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Analsex
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Posted:Apr 9, 2006 12:19 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2013 2:31 am
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Why is it that men desire to do it I was asked recently.
Well, I replied it is an entirely different sensation and is just another position that can add to the level of excitement and etc.
Sure their are guys who don't comprehend the anatomy or the physiology, but for those of us that do "really know" what we are doing back there it can be alot of fun and very exciting.
So, how do those of us that really know what we are doing, assure the those who are afraid it hurts and etc, that it will be taken at their pace and if they say stop than it stops...no questions asked?
What is yalls take on it?
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Playtimes
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Posted:Apr 9, 2006 12:14 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2013 2:31 am
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I was thinking back the other day and remember how most of ladies I have been with want it fast...And granted I will do what it takes, "put in the work" to make sure my partner is satisfied, and wonder why it is always about them.
Don't get me wrong. I love doing it, I just wish more people would give us guys a chance to "showcase" our talents for lack of better terminogy.
My best example is I like to take it nice and slow....and really show my partner what I can do. I rarely get the opportunity but the last time I did the lady came 5 times...and I was happy as shit..exhausted, but satisfied. I accomplished what I always set out to do which is pleasure my partner. Now granted, she wasn't exactly walking a straight line the next few days and maybe that is why they want it fast, but she said that it is good not all parnters are like that because she wouldn't be able to handle getting laid that great all the time.
Anyway, that was just something I noticed lately.
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Bisexual? What's the deal?
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Posted:Aug 18, 2005 9:23 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2013 2:31 am
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OK. So it is ok for ladies to be bi but not for guys? It would seem to me that we are still playing the double standards. I love it when I hear women say they want equality but then put stipulations or exceptions to what they want equal. I guess people still feel they are entitled to "have their cake and eat it too".
So, here's my point of view on the subject.
GUYS: Your lady is kind enough to give you what you want. I know I have heard ladies say that they aren't really into: large cocks, black men, gangbangs, anal and etc. However, they still do it for you. Maybe you should try to extend the same courtesy. You'd be surprised how many of your ladies, wives or girlfriends actually have thought about seeing it.
LADIES: If it something you want to see say so. Don't be quiet. You'd probably be surprised how many of your men are "curious" about it but don't want to let you know because they don't know how you'd respond or react. Most men have problems with rejection, admittedly or not, getting turned down still sucks and affects their egos. Rejection is still rejection.
Now, that said I am not saying that everyone is going to try it. I mean come on, think about it. We all have fantasies, some we try and some we don't. But a healthy relationship entails being open and honest. Just because a member of the couple says they have thought about it doesn't mean you have to do it. It just means that they respect you enough to be open and honest with you at all times. That is a good thing.
In the swinglifestyle we talk constantly about discretion. Well, that means what happens between the parties stays between the parties. Hello!?!? Who cares what happens behind closed doors? Is it really anyone else's business? I think not. I know myself I'd try a lot of different things to please the person I am with.
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Single/Solo Guys
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Posted:Aug 18, 2005 9:05 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2013 2:31 am
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Ok. Well this is my first post and I figured I would vent one of my biggest points of frustration with the people from this and numerous other sites. If the shoe doesn't fit than don't get upset. And if it does.....well, that it up to you how you handle it.
I have noticed countless profiles and ads that mention that they are seeking men. However, then you contact them to be told rudely that, "we don't play with solo/single guys", "you obviously can't read"(the ad never mentioned no solo/single guys at all), or probably my favorite "If you get a bisexual women we might play with you..or at least her and you can watch".
Give me a friggin break. If you don't want guys then don't select it in the seeking/looking for sections. So you want couples...fine then select couples, but don't select men thinking us guys will know that you only want them if they are part of a couple.
I know the old saying about one bad apple. I know it myself from when my wife and I swung. But common sense says you can't judge a book by a cover. I read the profiles saying non-judgmental but then you judge me based on what's between my legs? Get a clue. You are not non-judgmental. You are very judgmental because you have judged me because I am a solo guy. How would you like it if I judged you. I can think of hundred of things I could use to judge a person and discriminate against them for. But then I'd be "Just Like You".
I apologize if I offended anyone, but being that I am honest and am always myself I had to vent it.
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