February 20th Meet and Greet
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Posted:Jan 17, 2010 7:22 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2010 6:54 pm
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February 20th, 9 PM at Past Times in Frederick, MD.
Come out, dance, drink and celebrate me! LMAO
It's my Birthday and I'd love to have some company to celebrate!
Let me know if you can make it!
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Life...
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Posted:Oct 5, 2008 8:45 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2010 9:46 am
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Hey There to the 2 people who may read this...
I have to say that life is hilarious... there's always something you're grasping for, hoping for, wishing and/or praying for... we alway WANT something else... Come On...you know I'm right.
So... why is it when we actualy get that one missing link into our lives something or somethingS (<--- that's plural) start to fall apart.
Is it some sort of balance where we must all have some sort of misery in our lives? Maybe it's luck...do I believe in luck? Is God testing me? Is Satan testing me? Do I believe in either?
Yes...that's life... questions. It's always questions. We get in a lifetime a few brief moments of clarity and calm...where we feel like everything is at peace and finally, finally, FINALLY making sense... and then...well...life starts back up...
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What is Up?
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Posted:Oct 2, 2008 10:28 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2009 8:29 pm
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Wow...this site is amazing... and I don't say that in a good way.
I've never seen or heard of more people who are willing to insure the inevitable destruction of another person with their own actions.
Where have the adults gone who are accountable for themselves?
I have made mistakes...Yes.
I have not always been honest...Yes.
I am FAR from perfect...Yes.
However, I will own up to it... and nothing I would ever do would be done KNOWING it could tear apart relationships, friendships, etc.
Is it the sex? Some sort of competition? Something to prove you can be more wanted, desirable or even loved? That you can control another person by being "superior?" Can anyone tell me?
Is this really how it is in the world...or does everyone just get caught up here and all their worst traits are amplified?
I don't believe I'll truly get an answer...I doubt if there really is one other than people are selfish and cruel.
But, here's what I do know:
*I do NOT want your man/men/woman/women - not trying to interfere, or steal them or anything
*I do NOT want to be anything other than me
*I am a single woman in an environment where that is apparently considered to be a threat... well...I'm not...I won't fight over anyone, ever... it's never worth it
*I will NOT trust because it has been proven time and again that it's not possible to maintain
*I am giving and loving and I am NOT malicious... I don't say things just to say them and I have NO alterior motives
I've taken many many hard looks at myself, my actions and who I am... I wonder if anyone else can or will?
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It's Still Life...
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Posted:Sep 20, 2008 11:30 am
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2008 12:03 pm
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No matter how much we try to hide on the internet, behind sex, behind "fun", or parties...it's still life.
Life be it an act of living or a state of being is something that can, and generally is totally fucked up!
I'm not exactly young, but I'm definitly not old...but in my time in this life, I have seen crazy things happen and still I have not seen anything "real" or anything that comes close to what people say is the American dream...
I've seen alot here as well which has been funny, scary and down right sad....so...HotMatch.com is still life.
I don't pretend to truly understand people, the brief glimpses that I've had have been heart breaking enough. People truly do horrible things to each other, and a lot of times, it's completely on purpose. That's the part that blows me away. How we, people who feel, can knowingly hurt one another. It seems that we do this to make ourselves feel better.
It would appear that we are all plastic, in plastic homes with plastic lives. The real "mush" under that plastic rarely peeks through and that's where our real selves lay. And what's worse...it seems that if we let that mush show...that's when someone is waiting to pounce and rip away the plastic and expose you. Rip you apart and tear you down. Why? Why can we not all accept that we are all human, we all have feelings no matter what we say, we can be wounded, and love, be loved, be angry and none of that is wrong.
I can only hope that for myself and for the world as a whole we can grow up, stop living as Barbie and Ken, and understand that we are all the same inside. We look different, behave differently, and give or take differently...but in the end, we're all the same Mush underneath and it's about damn time we treat each other with respect and concern instead of pretending that we are the only ones that matter.
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Foot In Mouth Disease
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Posted:Sep 14, 2008 11:42 am
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2011 4:23 pm
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This disease hits us all at one point or another...and I'm afraid that my imperfect self has been struck by it.
I'm not perfect, no one is really... I think we try to be, but we aren't.
I've recently made a mistake that has hurt, offended and angered people I value and it's something I know I will feel terrible about for a long time to come. It was not malicious or meant to be hurtful or negative in any way, but regardless, I did screw up and said something that I shouldn't have...an innocent conversation that went awry.
I do accept full responsibility, with no excuses...and to those I've hurt...you have my sincerest apologies...I wish there was more I could do or say...but an apology is all that I have.
Take care.
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Just Have To Vent on a Personal Level
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Posted:Aug 29, 2008 10:46 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2010 9:44 am
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 Can anyone explain this to me, "you" are struggling for reasons that are, at least at that moment, beyond your control...with me?
So, you go to persons that "should" help...i.e. family...
And this is one happens...
**One group says NO, because "someone" isn't helping you...I can't MAKE him pay for anything until the COURT is ready to...
**Another says they don't have anything... then, you find out she is at the casino!!! AT THIS MOMENT! 
I know I know...this is HotMatch.com...but I needed an outlet... *sigh*
I just can't wrap my brain around this...
Ok...TTYL
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Wowser
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Posted:Aug 18, 2008 3:24 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 9:56 pm
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I joined HotMatch.com in May of this year...That's 2008 or 3 or so months ago... 
I've got to say, I'm 30, and in these years prior to HotMatch.com I've always counted myself as a pretty well freaky/open sexually explorative person.
As my time "here" has progressed...I've been learning more and more...exploring more and more... and shocking the hell out of myself!
So...I thought I'd share my little epiphanies:
**Each time you cross a new limit...U find more!
**You can be sexually deviant and be an amazingly wonderful person! I wouldn't trade the people I've met here for anything!! I adore you all and you know who you are.
**You don't need to be shy about yourself, or your body... if they don't like it...Oh WELL!
**You can have great sex, as a friend, and not worry about "what's next"
**Exploring yourself and others sexually and safely is OK...it's not bad...wrong, or anything. As long as everyone is RESPECTFUL and legit...it's great.
**I'm Having FUN for the first time in years!!!
**I'm a unicorn..>LOL< and I love it!!!
That's it for now...
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New Respect
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Posted:Jun 10, 2008 1:26 am
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2009 8:33 pm
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I think I've developed a new found respect for you men out there!
Finding a woman is hard 
Don't get me wrong, I know there are couples out there, and that's cool...and I'd love to come and play once I get to know you a bit...
But where's the single/play alone gals? Ah, I suppose like all things, I just need to sit back, relax and see what happens. Right?
I haven't been with a woman in a, well, hmm...4 months I guess..WOW...and like I've said before, I'd like someone that would like to hang out, shop, hit some shows, etc. but would also like to have some naked fun too...LOL...
Wishful thinking or is she out there?
Ah well...Goodnight lovers!!!
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Boredom
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Posted:Jun 8, 2008 12:45 am
Last Updated:Jul 7, 2008 9:15 pm
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Ok, 330 in the morning...
Technically, it's Sunday. I'm horny and that's no fun...
Why am I writing? SImply because I'm bored and that's that...
Boredom at it's best...
So, anyway, I'd still like to find a female friend...meet...see if we click. Have some fun, shop, do whatever...
I'm in Hagerstown, and can't seem to meet local available people. Don't get me wrong, to all you hotties out there that I've talked to, you are GREAT but it seems like I live too far out in the sticks. LOL
But really, I've been learning more about Swinging...that sounds intriguing, especially since I'm a single female and apparently in demand? HA!
Oh well...I need laid...lol and I'd love to have a girlfriend to chill with...someone sweet, funny and goofy like me who won't mind fooling around with me when we have time alone 
If it weren't for my desire for a good hunk of man, I'd be a lesbian full on...is that wrong to say? Ah, i'm blogging, I'm bored and it's nearing 4 In the morning...
Send some luv my way...
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Crazy
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Posted:Jun 4, 2008 11:34 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2008 6:54 pm
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Hi Folks...
I just have to say...
Being horny and ready to go is not a bad thing, right?
But man, when you are and want the real thing and can't get to it...OOOOOOOOOOOOoh....So frustrating...
That's all...
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