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wow been awhile
Posted:May 25, 2008 10:53 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2008 5:22 pm
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I cant believe its been so long since I have been on here. I guess life does keep us busywhen you have and no time for much except for work and family. We have moved and added to our family. And it looks like we might have them permanantly. We would have never guessed we would have and each other 2 years ago. but life moves on.

Everyone is growing and we are moving right along and trying to stay sane along the way. not everyone in thier 40's would be crazy enough to take on 2 little ones under 4. but by the grace of god we are taking care of and raising them too.

wehave missed our friends on here and wish we could keep up with all of you also, however time does not permit that right now. SO I am taking this time to let you all know we are still alive and moving right along. And for those of you who dont know we met right here on this very site and been together this whole time almost 2 years. Loving it the whole time. drop us a line and let us know how ya'll are doing. kisses and hugs from me and da cracker
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Happy Holidays
Posted:Dec 2, 2007 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2007 8:04 pm
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Wow, I guess sometimes we lose track of time and forget to let those we love how much we miss them and how much we care about them. So heres to our friends and family... WE do miss you nad love and pray for the best holidays ever for all of you. We are staying busy and still not much time for anything but work, and sleep. Seems like I get up in the mornings and come right back to bed when I get home. Life is great. We are trying to decide what to get everyone for Christmas and what to get da boy for christmas. NOw if we can just get a day to go shopping together. How I hate to go shoppping this time of year. People are more hateful than ever and FORGET what Christmas really means.

Da Cracker and I are living life and slowly moving forward. Still looking for a house to move to so we are not in this duplex forever. I know in time we will find that right house. And MIssing all of you. Seems like I never touch the computer anymore unless someone askes me why I dindt answer thier email. Then I try to find some time to check out mail and reply.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND try to do a good deed for someone else and know they will treasure that this Christmas. Love to you all. Knd and Cracker
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BEEN AWHILE
Posted:Oct 18, 2007 4:51 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2007 3:41 pm
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I didnt realize it has been so long since I posted and let everyone know what is going on. Well we finally got mother moved and shes in an apartment. BUt she still hasnt unpacked everything.. Damn I would have never thougt about that ...lmao... Grandma has her 85th birthday in Aug and we had a big party and she got her first lapdance from a young man and she loved it.. I know Gma is not dead and she was really liking it. I got promoted at work and am now an asst. mgr. We have been working long hours, but soon that will slow down and I will get more time with da woman.
LIfe here isnt bad...I got sick and we didnt know what was going on because I couldnt get to feeling any better... WELL after a trip to the ER and tests and all.. they didnt totally figure it out.. but a couple weeks later we found out I am lactose intolerant now.. Freaking sucks too now no Dairy Queen and no milk with cookies. Hell I cant even have pancakes unless they are made with water. We are both having challenges with allergies and colds, hopefully we will get over them soon.
Life moves on with everything else... da boy is growing and still being a boy that wants everything, but hes learning and so am I... We do have our fn with mom and pick on her at times and gang up on her. She is still working hard and trying to keep up with me and da boy and trying to do things around the house that I should be doing.
I LOVE HER MORE AND MORE EVERYDAY.... I AM TOTALLY BLESSED SHE FOUND ME. Anyways, email me and catch up or post a comment and let me know how things are. We are alive just not around alot. Kisses and hugs to all our friends.. and gropes to those who loves them.
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Alive and well with all the water
Posted:Jul 4, 2007 10:00 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2007 4:41 pm
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AS some of you know we do live in kansas with all the flooding, however, we are safe. the water is not close enough to us to do any damage, however, in my hometown of chanute it has flooded, but no family has to move. my sisters mominlaw had to be moved for alittle bit but the water never got close enough to her so she went back in. My dad said this flood is almost as bad as it was in '51. I can see what he is saying because in '86 the water was bad but not near as bad as it is now. The water has finally crested in all areas I believe, but now the long hard effort of cleaning up after the damage. 50 miles away is the area where the oil barrels escaped crude oil in the town. that really did alot of damage. In another town about the same distance I saw the pictures and its bad there too. Several towns have been hit bad. i know in chanute the water gopt further up then before and is still in the streets. I am hoping to go see the damage today and remember when it flooded me out in '86.
We are doing great, just been wet from all the rain. hopefully we will be past the rain for awhile and start drying out. The big task today is going home and trying to get more things picked up and moved here to the house and storage. Not a task I am looking forward to as mom has not been doing anything at home to get moved and not been paying the bills. So I get to be the bad ass again and find out what is going on. I guess ojne of the always gets the fate of having to play parent to the parent. Always value what you have with your folks, because once they start going downhill you want to give up, but remebering what they did for you helps you get through it all.
Have a happy and safe fourth and I will catch ya'll up later on the new truck we have purchased. Kisses yo ya'll and miss you. knd and cracker
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Life moves on.......
Posted:Jun 13, 2007 11:41 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2007 4:41 pm
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Well life is moving forward and adjustments are being made on all accords around here. I am adjusting to life with a wonderful woman, and work and a in the house. And with work I am adjusting to the different standards that are set for everyone. Life with the woman is very good and exciting. Now if we had more time together it would be nice. I am working 50+ hours a week and she is working her hours and its like its not enough time in the day for each other. Yes it is way better than living away from her. I guess you know its true love when you still want more time together. OUr only full day together is Sundays and we try to catch up on everything then, yet it seems we dont get things done. We usually will get out for awhile and relax or sleep in if we can. I have been trying to do chores and stuff after work and when I am off on Wednesday. And then it doesnt seem like enough time. BUt right now I will take any time I can get with her.
Having a teenage boy around is really different and I guess I have to getused to that also and so does he. I know its hard on the and hard on me too. However I believe in time everything will work out. I know when we have new people come into the situation things are rough. I know in time it will all work out.
I think that having me here is a little different. I know he will be fine. And as for the woman she is adjusting and trying to keep the peace around here. I guess sometimes its rough, however I know shes a winner and a keeper and will be smiling even more in time.
I miss seeing everyone and chatting with them. but when I get home I only have time for dinner and quality time with each other. I dont know if I will ever get off work before 730 again. However working all that time is great. I will be able to provide for the woman and get things caught up.
I know I was blessed when da woman found me. I am so thankful she is mine and alwasy will be. Anyways, for now I am moving on and have to get some chores done before she gets home from town. We are getting our new bed today. OUr first big purchase together. Wow, and imagine that its a bed. We both need to sleep better at night and I know this will help. Plus its bigger, we are both used to having the bed to ourselves.
Miss all of you and remeber you can email us anytime. kisses Knd
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Damn...... dont ever
Posted:May 23, 2007 1:52 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2007 11:41 am
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Hell I never knew it would be so hard to find a truck to rent to move my things. NEVER NEVER EVER move on Memorial day weekend. First you ahve all the graduates moving home, second people moving because school is out and can move out of that area, third because you will never find a truck to rent. I will have to remember that in the future. Actually the best time to move is during the week or on Sun thru thurs. Usually you can get a truck then. Anwyas, after I got the truck located , which I got a way better deal with then with uhaul or budget. I started calling around for a storage unit. Found one on my first call and the price was cheap enough. And there is no leakage and out by the sherriffs department, I guess I cant put any dead bodies out there lmao. Now tyhe fun part. I hope the woman has MOnday off too so, we can get it done and not worry about her having to work. I know I can move my stuff pretty quick. Its packing the stuff in the house and getting the storage emptied that will be fun. I guess it wont be too bad since I wont have to try to fit it into a house right now. Taking it from house and storage to storage is way easier.
As for life with the woman and , its not too bad being able to wake up to a beautiful woman and to go to bed with her also. Maybe soon we will be able to adjust to things and get things done easier. We are dealing with the boy and gonna be making deals with him. NOw it will be up to him to keep the deals or lose out. I am setting him up on a chores list and point system. Then if he wants to go do something and the work is not done he will lose points. This will all include attitude and respect for things. We are now to a trust system and if he messes up then he will be the only one to blame. Right now, we are not sure what to do about it, however, with the 2 of us we can do anything. And when I talked to the boy, he agreed to the point system and deals I made him. Hopefully, he will see what is going on and learn from this so he will know if and when he has how to deal with them.
Anyways, I love the new life and woman and am happier than ever and ready for us to have our own home. We are looking for a house to buy or rent that will suit us until we find the right place. I know the right one will come along for us and we will be happy with it. Until then we will have to wait.
We had my mother and her friend and a couple friends the woman works with come over for Mothersday and I grilled out and it was a great day. Very relaxing and fun. I know mom and peg enjoyed themselves and I believe the girls did too. The woman was frantic about having people over, but she enjoyed herself and relaxed. Life moves on and so are we.
Believe it or not we have been together now for 10 months. This is awesome for us. I never thought I would find that right person again and want to be with her all the time. But I am in heaven as long as I am with her and dont want any of it to change.
If ya'll miss us alot then contact us through here and we will catch up with you. We always look at the offlines. Just not enough time to be on here as much. Love to all and miss you lots. KNd and Cracker
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WORK........
Posted:May 21, 2007 6:36 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2007 11:27 am
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Wow I guess I havent been around for awhile. Life goes on and so does the job. Actually I find my job very rewarding and reminds me how much some people are jerks too. For a rookie on the job I am fluourishing very well. I keep my accounts reigned in and dont let them get too far away from being late. And the big man is noticing that. As for the big man I got 3 over me, I have my manager, district manager and the regional manager too. So, as for the manager he is a jerk and dont know how to tell people no and keeps finding the ones who are frealing low lifes and rents to them. As for the district manager I believe I have good repor with him. He sees what I am doing and I am not afraid toe ask him question. The manager hates it when I talk to the district and regional manager. HEs afraid I may tell them things he dont want me to. Oh well I do that anyways. AS for the regional manager he likes me and chats with me all the time and seems like things will work well with him. I do have a few people who are asses, but oh well life moves on. I am praying one of them will finally quit or get fired. Hell he calle din sick today so he could go look for another job. Hes such a jerk anyways. Thiks hes gods gift to women. I have one guy I like working with, seems like as I work there longer he opens up to me. And hes closer to my age then the rest of them are. My woman still working alot also, and trying to deal with the boy , but I will put that in another blog. Love ya'll and miss yas.
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Job going well.......
Posted:Apr 25, 2007 10:41 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2007 6:25 pm
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I am not into my second week at work and find I like it and also find that alot of things could change to make things work better. However, its not my job to change things so I ask questions and make people wonder why and make them think why not try something and see if we can make it work. Anways, the guys at work...meaning all men... seems to like me and I get along with them and I know there are a few to watch. I had one go off on me and I calmly remarked you dont have to get rude with me and Monday he came in and was different but still wouldnt look me in the eyes. Then another guy yesterday was drooling while he loooked me over, I could see where his eyes were and what he was thinking. BUt right now, as long as he dont touch we are safe. He is probably wondering why I am with women and wants to change me lmao. Oh well, let him drool. I like what I do and think I am catching on fairly well. Hell I made my first sell last week and you are not scheduled to make a sell until your 4th week. So, life goes on and we move on. I will get done what I need to and make things work. IN the meantime keep up with me and I will try to keep you updated. I miss ya'll and not chatting with yas in the room. Drop me a line and lets see what happens.
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I GOT MY JOB !!!!!!!!!!
Posted:Apr 12, 2007 12:33 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2007 4:31 pm
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Ok I didnt know if I would find out today or tomorrow or if they would even call, but they called me today I got the job I wanted. Mom called yesterday and said everyone was asking if I got a job yet or not and I said not yet I was waiting to hear about it. And I dindt know if it would be today or tomorrow if I would hear. And the Woman asked what I would do if the other place called me first and all. I said well I would try not to answer that call until I had to. BUt I didnt have to worry about it, because the one I wanted with the benefits and over time and more money called first. So for me I am happy. I called the woman and was singing I got a job I got a job. and she laughed at me and said the one you wanted and I said yes. The good thing is our jobs are across the street from each other basically so we will save on gas and stuff. And we will have to work on our times spent together because I have to work saturdays and have another day off during the week. But you know thats not bad considering I will be making money and actually getting more money and getting paid for my abilities and not just being used. I am excited. We are going away for the weekend so we will have to go find me some clothes to wear since I have to wear nicer pants and stuff. No more working in jeans. Wow my woman will want me all the time now I am dressed up. hehehehehhe. Anyways, we will be leaving to get away Friday morning. So I am excited about that and knowing I will be bringing in moeny again. Oh, I called mom so she will be calling everyone also to let them know I got my job now. UNtil next time. See yas.
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Job Hunting
Posted:Apr 4, 2007 11:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2007 8:54 pm
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WOW I forgot how it was to job hunt. All my jobs always fell in my lap and I never really had to search for any job. Now as I hit the pavement looking for a job and trying to see what all is out there, it seems as I either look at ones already taken and they didnt call the job office to tell them. Or maybe I am not completley qualified because I dont have a degree but I do have all the knowledge by street smarts. Or maybe I am too old or something. Wow I never knew how people were out there about jobs until now. I can do anything and adapt to any job if they are willing to let me. Oh well, I will find one soon and it will take care of me for the time being. BUt keep me in your prayers so I can get the right job at the right time. People look at me funny when I walk in and apply for a job, maybe they wonder why I dont have a job right now. Who knows but until they ask me or find out I dont really care. Oh well. I am off again to see what I may find and see if I can come up with that perfect job. See yas.
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Lesbian Birthday Party
Posted:Apr 1, 2007 9:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2007 10:00 am
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Ok... so we officially went to a Lesbian party as a COUPLE. OMG... we had the most fun and the birthday girl got so toasted and falling down drunk we had to go back today to tell her all she did and prove it with pictures. She was so embarrassed she was blushing badly. BUt when the pictures came out she was like, OMG I know I didnt do that, but you know pictures speak a 1,000 words.She just couldnt believe all the things she did. She kissed everyone at the party, and thought she kissed her mother-in-law until we couldnt hold a straight face anymore. And even the pets got in the picture and had to kiss her when she fell on the ground. Then very happily we had to put her to bed after she passed out and then got sick and then passed out again. All in all its like what they say in Vegas, what happens in Vega stays in Vegas. So EVERYTHING that happened at the party and the pictures will stay between us that were there and them. I know I talked about it but didnt give ya alot of details, but you know it was a blast, and we enjoyed ourselves. And just so you know she turned 40. And her straight sister showed up to surprise her. The best part I think was when the 2 straight people there finally had to say we need some dick we're going to the bar. Well they found the dick and we had fun with the Pussies. Next month or should I say later this month we get to go to a straight girls birthday party and have fun with her straight and gay friends this shold be fun. All in all we had a fairly decent first weekend living in the same house and being together fulltime. That will come in another blog when I have more time to write. Stay tuned for more. Because I know this is gonna get interesting. Loves yas.
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OK I DID IT !!!!!!!!!!!
Posted:Mar 28, 2007 12:27 pm
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2007 10:00 am
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OK I finally did it and I feel so much better. NOw though I have to go out and do what I have not been able to do in a long time. LOOK FOR WORK. Today, I finally decided if the asshole-boss-brotherinlaw was gonna be a jerk and tell me he could find someone to do all the work I did for him , I was gonna tell him go for it. And I also told him off. He thinks hes gods gift to women and thinks hes smarter than everyone, but he forgets all the work I have done for him and how I got him to where he is. So I am laughin now. He will have to figure out how to deal with ebay, fedex, customers and everything else I did. LEt me tell you, never work for a relative unless you get everything in writing. Because they screw you everytime. He had the gull to even accuse me of stealing from him. Well, as long as he is happy now. I am ready to see him fall on his face now. I hope they close his ass down faster than he blinks. Anyways, I got a lot of my mind now. Except, now I am looking for a job and will be looking for a house for us to live in and also, knowing I am one step closer to living with my woman is a great help. So, watch and see what kind of progress happens. My new life is coming and I cant wiat. Have fun ladies.
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Life can be hard sometimes.
Posted:Mar 27, 2007 3:33 pm
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2007 8:56 pm
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While sitting here and reflecting on life I find that life can be hard on all of us at one time or another. Life is only what we make it for ourselves and sometimes its hard to even make things go right. However, recently I am finding it harder and harder to put up with my job and being without my woman by my side everynight when going to bed. Life at work has gotten harder and I dont want to go to work, however I know I need a paycheck so I still go there. And as for finding other work, thats hard to. I cant just leave work and go looking for work, because of him being such an asshole. BUt I am finding my time trying to check the net to see whats in the town I want to relocate to with the woman. It would be so much easier if all places would use the net to help find work. But they dont so its hard. And as for not being with the woman yet, hell its hard to find a house to rent or buy that one can afford or be big enough. However, I know in the long run I will find the right job and find the right home with her. IN the meantime its hard to know when and where we will finally make a home together and move on with our lives. But I know the love grows and we will make it, just have to wait for the right timing for it all to happen.
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