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Men Dealing with Fakes on HotMatch.com
 
Tips for Men who find themselves dealing with Fakes & Flakes on HotMatch.com.
Keywords | Title View | Refer to a Friend |
Males who are Standard Members need to know this:
Posted:May 20, 2009 1:54 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2011 12:31 pm
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Ok first of all i wanted to start of with this to say.

Some Skank Box left me a comment to one of my blogs trying to correct my spelling of a word and said that i should learn how to spell before writing another blog.

First of all Bitch, There is a spell check on here if i wanted to fake it and seem all intelligent like by using the spell check to correct every word that i misspell i would. But that's not me.

I am Human,I make mistakes,typos and don't properly conjugate a sentence.

And that's what makes me......ME. And i wouldn't and won't Change a Damn Thing!

Besides while your dumbass had no friends and had to keep your nose in the books,while I was sucking dick in the bathroom during English Class.

Now on to what I was going to say.

I decided to write this because Many Standard men don't realize this and of course this works for female standard members as well.

To hurry the process of a connection on here when your only a standard member.

Make sure you put your information such as a handle on your profile where it allows you to leave it.

People who have Gold Or Silver membership can get your information from that as soon as they add you to their friendslist on HotMatch.com.

Be sure it is in the right place and not just in your profile in the wrong place because that would be a no no on this site and could get your profile deleted.
WE CAN'T SEE THAT INFO UNLESS WE ADD YOU ON OUR FRIENDSLIST AND YOU ACCEPT IT.

Which brings me to my other helpful tip.

When I add you to my friendslist you automatically get access to my Photo Albums which have about 50 pics in there of me and my friends.

Alot of you men say you can't see my pics being a standard member.
um duh that's why I created a photo album so you standard men and women can see my pics. So accept my friendslist invite to see them.

Alot of you ask me where do i find it? Go to your Friends Network click on that. You will see links to my albums.

And last but not least,
Download the HotMatch.com instant messenger. You can always chat with anyone you want regardless of what level of membership you have.

Althought alot of the times it doesn't work well.
It has worked well enough to put me in contact with a bunch of standard members who I later met in person.

I hope this have helped you.

P.S.
I get alot of emails that become non existent due to abuse.
It is HotMatch.com rules we exchange two emails before I send you my contact info which I abide by. You should as well.

It is a stupid tactic to get people fustrated enough for them to pay to join. But they say it's because of spammers and what not.

Which is crap to me because As a Gold and Silver member we should be able to contact whoever we want, when we want.

And not have to pay even more just to allow standard members to contact us.

So that is why HotMatch.com instant messenger is so great for standard members.

Hope this information help you find that special someone to fuck,
and being that i helped that encounter happen....do me a favor.

When your fucking that person, think of me,and fuck that person even harder. Then when your about to cum, whisper in their ear and say,
Misstress Mckayla says "Hello!"

lol............................... Happy Humping All!

P.S.
yes it is free to view one webcam at a time when you're a standard member.
7 Comments
Wanted: Hot Submissive Female
Posted:May 18, 2009 5:30 pm
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2009 10:41 pm
5782 Views

Today I had a Revelation.

And this only came to me after a recent ex bf pissed me off.

Guys are jerks and Assholes, saying how much they love you and what not promising you the world. But then they disappear on you without so much as a reason to why it suddenly ended.

which wouldn't be a fucking problem if they would just say this is something they no longer want. Men cum and go in my life,literally.

And i have no problems getting over one man and moving on to the next and many others that follows. But if he falls off the planet without so much as a why it is over... it questions how sincere and authentic his love for me really was which drives me insane.
and this is what you men do....... We are not psychotic women wishing to harass you. well in my case at least.
cause i'm moving on and i guess this blog is my closure to that.

But as i thought back to my relationship with men It usually went as follows.

The beginning would be full of sex.
However i always needed and wanted new cock, new meat.
Granted i had an open relationship and did just have that new meat,lots of boytoys and even had two boyfriends at the same time that met each other and even fucked people with me together.

which to me seemed like a perfect set up....

But the main boyfriend would get sex less often as the new cocks in my life. But that didn't make me love him any less from when i first began to love him in the beginning.

I loved him more than anyone else. He got the cuddling,the companionship,the sleeping in the same bed.He had me EMOTIONS and all, just not sexually.

So even though i thought an open relationship would work but it didn't.

Then i had a Revelation in a dream i had. I was dating a female.

I woke up all excited. It made perfect sense to me.

I never sought out a relationship with a female before. I thought it wouldn't work for a LTR because i could never bring myself to be mean or boss around females as i do with men.(men deserve to do everything we want them to do)

However, if I found a Hot Female who is submissive and i dont mean do the dishes and clean up. We can share those duties and even do it together. But if she is sexually submissive it will work.

Her and i will be connected emotionally, affectionately in love together forever.

and we won't have a problem with our sexlife because we will both be sharing all the cock together so therefore our sexual needs will be satisfied.

My past encounters with women were just that, encounters.

But i'm more than ready to give this a try. I never sought out a serious relationship with women and I admit it was on my part.

So i say fuck all you men who aren't mentally mature enough to handle a relationship let alone capable enough to show emotion,to be vulnerable enough to love someone unconditionally and sincerely.

We don't need you for that. From now on you are nothing but eye candy-boytoys-manmeat a prop, whenever I need you for something.

Whether it be sexual or just to do my damn dishes,clean my house or just do the damn dirty work around here.

and with that I will end this blog by saying,
i'm excited and on the search for that special female for me to date..
Of course she will have to meet the same requirements i set for men.

-Attractive-In Shape- age doesn't matter lots of hot females that age well.

Wish Me Luck!
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Ways to tell if your man is a BUTT-PIRATE!
Posted:Mar 25, 2009 6:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2011 12:32 pm
15565 Views

So I wrote this Blog mainly for the Women who rather not wish to be with Bi Sexual Men.

And the common reason for that is because well the obvious,
Women don't want their men cheating on them with Gay men.
It's bad enough they have to deal with their men cheating with women but with gay men too?

And gay men are so easy and eager and plentiful to do any hard cock awaiting. So you see the risk?

Like i said before even though the movie brokeback mountain was insanely boring, it had a great message to women. Your husbands could be doing eachother unprotected.

So women ask me how can i tell if he might be into men.
And i say why the hell are you asking me this....lol

But as i thought about it, with my experience on here I can give you ways on how to catch the guy your interested in, if infact he is into men.

Alot of men on here say on their profile they are Straight.
However you see alot of gay men in their friends list.

Think about it for one second. If he has alot of gay men on his friendslist on some level he is interested.I'm sure the gay men email him and chat, so wether or not he acts upon it and meet that gay guy one day...he has an interest.

Also most gay men offer them sex or money for sex..
So that is why they keep them in their friendslist. Which makes it worst. Do you really want a guy who sleeps with men for money?

I never did understand men who do gay porn and say but i'm straight, I just do it for the money.

I'm sorry honey if you're kissing and sucking and being sucked but more importantly playing hide your sausage with a guy who looks,sounds,and has a hairy ass like you. Then you aren't straight, nice try bitch,consider yourself bi.

Another way to tell if the guy you're interested in is batting or pitching for the other team:

If his friendslist on here is Private.
He wishes to keep it private so you don't see how many guys are actually on his friendslist. Because he knows that alot of women aren't into that and that would lessen his chances of being with women if they see that he has interests in guys.

But the most obvious tell tale sign is...
if the front of your man's underwear has poopystains on it,
your man might be a Butt-Pirate. lol

Ways you could find out if infact the guy your'e interested in likes to play sword fight with other men.

I say create an account. And email him saying your a guy who lives near by and wants to hook up. If he is and responds back to you. I'm sorry girl but isn't it better finding out now than him taking you to Jerry Springer talking about how he sleeps with men on National Television.

Also try looking for him on alt.com
It's an alternative site and thats where all the bi-curious men go. You might find your love one on there.

Also my female friend brought this up to my attention and i can see why it bothers her.

What disgusts her most is the men who claim they are STRAIGHT but however they will have sex with men if it will lead them to having sex with the men's wives.

So i thought wow Interesting.....compromising your Straight Manhood just to sleep with his wife. can you say Desperate?

So you see men don't lie about what you're into.
It will only turn out worst if you get caught with a dick in your mouth. There are some women that love Bi men, But no woman wants a lying cheating man who puts her life at risk.

My friendslist is Private because I have over 20 thousand friends in it and i respect their privacy.

I am what I am and proud of it. I can tell you that i've met over 200 hundred people from HotMatch.com at parties and events.

Alot of straight men,Women,Couples,Gays, bi's and Trans add me
and i add them. Doesn't mean I want to sleep with them all if any.
People who knows me in person know i am friendly to everyone online and in person.
and so alot of straight men add me on their list. cause we are friends not because they want me. I also have hooked up many of my female friends with these Truly Straight men.
So there i'm the only exception because i'm simply that Fabulous.

Besides they add me because of all the pics,videos and my informative Blogs. most times i do videos for the many gay and bi men to watch..lol sort of tease them, make them want all my boytoys.

Love it or hate it,I am me.
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I kissed a Girl and I liked it!
Posted:Mar 17, 2009 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2011 12:33 pm
12136 Views

So unlike Katy Perry who sung a song called "i kissed a girl and i liked it" who didn't even have the balls to Kiss a Girl in Her Music Video. (Wtf is up with that?)
I on the other hand had the balls lol so i kissed a girl this past Saturday and liked it.

The Scene: A Drag Show at a Local Gay bar. A performance cast of Drag Queens (men dressed as women),Drag Kings (women dressed as men) and mtf Transsexuals. (male to female transsexuals.)

So right away i knew she was a lesbian dressed as a guy. A very Attractive guy might i add. She looked better than some of you men on this HotMatch.com site. lol

So as she did her performance, i thought she is a cutie.

As the night faded so was i. consuming more than my fair share of alcohol. People could have thought I was a Kung Fu Master, mastering in the Drunken Monkey Techiniques.

I was beyond the legal limit to drive....thank goodness for my Designated Driver.

So there I am in a Gay Bar Drunk. And the only Hot men in that place that i noticed was....one fruit cake who probably had more dick than i've had.....and well that one really cute lesbian who looked like a Hot guy. There was no denying her beauty or handsome-ness?

So as i danced the night away amongst the crowd. I noticed the Hot Lesbian dressed in a tuxedo..God Damn was she hot.

I make my way towards her and we begin to chat. Then she introduces me to her girlfriend. God Damn was she Hot.
Her girlfriend was equally hot as she was. But she had the surfer boy look as opposed to the first hot lesbian I noticed who looked more like the all american construction woker next door.

(keep in mind, I never did understand hot female lesbians who dated the butch type that looked like A female Danny Devito.)

So here I am confused as fuck...never thought i'd find hot boyish lesbians so attractive. Yes i always admired and liked Feminine hot Lesbians but this was something new to me.

As i ordered my last drink of the night..(surprised they let me order another) the all american construction lesbian is next to me ordering her a drink.

There is where I went for it. I began to kiss her as she pulled away to say..."but i have a girlfriend".
I then grabbed the back of her head with my right hand and went for it a second time. Being that her moustache was drawn on there was no sandpaper effect to scrap my face.

My tongue licked the outside of her soft moist lips as they began to open ever so carefully. My tongue met her tongue,as they began to fornicate eachother. As if her tongue was a penis i began to suck on it, Deepthroating it. She pulls away and smiles. We then part ways.

I kissed a Girl and I fucking Loved it!
The next day i felt bad because all i can do is think of her.

Also mad because i shouldn't have done that being she had a girlfriend.

Very few women come into my life that I want to have sex with let alone be with...you know being that I lo0o0o0o0ove cock so much and everything that is a Man.

But i must admit as i think of her, i get the warm fuzzy feelings in my stomach and its not gas, trust me.

Oh God, How i want her. GODDAMMIT I WANT THAT HANDSOME LESBiaN. She is the first and only lesbian I've wanted so badly.

And the point to my story if there ever was one.

As we grow and age, our likes and dislikes change.

Never judge a person by it's cover unless you have walked a mile in their shoes. A closed minded person often ends up missing Great Oppurtunities and ends up Angry at the world,sad and all alone. A lil lonel-ier by the years, a lil angr-ier by the day and awhole lot stupid-ier by the minute.

Do what makes you happiest, Live life to it's Fulliest.
You only got one life to live. So you better get as many ORGASM'S as you can out of it.

Until we meet again my Handsome Lesbian.
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All my Friends must read but more importantly my female friends.
Posted:Nov 4, 2008 5:44 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2010 5:00 am
11115 Views
Lately there has been alot of "he said She Said Drama". And rather than pointing out names of the person who is doing this, I will just say Fuck all the Dumbshit. This highschool gossip shit.

For many of my women friends who know me, knows I pride myself on my Integrity and my Word. So whenever someone is spreading rumors and saying I said it, don't believe the hype. come to me and ask me if I said it. You know damn well if I got something to say about you , I'd say it to your face and you would hear more than a mouth load of what I have to say. Never did I have to beat around the bush. If I don't like you, I'd tell u. To your face and in the chatroom. I thought yall knew that by now.

And when there are rumors going around saying you said things about me....I won't even pay no mind to it because I should know better and trust our friendship before any rumors.

And Last but not least,
there was drama that almost costed a few friendships because of a certain person. As I stated before, my integrity and Word is all I have. and those who know me knows this. So trust me when I honestly say ...I'm a Good judge of character. And if I choose not to hang around you because of certain someone's than our friendship will suffer and if that were the case, than our friendship didn't mean as much to you as it did to me.

And know this, I respect the many friends I've met on this chat site enough NOT to bring any Drama around anyone Parties and meet and greets we have. Granted I can beat up anyone women that starts shit with me,but what would that prove? So out of respect to my beloved friends, I don't bring Drama to any events.

AND I SUGGEST EVERYONE TO LEAVE THE DRAMA AT HOME AS WELL!
That includes all you men. If you can't stand someone and you know they will be at a Gathering you will be at. Simply ignore them. We come together to have Fun at these events so all you attention craving, whiney,bitchy,Whispering, gossiping, smile to our face but stab us in the back when we turn around caddy girls Do not attend. Go be fake somewhere else.

And for all you Big Headed,Mentally challenged, my dick is bigger than yours, King of the Jungle Gorilla Idiots that feels the need to fight over the attention of women. Do us a favor...Go get drunk and display this immature unattractive behavior somewhere far from us.

With that being said,
I'm excited to announce that I started a group called Women Of Washington. W.O.W Click here to join N.O.W---> Women Of Washington

I've created this group so that the women of Washington could get together and share stories,recipes,advice and or even men. No More Drama! No Bashing of Eachother and No Male Bashing either.

I didn't put a restriction on who could join because many of our friends are Couples and we would like to include their male spouses in on the group and topics. And maybe by letting single men join this group they can learn something about what Women really want.

I hope we all can appreciate and respect eachother. And it's about Effin Time we start this much needed group. Girl Power!

So all my Ladies Please join. I know it says Women of Washington but many of our lady friends and couples live in Oregon as well And We Want yall to Join since yall are just a hop skip away and more importantly OUR friends.

With this group I wish to plan on certain activities such as "Girls Night Out" Sorry Fellahs just the ladies.

[Many of our friends are coupled so while the ladies are out why don't the men have Poker Night?]

Also as I mentioned many of our friends are coupled so it would be fun to have "Couples night" maybe dinning and dancing.

So please all my Friend join this group and many of you women and couples.. I'll be contacting to help me plan these events and even give u moderator status of this group.

So what do yall say? Shall we put all the "He Said She Said" Childish Drama Games to rest. I'm sick of it and i'm sure some of yall are as well. Let's remain to keep all our Activities Drama Free! Let's enjoy each others company for Good Fun Times.

You can always count me in for a Good time. When I'm around, you bet your ass there will be lot's Laughter and entertainment but most importantly.....DANCING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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False Advertising!
Posted:Sep 29, 2008 6:49 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 6:11 pm
13799 Views
I just had to write about a few things that could be considered as False Advertising on here that annoys me.


People who add " Hot " to their Profile Handles and turns out they aren't even "puppy or old people holding hands" CUTE.
False Advertising!
I mean, if you are obviously Above Average and Totally Real than yes by all means, say you're HOT.
If you are average but you know damn well you're Hot and if that all matters to you than say you're SEXY! People with Self confidence ( not to be confused with conceded ) no matter what size they are to me that's very attractive and so effin Sexy.
So say it out loud and let the world know you're Effin SEXY!

I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and let people come to that conclusion on their own. And not False Advertise your Delusion because in the end your pics hold true and you still end up looking like the fool.

I mean, Damn I know i'm Hot. But i'm not that conceded to advertise how hot I am.

Men who put Hunk or STUD in their profiles and you see their pics and they are more of a DUD, than a Stud.
False Advertising!

Stud: a young man, virile and promiscuous.
a tough person or a HUNK.
Hunk: a large lump, piece, or portion (a hunk of bread)
or an attractive well-built man

Nothing Studly about you, if you can't even see what you're holding when you pee. So if you use Hunk on an Adult Website make sure you are an attractive well-built man and not just a large Lump.

Unattractive women who think just because they gave birth to that automatically gives them the right to wear the "MILF" title.
False Advertising!

If you're not Hot and Sexy than Milf doesn't apply to you. And if alot of those creeps tell you differently maybe it's because they will sleep with you to get to your daughters? Hmmm...

Last but not least,
Men and Women using old pics on their profiles and when you meet they look nothing like their pics. And in some cases that's not even them in their pics. They are fakes using other peoples Hot Pics.

What one should do when you find yourself meeting one of these fakes is Be very Vocal about their lies and deceit. Let them know how angry you are at them for wasting your time and gas. And simply Slam the Door in their face and LEAVE!

Alot of nice people I know simply bit their tongues and continue the date and when it's over , never call that person again.

That is the worst thing you can do!

Not only are you playing their game but your also playing with their emotions and your own game in a way so that makes you no better than the liar in the first place.

Also if you are Blunt and Honest with the liars and voice out how much of a shit they are for lying to you maybe they will feel so REJECTED and NEVER EVER use Fake Pictures again to LIE and TRICK the next VICTIM.

So all you False Advertisors, Yall can Kiss My Arse.

P.S
I didn't add anything about the Fake men using other peoples Big cock Pics simply because i don't care about the size of a cock.
If i'm not attracted to you, I won't be touching your cock.

So men who send big cock pics to me and not their face pics, don't get a response back.

Also any man who has big cock pics over ten inches or so but yet no cam videos of it, I write off as a fake. If He can proudly brag about it in pics than surely someone that vain can buy a cheap webcam to show it off live on webcam.

And besides I don't like when men have cock pics up on their profiles anyway. Letting the whole world to see.
like ewww... why not put it in your private photo albums so only your special friends can see it.

A man showing his sausage (in some cases their vienna sausages) to the whole world doesn't leave much for the imagination or mystery.

I like a Challenge so that when I get to the prize i'm pleasantly surprised.

And not handle a prize that has been seen by all eyes and more importantly left out all exposed to be devoured by all the Bar Flies.

Rotting Meat is never good to eat.

AT Some point in your life you must have some standards & morals and not give it to anyone and everyone.

To avoid contamination of your manmeat always use Gloves When letting others Handle it.

Give it away with ease surely someday you will end up with mad cow disease....lay down with dogs you wake up with fleas.

lol oh damn i'm cracking myself up.....
I better end with this...before i make an accident in my panty.

Love it, Adore it, Stroke it , Share It.
Show it or even Wh-ORE it,but always wash it and take care of it.

It's the only one you got.

Think of it as your Big nose.
If your nose is running people will notice.
If your nose is dripping with green stuff no one will play with you.
If you sneeze someone might get a facial.
If your nose Bleeds seek Medical Attention.
If you see warts on other peoples noses, don't touch it.

Everyone wants & needs A Healthy Nose, Indeed.
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Cumming On Cam Men & Women
Posted:Apr 23, 2008 5:38 am
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2009 10:41 pm
15296 Views

So this blog is about my new group that I've created.

I was recently in a girls watching men on cam chatroom. And while I was on cam with three of my boytoys sucking their cocks and typing in the chatroom one of the moderators decided to email me through HotMatch.com.

Saying,I broke the rules by being on webcam with my boytoys. I guess it was just for a room where we should only watch men jerking off on cam and that's it. How boring and stupid is that?

Alot of men who are on cam love to show their cocks off on cam but they also need stimulation too. And how stupid is that to deprive them from watching others on cam so they can get off to it.

So I have created this group for guys, girls & couples who love to cum on cam and for those who love to watch them! This is a Group where you will not be judged for being as perverted as we are......

And certainly you won't be judged on what your body looks like naked. We love All Shapes and Sizes

So all you Camming Attention Whores who love showing your bodies or sexual talents Off come join my group. Be As Naughty & Nasty as you want to be.

And those who love to watch and give us attention and compliments......cum & support us.

You can find the group under group search and type in Cumming On Cam Men & Women
or go to group search,topic,exhibitionism
Cumming On Cam Men & Women.

or click this group link i just posted here.

Click Here to Join ----> Cumming On Cam Men & Women
5 Comments
Testimonials
Posted:Apr 21, 2008 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2009 9:12 am
10161 Views

It's so freaking annoying when people who haven't met me in person leaves me testimonials. Almost as annoying as seeing people who accept testimonials from people they have never met in person. This isn't fucking my space, thanks for the add shit.

How can you possible leave a testimonial for someone who u never met before? even worst you're not in the same state or country.
Anyone can be sweet or what not over the computer.
You never really know someone unless you meet them in person and hang out with them.

So anyone who hasn't met me in person do not fck'n leave me a testimonial, it's annoying and I will not Accept it.

And those who accept peoples testimonials even when u have never met that person face to face is as pathetic as that person leaving you that worthless testimonial.

AND anyone who accept testimonials from Fake profiles who are Spambots that are spamming their email addresses on their testimonials are just as bad if not more pathetic than the spammers to begin with.


Attention Whores!!!!!!!

Especially those Losers who want to leave me Testimonials or comments just to be noticed by others who read my profile.

Attention, Attention Whores, Don't try to get exposed or noticed from leavng me comments on my videos or testimonials because i will delete it.
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My Pet Peeves on HotMatch.com.
Posted:Nov 9, 2007 3:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2011 12:33 pm
19661 Views

Men who claim that they are Straight as their sexual preference on HotMatch.com and yet have alot of Gay men on their Friendslist.

If you are going to suck some cock or have a guy suck yours, say that you are Bi. When you say that you're Straight and yet have so many gay guys on your list, (in some cases that's all they have on their list are men no women whatsoever) you're only fucking fooling yourself. Denile is just not a River my friend!

And then you have these Gay guys who claim that they are Bi sexual and yet have no women on their friendslist all males. As if by saying they are Bi will make them seem less queer and more masculine and more macho. lol to think they will attract straight guys that way... oh geesh.

I fucking hate when men send me emails describing what they look like and then have the nerve to say if you like my stats then get back to me and I can send you some pictures.

Send me the damn pictures in your first response, If i like what I see, i'll get back to you. Do not waste my time by sending your stats and not your pics. I don't meet anyone without seeing pics.

And I hate when I ask you to send your face pics and you send me pics of your face using dark sunglasses. What The Fuck? Your emails get deleted and I do not respond back.

I hate when people send me their phone number in an email but leave out the area code. Am I suppose to guess your area code?

It's annoying when people who are paying members ask if I can send them a friend invite. WTF.You sent me a damn email asking me to send you a friend invite. When you could have checked the box that says ,invite to your network, in the same email you sent. Makes things easier. So send me a Friend invite and I'll accept it.

I hate when people say my cam is blurry, lighting isn't Good,Cam too far away or the feed is choppy. Too fucking BAD! You have a problem with it..do one of three things.

1) Buy Me a Better Cam preferably a wireless.
2) Don't watch or

3) Shut the Fuck up and put my Blurry,Choppy too far away Dark ASS on ignore.

And it's always the fuckers without cams who seem to complain.

I hate when people leave Testimonials without ever meeting that person in real life. This isn't my space..thanks for the add shit!

So i try to only accept Testimonials from people i've met in real life. People over the computer with words and pics are one thing but in person is totally different and only then could u know what kind of person someone is...enough to write them a testimonial.

I hate when people use pics who aren't of them..or they use few pics that are them and other peoples pics with the heads cut off of them.

It annoys the fuck out of me when people create photo albums and its of other peoples pitures from HotMatch.com or just some porn site pics....
like why use other peoples pics to keep your albums interesting.......make your own pics.

More Pet Peeves will be added as I remember them.
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All My Female Friends on Here Must Read!
Posted:Aug 8, 2007 7:00 am
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2009 10:42 pm
16112 Views

So I Recently have read something that disgusted me and I felt the need to write about it in this blog.

This is mainly for All My Female Friends on HotMatch.com in Washington State to read, However this information could be very Helpful to All Women, Men And Transgendered Folks.

So I belong to a group on here in Seattle. And I stumbled upon a Post/Thread that is called Cum in me!!!!
And this is what it said,

" Ok all, I posted a message here saying I was ready in Washington State and didn't get much of a response. I guess I need to be more Graphic. Not my nature as I don't like crude!!! Here goes,

I am wanting to have 3, 4, 5, 6 or more guys focus there attention on me all at once. I'm going to go get tubes tied soon so I can feel all of you fill me up with your love cum. I want to feel it deep, hard, and one after another as I have only had two guys at once. I recently was with another fixed guy and commando is the only way to go. Hubby says to find the guys I want so let me know if your interest. Have to be trimmed but prefer clean shaven. I want to have it all. Are you up for it? Let me know........

So as I read on there was so many responses from men who would actually join in on this.

Men willing to cum inside this stranger without any protection right after many others have came inside her unprotected.

Am I the only one that see a problem here?
There is a Reason why I don't go to Adult Book Stores and Glory Holes. This is Equally disgusting to me.

So now i'm writing this blog so that my many Female Friends on HotMatch.com in Washington will go and see this Posting for themselves. Not only see this posting but also look at the many men who responded to the posting. Just so you know what men you should be careful around. Have you spoken to him or worst had unsafe sex with him?

You need to be informed.

Yes, yes we all have made the mistake of having unprotected sex in our life but this is beyond a mistake. It's just plain stupid. Having unprotected Sex with a Stranger who is advertising for alot of men to cum inside of her without any condoms one after the other?

It's a DeathWish if you ask me.

I can post up facts and information about Sexually Transmitted Diseases but I won't!

We are all Adults and will do what we want.....

But i'm sorry I just had to voice my opinnion about that thread.

To all my friends that I love so dearly..
Becareful out there....in this day and age
it's very scary. You never know who has what.

And you may trust your close intimate friends or lovers to have unprotected sex but do you really know what they are up to? Many men and women out there cheat and have been cheated on.

Has anyone seen the movie BrokeBack Mountain? I call it Bareback Mountain. I hated the movie However it had a great Message to be sent to All Women even if that's not what their intentions were.

The point of the Story was that the two men were having sexual relations with eachother without their wives and families knowing.

Imagine that! Yes your man cheating on you with a Guy or Tranny and bringing back whatever he had to you without you even knowing?

Or your Wives or girlfriends sleeping around on you and bringing back sexually transmitted diseases to you.

So please Be Safe and BeCareful People because one night of meaningless sex isn't worth your life.

This coming from a big ol'e Slut myself you know we all must love ourself enough not to be put in those types of situations. We must all try to play Safe to enjoy more pleasures in life.

My intentions aren't to try to stop you from having fun or scaring you into celibacy.

But meerely bring awareness to the threat that we sometimes forget in the heat of passion.

A Reminder if you will to bring Attention to the Dangers that others might intentionally bring to you.

And with that being said.........you must be a Stupid Mother Fucker to be willing to be a part of the many men who are willing to fuck that stranger and all cum inside her without Condoms!

Enjoy your STD'S!!!!!!!!!
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A California Dream I had
Posted:Jul 2, 2007 5:04 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2010 3:53 pm
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In a Crowd of raging Hard on's and Hormones I did not notice you, Diamond in the Rough.
But as the Night faded and most were jaded,
disappearing before Dawn.
Mine eyes came upon you.
And in an instance you were gone.
I even Enquired about you but very few knew.
I myself, at the time didn't realize how much you would become my Cinderella who had left her glass shoe.

The following Morning......

I am still up, running on 2 hours of sleep with nothing to drink or eat. Chatting away in a Chat room which I call my HotMatch.com Home.
Full of Friends & loved ones, we reminisce about the Festivities and Sexual activities of the night before.

And by chance there you are.
In all your Glory ,My Morning Star.
Both of us Still at the Hotel Starving And Thirsty
Oblivious to what the night had in store.
Perhaps subconsciously, our one moment in time, that Magical Moment, That New Experience was what we were really Starving and Thirsty for.

Both of us in need to satisfy our Hunger & desires. We planned for you to come over to my hotel room, so we could make a store run in my car.

You walked into my room with such confidence and presence with your friendly smile. But the eyes, your eyes, captivated me. As you spoke, those beautiful eyes did not wonder. (That says a lot about someone). Locked eye to eye we began to build a re pore. The more you spoke the more
I Trusted you, Respected you.

By the time we got back to the hotel, I was already in love with your personality.

I saw no Gender, just a beautiful individual.
One so Raw but so Real.
Not so much Modest but not too self centered to keep you from being very Open and Honest.
Unexplainable feelings & emotions overwhelmed me.
This seemed all surreal.
I'm in love with the beauty that is you.
All the while,
Never knowing if you felt the same way I did or if at all you felt anything at all.
Was I reading into something that just wasn't there?

The few passionate glances and stares we shared
reassured and allured me.
Your hand on my thigh got me excited,
it touched my .............
.............
................ heart.
That which some might not find sexually arousing,that small display of affection did it for me, comforted me.
It let me know that even though we had never been in a situation like this before
Together we will share something amazing on the journeys of our lifestyles. An Experience worth exploring and never forgetting.


-Time our worst enemy-

After getting the permission and approval of your
equally wonderful other half,

We cleaned ourselves and changed into some naughty playtime attire. And on went the cam.
Teasing the viewers we did.
Being the Two Hottest Bitches on HotMatch.com Cam
We accomplished that.

As time kept ticking away on cam, we did a lot of foreplay. You taught me all the splendors that is woman. Inside and out and inside and out again. lol And if that wasn't great in itself.
You let me be part of a Raw, Nasty, Naughty & kinky yet so Wonderful & Beautiful Spectacle that I won't ever Forget. Your Squirting Orgasm.

The pressure and volume amount of it all..

Your uncontrollable screams and moans of enjoyment.....
The multiple long lasting orgasms while squirting.

I actually rather not say you squirt but infact Gush with pleasure.
I thank you so much for taking me to your special place.
And also for orally pleasing me and allowing me to show you how thankful I was all over your face.

Limited by time,
I literally packed up and left to drive back to Tacoma from Portland. As you later planned to fly back to your home in California.
Was this all a DREAM?
No, It Was MY California DREAM!

So many things I wish I had the time to explore.

I really wanted you to teach me how to eat your pussy to the point you gushed all over my face.
Giving me the facial of a lifetime.
Making me taste your Sweet juices.

I was saddened by our quick departure...thought u felt the same when I looked into your eyes.
And yet I will always remember our brief kiss we shared as we said goodbye.
I felt the need to pull you in and kiss those beautiful lips before I left. To let you know that this was more than a random sexual hook up.

You are an Amazing women. Don't ever change.
You can be a Tough Gal at times but im glad you let me in to see the softer side of you...and I loved it!

A lot of people come and go in my life but you,
there is just something about you.....
your soul grabs ahold of mine and intertwine.
Hard not to connect with you on a different level aside from being sexual.

Who knows where our lives might take us but just know you have a friend in Washington for life...

Again, thank you for being a Beautiful person.
And thank you (Her Number 1 Guy) for sharing with me the most beautiful gift in the world, your precious SHELL.
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Does it make me Gay if I .....? (My Views on that Question)
Posted:May 23, 2007 8:36 am
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2009 10:39 pm
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Does it make me gay if I have sex with a Transsexual?

Labels, Labels, Labels. I don't like them but yet many find the need to label people based on their sexual preference. And i've been asked this question alot so I figured i'd write my thoughts about this controversial question. And wether you Agree or Disagree with me, I really don't give a Rats Ass.

This is my perspective on the matter.
Many people see Transsexuals as just Gay Men. And for those who think that way will say that Any man who has sex with a Transsexual must be Gay or should be considered Bi-sexual. (I so don't Agree & i will explain why soon enough).
Now, let's start with the terminology on a few labels just so that there is no confusion.

CD =(CrossDresser). A male who enjoys the wearing of clothes designed for the opposite sex.(Doesn't necessarily makes him a Homosexual.)

DQ =no not Dairy Queen. (Drag Queen). A male Homosexual who dresses as a woman.

TV =(Tranvestite). A person and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite sex especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification. Basically a gay male dressing up as a woman to have sex with men and have no desire to alter their body hormonally or surgically to become female.

Ts = (Transsexual).A person who psychologically identifies with the opposite sex and may seek to live as a member of this sex especially by undergoing surgery and hormone therapy to obtain the necessary physical appearance (as by changing the external sex organs). We live our lives this way 24-7.

Hermaphrodite = 1) an animal or plant having both male and female reproductive organs
2) something that is a combination of diverse elements.

Now that you have been Educated. Hermaphrodites are born & their parents are faced with the decision to keep them male or female.And more then often do they choose the wrong gender for their . I'd like to say that I personally feel that I was born Female in the wrong body (a Birth Defect if u will) that I must correct.

Now you know where my mind set is at...I will try to answer "THE" question best as i can explain it. Am I Gay if I have sex with you?
I will break it down in 3 Categories of the men I deal with.

TRULY STRAIGHT MEN. These men are men who are Just my friends. We do nothing sexual at all. I have many of these friends who I wouldn't dare try to seduce or harrass them to give me the cock. I Respect that they are Truly Straight.

STRAIGHT MEN. These men are men who only do Women & Attractive Passable Transsexual women.They're not attracted to men & would never do anything sexual with MEN or men in wigs. And but for that fact,I consider them straight. Many of these men would only do me orally & sometimes anally. They want nothing to do with my member,they don't even want to see it. So why must these men be gay or even bi,if all they see is them fucking a females mouth or ass? To me,they are still straight. And those who would please me orally see me as a Female with something extra.
My Ex's did it because they were in love with me & just wanted to please me. They didn't look at it as being gay or bi but rather being in love with someone & loving them for who & what they are. Love is a Powerful thing..it Conquers All.Even imperfections that I deal with.

BI-SEXUAL MEN. These are men who have sex with Women,Men & Transsexuals. Many of you men claim that youre Straight.But I'm sorry,If you have sex with a male that looks & sounds like a male,then you are Bi-Sexual. Not that being Bi-sexual is a bad thing. Many of you get Defensive when I point this out to you which U shouldn't. Bi guys make Fun Boy Toys & Sex Slaves for me..
With that being said, Does it make you Gay or Bi if you have sex with me? To me....NO NOT AT ALL.
Ok now I simply must talk about a few things that made me laugh & had left me confused.

There are many Str8 men out there that likes to have things shoved in their asses.Finger,Dildos,Strap Ons & sometimes Transsexual cock. Does that make him gay? I Don't Think it does.

At any rate, I was WebCamming in a Chatroom called Strap On Lovers...
And this incredibly hot young male from the uk instant messaged me and we began to cam2cam. He thought I was Gorgeous. So here we are chatting and i assumed he knew I had a penis because at the time my screen name had Shemale in it. He talked about how he loved for a Female to use a Strap on on him. So i'm thinking to myself he has no clue what i'm packing between my legs. I assumed he wouldn't mind anyway because he see's me as a female on cam and it doesn't matter if it's a toy or my Hard Tool deep in him....However that was not the case. lol After showing him my breasts on cam I stood up and showed him My Real Life Throbbing,Pulsating Non Detachable Strap on in the Flesh. He nearly had a Heart Attack and got offended and that was the end of that. So you see,u would think he wouldn't have a problem with me but he did...so keep in mind different strokes for different folks. Respect that!

And what is with all these Gay men who have profiles that say they are Bi-Sexual. But they have only Men on their friendslist. And when Women or Transsexuals email them they don't email them back?(U know who U ARE!)
Can you say...GAY? As if saying that you're bi makes u seem more masculine. lol Truly Bi men would do women, men & Transsexuals.

Also I have a problem with Married men & Men who have Girlfriends who cheat on their spouses
with Gay men or Transsexuals unprotected. It is not fair to her..you are putting her at risk. So ladies be careful because you never know if your man is cheating on you with other men or Ts's. And same goes for you women cheating on your spouses you never know who Mr. Right Now has been sleeping with & it's not fair to your man that you bring any STD's back home to him.
Let's Play Smart & Play Safe. Happy Humping All!

P.S. If you're Straight guy curious about being with a Transsexual..Do Not, I Repeat Do Not email her and start off by saying...I've never been with a GUY before but ur Hot or I never thought about being Gay or Bi before but for you I would. I guarantee you won't get laid by her atleast I wouldn't give u the time of day,let alone a response. Or I never thought i'd be attracted to crossdressers or tv's...HELLO we aren't Cd's or Tv's..Big Difference.give us some credit!

We don't play dress up. most cd's,DQ's & Tv's live their lives as men because it's easier to do things in public in their everyday lives as men and that's why they only dress up as women at night.

We Transsexual Women live our lives as Females 24-7 despite the many obstacles we face daily. Give us atleast that much Respect! Walk a mile in my Shoes and you will understand my point of Views!
Much Love & Aloha,
Misstress McKayla.
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How NOT 2 Be Tricked by a Tranny .(4 all u str8 men)
Posted:May 9, 2007 2:58 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2011 10:25 pm
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Ok, so as I've claimed before... i hate when Transsexuals claim Female as their gender on here.
Why? They just doing it to trick truly straight guys...and yes i know alot of my friends who like trannies will post on here how much they would love to be tricked by a hot tranny..
However, this is for the Truly Straight men who wouldn't even do me. And we must respect their preferences people. I noticed Trannies using female as their gender and what's the point? And then it became clear to me that if you claim to be a transsexual on here, it shows your icon as a male so when straight men see a male watching their cams they will remove that tranny. Goes back to that whole Free porn for Gay males thing.

Also im guessing they get the thrill of pretending to be female and tricking men....
But for all you trannies who do trick men over the internet or worst in person and at clubs...
I will say this to you.
You are Fucking with these straight men's minds and emotions and if he were to freak out & hurt you, well then you deserved every bit of that! Im sure you've read stories about how trannies trick men and the men freak out and hurt them. And I must say i don't blame those men for doing what they did. He just got lied to,Tricked,Humilated,and in a way ! He Snapped,His natural reaction was to hit,can u blame the guy? Not at All.
And we should have laws that protect some of these men in certain cases & situations like this. This isn't a game. So Trannies don't trick straight men....you can really mess up someones life.Don't mess up his life just because your's is.

Now back to those Straight men who Truly wish not to be tricked by trannies...Look for the signs that distinguish males from women.
Most Trannies have Big Hands,Big Feet,Broad Shoulders,Adams Apple & a Manly voice. Those are the obvious signs..Here are some Humurous signs. If you are making out with your date & her face feels like sandpaper..psst...thats a man in a wig.If you feel her up & grab her boobs & tissues fall out of her bra...ur date is a crossdresser.
If your date comes out of the bathroom & the Toilet seat is up,oopsie i think ur date is a Tranny! If your date pitches a tent in her skirt while watching porn.That's a Tranny! lol

Also check their I.D or Drivers Liscense,most will still have their male names on it.But if they legally changed their name, check their Gender Status on the I.D. That takes along while to change.
Also look at their side facial profile (the male Neanderthal like forehead). Now there are many Hot Ts's who have had face surgery & many other surgeries so the obvious signs won't be visible.
But Most of those Tgirls will still have their penis because thats their money maker. Without their penis they wont be able to make money doing porn and escorting. So although they might have had Surgeries to make them undetectable, one thing remains and thats their penis.

Which brings me to the Best Advice Ever!
Straight men use this Rule everytime and you will never be tricked by a Tranny. Never let a Girl give you a blowjob without seeing & feeling what she has between her legs.Ask to see & feel her Vagina. Many trannies will give you B.S Excuses like i'm on my period but you can fuck my ass...thats a tranny! or i'm shy(if the bytch can touch & suck ur dick she ain't shy).

If u meet a girl in a club & she grabs ur crotch while dancing it gives you the right to grab her back. Alot of these Trannies go to straight clubs to trick these poor horny drunk college men. The best thing to do is feel what's between her legs. Alot of trannies will only want to give you a blowjob because they dont want you to find out about their weeners.
So don't let any girl give you a blowjob without putting your hands in her panties. And that my friend will save many of you straight men the scaring and trauma from being tricked by a tranny.
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