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The time is now to make your mark in my blog for anyone has not done so here. To those have passed through here thank you for reading,watching, and posting I really have appreciate it. You can skim and read my blog here. I am making one small change if you come to my blog and post. I will comment on your blog. I feel more comfortable that way. Sometimes I will leave a comment if something interests me at random in your blog.

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Talking Dirty Sex
Posted:Feb 4, 2009 12:42 pm
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2009 10:36 pm
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I know lot of men here love to talk dirty to them. But there is one problem here I am not the type to talk dirty. I do my best here to accomodate the best I can here. I know sometimes I do swear but not very often. So my question is do you like talking dirty sex with someone and why? It might the excitement or the thrill. Just Curious.
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The Deletion Of A Profile
Posted:Feb 3, 2009 12:56 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2009 4:56 pm
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When I go through my emails I see alot of profiles have been deleted or removed for abuse. It does not have to be that way. When you get removed for abuse? Make sure you call so you can restore it. Now for a deletion of a profile I recommend you turn off your profile before you delete it. Think about it before you do. Because once you permanently delete it will not come back unless your lucky. So just turn off the profile so you can give yourself a break and consider your actions before deleting a profile. Just being thoughtful and considerate.
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The Sense of Worthiness
Posted:Feb 2, 2009 11:35 am
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2009 11:47 am
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Worthiness means you did something that was good and you feel good about it. Everyone has opinions on this and I know I do. If someone puts you down or make fun of you. It makes them feel good about it. Why do people try to lower your self esteem? Because they want raise there self esteem higher. Maybe in words they do not realized what they are saying or doing until months or years later? Of course some never learn and they just keep doing it. I guess the only way is to avoid it. But how long here? I just wish others think of their actions before doing some other person damage to their self esteem. Hopefully again I have a sense of worthiness and no one is going to put me down for me on my self esteem. Just being thoughtful.
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The Sexual Orientation
Posted:Jan 31, 2009 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2009 11:40 am
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When you look at a profile you look all the stats see if they are filled out and one of them is sexual orientation. I know I am straight on my profile. But do you some of you notice the sexual orientation of a person? Just glance at it assuming the person is straight or something else. I know HotMatch.com every once likes to change a person's sexual orientaion without notice. So it would be wise to check it often. So do you look at the sexual orientaion of a person? Just Curious.
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The Regrets
Posted:Jan 31, 2009 12:42 pm
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2009 2:20 pm
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I know all of us has regrets over something here in our past. We do things here that we did not think it would be a regret. But later on things sometimes have a way of changing here and our thinking . I know I regretted I should have changed things or did things differently. But you cannot go back in time. I wished that I did things differently otherwise I would not be in the situation I am now. But hopefully these things will improve for me in the future. The only things we can do is learn from these regrets and go on. This is part of life I believe one of the things we have to work on everyday. I hope others think that way too. If you regret something you may rectify and learn from it. Just being reflective here and thoughtful.
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Making Out
Posted:Jan 30, 2009 8:33 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2009 11:27 am
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This is another phrase for having sex here. Making out can be seen making out with another in any venue. Sometimes it is interesting other times exciting. I guess this is what you call voyerism more than anything else. But years ago we did have the computer or internet. So we found the other ways of looking for it. So what do you think of the making out phrase?Just Curious.
2 Comments
The Personality Conflicts
Posted:Jan 29, 2009 10:31 pm
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2009 11:12 am
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Not everyone is going to get along with someone or a individual. This is on going problem worldwide and for ages. You may not get along with your co-workers,family, or spouse at times. I know I experienced some people that I thought did not like me then the next thing I know I am friends with them. It proves you can turn around people if you can there. Like here for instance on this site it is the same thing. Now I experienced some people that I was nice to me or acted like a friend. Then I got the reverse reaction all of sudden they do not like me. I have had it both ways. I am not sure if anyone else has experienced the same thing. Maybe some of you understand what I am talking about here? I know I am not perfect in some respect. But who isn't here? No one is perfect if they think that way the there is something wrong with them. Back now on the personality conflict we all will have them. That is part of our nature. But we can improve to make it better for all of us. We are all not going to be happy at times with others but at least to be courteous and respectful. That is my thought for now.
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Surfing Porn While Working Could Get You Fired
Posted:Jan 28, 2009 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2009 8:28 am
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I just seen a report on CNN about porn surfing and downloading while at work like in federal or government programs. I think people should beware before surfing for porn at work because you can get fired. Also I wonder here if HotMatch.com since it is owned by Penthouse. I wonder if this site would be consider porn here. I know when I worked in the airport apparently some workers were caught doing just that looking at porn. So they put a stop to it. I know myself I am using my own computer surfing but rarely look at the porn but access HotMatch.com and other sites. I would advise if you want to look up porn or downloading any at work it would not be advisable. You better do it on your own computer not your employers here. So becareful what you surf or access a site at work. Unless you think you are secure in doing so that might be alright. Just being thoughtful here.
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The Forbidden Desires
Posted:Jan 27, 2009 3:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2009 9:05 pm
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Some of us has forbidden desires especially something pertaining to sex. I think there is certain limits on this type of feeling. If you walk a certain line or have crossed it. You may suffer the consequences. But if you stay within your limits of forbidden desires before it gets to far. It can be a exciting feeling and be able to explore it more here. Of course everyone has their own definition on this subject. What do you think of forbidden desires? How would you deal with it? Just Curious.
6 Comments
The Chatroom Ediquette
Posted:Jan 26, 2009 10:39 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2009 10:00 pm
7395 Views

In every chatroom there is a iggy button if you have a proble with someone you can block them. Even in your profile you can still block people in different areas of the site. If it gets really rough you can report someone for abuse. I have no trouble using that feature. Because I will not tolerate it. I know I have advised people to go into chatrooms because you could or might meet your match or person of interest. I think it is still one of the best places to meet your prospects despite the minuses. I think there should be some kind of ediquette in chat rooms. Just spend 10 minutes a day that is all you need. So here is some rules to follow by. This is only a recommendation.

1)Be pleasant and nice to people it goes along way and it will make you a better person for others to consider you.

2)Do not abuse others be respectful

3)Say hi to others and be considerate

I am not sure if some will follow these recommendations but it would be helpful for anyone that will at least have some information and how to act in a chatroom in a professional way.
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Beauty Is The Eye Of The Beholder
Posted:Jan 25, 2009 3:04 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2009 12:47 pm
7960 Views

I have been meaning to do a post on this for quite awhile but after the other day it has pushed me into writing on this subject. On this site there is alot of competition on looks and how you look? I myself do not judge on looks. I look in the inner personality of a person than more looks here. Of course when I look at a picture on here. I say wow he is good looking and has a athletic chest. Then I just go on. I know I do not go around or saying how others look. To some people have said I am good looking and attractive. Then to some others they have their views. I think beauty is the eye of the beholder. It is the person who is attracted to you and like you looks. But like then others go around behind your back and say it right front of you. I could say many things what they say but I am not going to give them a voice. Because they are not worth it in my book. But I will say they will be meeting their maker in the end and the truth will come out one way or the other. So that is my thought for now.
7 Comments
Why Me?
Posted:Jan 24, 2009 12:06 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2009 11:49 am
7752 Views

I am so upset right now it makes me wonder what I am doing here? This is one of the times I just want to turn off my profile. I do not think it is funny. I cannot be left alone I do not bother anyone. I keep getting bothered by people like this here. I am tired here. I just reported someone I just hope they get what they are due to them?
6 Comments
No Tattoos
Posted:Jan 23, 2009 11:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2009 9:26 am
8675 Views

No I have no tattoos on my body here if anyone is wondering. I know I did not say anything in my profile. But every once in a while I get asked about that so I thought I do a blog on it. I never had the inclination to do tattoos. Because probably the way I was brought up I suppose. Of course none in my family had any tatoos even the extended family there was none. I know my dad was in World War II. No he never got a tattoo overseas in England or even here in the states. Even some of my family been in the military still no tattoos. So I guess it is my upbringing that stopped me from doing that. Then the other thing it was not really important to me to do so. I have no offense against tattoos just probably was not into them like other people are here. Just being thoughtful.
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