masturbating? Seldom do it with a relative stranger...it's usually a fwb....someone I like as a friend and not just to fuck.
Will I stop?...nah.....I like sex to much. And though it's not necessarily the sexual encounter I'm longing for. It's never a bad experience. I try to enjoy it for what it is. Yet..........
As always, I'm conflicted, trying to figure out why I do what I do. I probably spend way too much time over-analyzing myself and my actions.
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Favorite Cock
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Posted:Nov 25, 2008 8:31 pm
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2019 9:54 pm
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People are always asking does size matter. Doesn't have to be enormous, but needs to hit all the right spots as it slides into me..and out.... and in...and out...and in...mmmmmmmmm. When I find one that feels just perfect I crave it all the time. Just the mere thought gets my juices flowing and I feel a throbbing, tingly sensation deep inside me.
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Motherly Advice
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Posted:Nov 23, 2008 12:46 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2019 9:39 pm
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I was talking to my who's in the process of trying to leave a dysfunctional relationship. She went on a date, came home depressed and miserable because she said she couldn't help but wish she had been with her ex instead of the man she was out with. I told her I can empathize completely...I'm going through a somewhat similar situation. Then I proceeded to give her the talk that there's two kinds of sex...just for fun and pleasure, and one that also includes, true affection and emotional fulfillment. Both serve a purpose. Then I began to wonder if it's good motherly advice to encourage promiscuity. But would it be hypocritical for me to live my life one way and discourage my adult from doing the same? Then again, is a 20-something yr old capable of having the same attitude about sex as someone my age?
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