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missing my girl
Posted:Oct 9, 2006 6:52 pm
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2006 9:41 pm
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sometimes we dont know how much we miss and love someone until we are away from them for a short time. I went away on a trip and was gone but not for a long time and we saw each other, however we were farther away from each other than we ever were. seems like distance will make you realize how much you love someone and how much more you wanna be with them always. life makes little things mean more when you fall in love and it means even more when you know you found love and wanna be with them all the time. Seems my woman has left an impression on me and I am in love with her and dont wanna be without her. So when the time is right I know we will be with each other everday. Just a matter of time until then and we will grow stronger as we go on. just know if you're looking for love be patient and wait until the right one comes along. you will know when you find the right man or woman in your life.
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WOW WHAT A LOVER
Posted:Sep 24, 2006 8:17 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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[/COLOR WOW WHAT A LOVER AND WOW WHAT A WOMAN. WAITING ON THE PERFECT MATE IS AWESOME BECAUSE WHEN SHE FINDS YOU SHES FINDS YOU AND SWEEPS YOU OFF YOUR FEET. FINALLY GETTING TO SPEND A FULL WEEKEND ALONE WITH HER AND NOT WORRYING ABOUT ANYONE COMING AROUND AND BOTHERING YOU AND JUST RELAXING AND BEING WITH THE WOMAN YOU LOVE IS WORTH THE WAIT. 2 NIGHTS ALONE IN A HOTEL AND KING SIZE BED TO HAVE WILD PASSIONATE SEX AND LOVE MAKING WAS OUT OF THIS WORLD. MAKING HER QUIVER AND WANT MORE AND HER MAKING ME QUIVER AND WANTING MORE. MOVING OUR TONGUES OVER EACH OTHER AND ENJOYING THE TOUCH OF HANDS AND BREASTS AND HOT WET JUICES FLOWING EVERYWHERE. WOW THIS WOMAN IS HOT AND I AM KEEPING HER FOR A LIFETIME AND NO ONE WILL TAKE HER FROM ME. SHE IS HOTTER THAN ANYONE I HAVE EVER KNOWN AND MAKES MY MOUTH WATER JUST SEEING HER AND HEARING HER VOICE ON THE PHONE. IF YOUR LOOKING AND NOW FINDING SIT BACK AND LET THEM COME TO YOU AND YOU WONT BE DISAPPOINTED . LIFE IS WONDERFUL WHEN THE RIGHT ONE COMES ALONG.
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Do we ever know for sure?
Posted:Sep 6, 2006 8:40 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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why is it some people just dont know what they have for sure until they lose it? I talked to a friend today and found out the woman she is with still is using her and she dont know how to let go of her, becuz she loves her. wow, makes me wonder how many in life are afraid to be alone becuz they think they are too old to find someone. Life has many in and outs and sometimes we get in a rut and dont know how to get out of it. Well I know the only way to get out of it is to make yourself get out of a bad situation even if you do love them with all your heart. No one in this world deserves to be hurt in anyway especially from the ones who claim to love them. When one find true love they will know it and will know they are gonna be treated right, dont settle for just anyone, know there is more out there and that the one for you is on his or her way and you will be happier than you ever have before. If you are not sure what to do or what is goin on ask your friends what they see and hear and they will help guide you through all the crap in life you have to get through to get out of the bad thing. always know friends see more than you think because they are on the outside looking in.
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Even after meeting the family she still wants me.
Posted:Aug 28, 2006 4:37 pm
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2006 8:40 pm
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Sometimes we just dont know what we find until the family meets your girlfriend. Well this weekends they got to meet and it was nice. They accpeted her and accepted me for holding her hand and having my arms around her or her touchin me in front of them. So for now all is well and life moves on. Our families dont know what to think most of the time, however, all they really truly want is our happiness. So find what you are looking for in love and let your family come around when they are ready. Just have a little tact and dont flaunt your choices and have sex in front of them and hang all over each other. If you just do friendly little hand holding and touching they can handle that, just dont put your tongue down her mouth and expect them to feel ok with it. Life is too short not to have your family and someone to love in your life. So find what makes you happy and when your family sees you happy they will accept what makes you happy.
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WOW FOUND A KEEPER
Posted:Aug 24, 2006 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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sometimes you never know what you will find or who will find you. well let me tell you she found me and I am flabbergasted and am totally happy with her. Who would have known that someone could find someone online, but know I have and am moving along and getting to know her even more and spending as much time as possible with her as I can. And slowly she is meeting my family, oh boy what will they think? I dont care and tell her all the time I dont care, so where do we go from here?? only time will tell and things can only get better for us. Just know there is always someone out there for all of us.
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Which one do I choose?
Posted:Jul 11, 2006 7:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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I find myself getting to know more and more ladies and wondering which one would be more fun to get to know and yet wondering would it be more fun or would it be nice to know them and see if they may be a relationship quality in them? I find myself getting more tired of not dating and seeing someone exclusively, however, I am not one to sleep around and cyber. I want to know someone before I go to bed with them .Yes I actually do still have morals believe it or not. I know not all people do have morals however the way I was raised and the things I went through in life leads me to believe there are still nice people in this world who just dont sleep around. When I do find someone I really like it seems they are not sure how to handle the attention and how to respond so alot of them back away. Is it really like that anymore that people dont know how to handle someone actually paying attention to them and caring? What happened to people and why dont they know how to handle love and life anymore? I have found that people still go in circles and find themselves in the same situations again and again. Why not take that step and try, yes you may get hurt however you may also find love or find that there is trully love and friendship out there. I find I attract ladies of all kinds and sometimes I love finding them and wanting to get to know them and other times I wonder should I go there with them and get to know them when they are half way across the country? Well I have loved from afar and have loved close to me also. So now I am gonna venture out and take a chance on love where ever it may lead. If its friends I can handle that I love to have friends and if there is more then we will work on distance and all. I will never hop into a relationship so fast again like I have done. I will get to know someone and sometimes distance makes you chat more and relate and communicate. So, when I look for someone I look to the heart, the smile and how they live life and what they are looking for. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and also comes from within. I will choose the right one for me whether its right now or I keep searching I will find her and we will be together.
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Shes worth waiting for.....
Posted:Jun 29, 2006 8:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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the woman I find myself thinkin about all the time is worth waiting for. Its not everyday that one finds someone who can fill your heart and mind and make you think about her all the time. And you feel connected and know when the other one is hurting. Life is the most wonderful thing when you can find the right person for your life, now waiting sometimes is hard to do but when they are worth it then go for it. love is hard and worth the wait. BUt when you get the right love and mate you will know it without a doubt. Be patient and know that there is someone for you out there. Just sometimes its not on our time schedule, because the other person might not be ready for you. Or you may not be ready for them. Sometimes we meet people to know what we are really looking for and what we are not looking for. And when we learn from all the ones we have dated then we know when the right one comes along. So keep your chin up and know there is a man or woman for you out there and dont be afraid to step out and take a chance on love. There may be one day you dont step out and the person you were to meet is standing right there. We dont get many chances to meet the right one so always take care in knowing theres a reason for each move we make.
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I understand a little bit...
Posted:Jun 18, 2006 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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Geees women... I see why some are afraid to venture out to find the right one for them when they got a botty call whenevere they want it right next door. Funny how they break up with someone because they dont get along, but even funnier when they go back to them to get hurt again. Afraid to meet new people and make new friends and lovers. Afraid to know that there is true love out there and not just a sex call when needed. There for all the good times and the bad. You know if they wanan go back to people who use and abuse them and treat them like shit more power to them, but hell wake up men and women. THere is far better out there and you dont need to be treated like crap. There is someone out there that will love you and adore you and take care of you and wont just use you and abuse you and just want what they can get and move on and play around and cheat on you. Who cares if someone else already has a relationship with your when they dont really want them around. Who cares that you already know the ins and outs of that person. You left them because of the unfulfillment and the no love in your relationship and now you go back because you are familiar with it. More pwoer to you. I hope you find what you are looking for because I wont be waiting on you. There are more fish in the sea and I know the right one will come along. I will be patient and wait on the other one to get things figured out because I know she cares.
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Is she worth waiting on?
Posted:Jun 18, 2006 3:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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I have met a woman and really like her. Do I wait on her and be patient for her to get things in order and let her make the calls or do I persue her and try to find out what is going on? Or do I just let her be and if its meant to be she will call and we will connect? Why is it when we find someone that one of us always gets scared and wants to not check out what might be there? Is it due to fear, hurt, pain or all the above? Do we really want to step out and take a chance on love or getting hurt again? I see this with women and men all the time afraid to commit or afraid to get hurt again so instead of maybe getting to be with someone they would rather be alone or play around and see whomever wants to go to bed with them. I find that this one is worth waiting on, but how do I tell her I will be patient and how patient can I be? I want to be with her now, but have looked for so long, is she worth waiting on alittle longer? ONly time will tell.
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Wondering what is going on with her...
Posted:Jun 16, 2006 6:12 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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sitting and thinking about a wonderful woman, but just dont know ehere she is. Why hasnt she called and why hasnt she even emailed me? Sometimes I know we withdraw into ourselves and wonder if thats the best way to get thru things. However, I know for a fact holding in all the hurts, doubts, fears, tension and stress wont do you any good and wont help your sense of being. When someone hurts us we wonder what we did to deserve it, but know its not our fault most of the time. It comes from them, they are not comfortable with who they are and what they wanna be. When you dont love yourself you wont love anyone, you will only hurt them. Why do we put up with hurt in our lives? Because we were taught that is what happens and we have to deal with it. However, you know we dont have to put up with anyones shit and dont have to have them in our lives either. Ladies and gents, know we dont need to have people in our lives who just put us down and who make us feel bad and sad all the time. FInd people who will uplift you and support you and who will be there for you no matter what is going on. Someone who will love you for you and dont wanan change you in any way shape or form Surround yourself with loved ones and friends who love you for you. There is someone for everyone and sometimes we have friends for a short time and sometimes they are here for a long time so love them always and tell them how you feel. Maybe one day you will be that person who helps someone else. Smile it is catchy.
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Why we stay in unfulfilling relationships
Posted:Jun 14, 2006 4:24 pm
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2006 4:12 pm
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I have found as I chat with others that sometimes we stay in relationships because we are afraid of being alone or afraid of not finding someone who is a little better than the one we are with. What are you looking for? Why stay in something that is not fulfilling to you and be miserable? Sometimes love does wierd things to us and sometimes we get blinded by what we think is love and think that the yelling, screaming, shouting, neglect, cheating, disrespect is deserved when with someone for a long time. Well let me tell you this. NO ONE not men or women need put up with just pure disrespect and now loving attention and deserve so much more in life. There are people out there that want to love you, that want to tend to your needs and want to know you are happy and loved. Sometimes we get cuaght in a revolving door and dont know how to get out and this is true for straight and gay people. You see we are raised and see things and seem to get stuck in the ways of those who we were raised around. We seem to veer towards, bad homes, yelling, disrespect, name calling and non communication. Each and every one of us are unique in our own ways and deserve to be loved for who we are and what we need. We dont deserve to be crapped on and made to feel like we will never be loved by anyone. Believe it or not, there is someone for each of us and we will find the gold at the end of the rainbow as long as we dont give up and we find that within ourselves the strength to let go of the unloving ways and move on to women, men or whoever to love us. Find your saulmate, because you deserve it and get out of the cycle of feeling used and abused, because you deserve so much more. Take that first step and feel the peace you find from just saying get the hell out of my life I am someone and can find the right one for me. Know within yourself that there is life out there and you can do anything as long as you make the first move.
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Some need to grow up and get a life
Posted:May 23, 2006 6:36 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:46 am
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Seems like ladies now adays still live as teenagers and act like them too. Its wierd how they have to go on and on about things that happen becuz they got caught and feel like they did no wrong. Well let me tell you thids. If you were nicer to people then you are now you would have to try to make everyone like you and have them listen to lies you spread about others. Does it bother you that someone finally stood up to you and you dont know what to do about it? you dont own any rooms on this site or any other and until then I can do what I want to and say what I want to within the guidleines HotMatch.com sets up for us. And if there is something I dont like that you say that goes against the grain of the guidelines I will not think twice again about having you reported. You can tell them whatever you want to to get back in. However know I will not stand for your little childish drunk acts you display. Grow up and get a life. YOu think everyone should bow down to you. Well not me , not now and not ever will I bow down to you. And you know if your friends want to stand by you and listen to your lies so be it for not seeing through the bullshit and listenin for themselves. You know the Sauna was made for ladies to go into. NOt for men. And if you wanna chat with men take them to another room and adhere to the guidleines set up for us. Yes I know men come in the room all the time under womens names. We cant stop that, but ya know we can stop men who come in and say IM sorry wrong room. They are not to be in there, so get a life and take them elsewhere and let the ladies be free from known men in there. And if I report you fine if not fine. BUt ya know you dont know one thing about me and you never will because you dont want to and I dont want you to. Its amazing to see how you got everyone fooled but yet not me. I see you for who you are. And I dont care how long you been comin into the HotMatch.com chat rooms. Everyone is welcome and I will continue to come in whether you and your friends like it or not. You go ahead and tell lies about me I fdont care. I know who I am and I dont need someone online to help me feel good and to tell me who I am. I love myself, I am sorry you dont love you because you could have so much potential if you could put down the booze and get out of your house. Hope that one day you will find yourself and grow up.
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Family of Lesbians
Posted:May 14, 2006 4:31 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2006 10:01 pm
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Lately, my family has been turned upside down a little bit due to the fact that more of my cousins have come out of the closet and now dating women. I myself am 23 years older then they are , yet we still face the same challenges in our family. YEt, yesterday as we celebrated life and love with our family and celebrate graduation and mothers day, things seemed to be all calm and even fun and laughter. Everyone was aceepted into the family very easliy, yet, I can see some family dont know what to say or do. One comment made to me last year by my mother was she didnt care who I was with as long as I was happy, and this was the happiest she has seen me in ages. So she accepts any of my friends into the house and visits with them. As well as my cousins feel like they can come to the house without having to be afraid of what someone might say. When I was thier age I didnt dare speak out and say I was gay in a small town, yet now its open to anyone around. I sometimes see where I opened the doors for them to be freer yet, others times they have helped me be freer. I know its not always easy to accept lesbians or gays into a life, however think of your loved one and ask yourself, do you want them happy or sad the rest of thier lives? We dont push our ways on other we only want to be happy. SO please accept us with open arms and let us have love and happiness. I dont know if it makes sense or not but family matters and everyone has a need to be loved.
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