footrubber651... is an rude, imature, desperate man....
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Posted:Mar 12, 2014 7:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2016 6:06 pm
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I'm not a male basher, but if you go out of your way to prove that you will go to unnecessary lengths to bash me for no reason and prove it, I'm gonna out you. Ever wonder why there aren't more serious women here????
Here is his email sent to me.... and I quote... " Good-bye you pathetic, lying, ignorant moron. You wouldn't know a good thing if it smacked you in your empty head. YOUR LOSS BITCHES !!"
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Posted:Jun 18, 2012 8:51 pm
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2014 7:05 pm
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Not into married, attached, prefer not to say men, Chocolate, Liars, or we only have sex in common (read my original bio in my blog), Younger guys 20-40, damm I wish I were younger, but reality is… I’m here looking for someone to build a long-term relationship with, it just can't happen with you.
Revised bio #2..lol... Looking for a lover until the prince arrives, someone 40-60ish, somewhat local (within an hr or so),something on a regular basis is really what I'm looking for. Must be able to host or figure something out; for now, I will not. I'm kind, considerate, able to have a conversation,open, respectful, fun, have varied interests, creative, and a lover of the arts. Looking for the person that will continue to intrigue me and keep me interested, the cream of the crop here and not just a one night stand.... I make no promises on a first meet, let's get together and get to know each other.
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Ladies... watch out for this one... eightinchbyfive is an idiot
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Posted:Jan 4, 2012 7:51 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2014 3:55 pm
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good thing he has something in his pants, cause he sure doesn't have anything else working for him.... you'll have to read from the bottom of this post to to top... Guess if he is that ignorant and disrepectful, I have the right to out him.... BEWARE
> Sender: hothothot58
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> Date: Jan 4, 2012 7:59 PM EST
> You are right you are worth more...by the pound
My response....
> Get a life and learn to read... is your life so empty and meaningless that you feel the need to send an unsolicited e-mail and impart what you think is the truth on a total stranger? I may not be a beauty queen, but I can certainly say that I am worth so much more than you, your attitute is ugly and I'm thinking you feel much better now that you have unloaded on me... lol get a life
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> > To: hothothot58
> > Date: Jan 4, 2012 6:11 PM EST
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> > News bulletin... This is a swinger sex site. Try e harmony or match. 46 bra size my guess since you prefer not say=mess. You got all your parameters but you really think a twenty to thirty year old looks twice at you. Sorry
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OK. OK... I'll spell it out for you....
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Posted:Oct 9, 2011 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2015 1:06 pm
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So I thought I was pretty clear about what I'm looking for, but still it seems to be a mystery for some reason. PLEASE... Read my bio, any you choose... hey novel concept, read all my blogs....
My apologies to those that think I'm a witch, or control freak.. but this is what I'm looking for.... yes, after being on this site for what seems is a long time, I still find myself wasting my time with those I am not compatible with... So here goes, yet one more time....
My age range... 40-60ish
What type of relationship I'm looking for: YES, Relationship. I want a Friend with Benefits (FW , until the Prince comes along. Please note: NOT MATTER WHAT, I am not just looking to fuck somebody, honestly... and don't expect to fuck me when you meet me for the first time.... now, FWB, seems to be to broad of a term so I'll tell you what that means to me... A Friend.. Someone I have things (notice the s... more than sex) in common with, we can be good company for each other.. Have verbal and physical contact with, dinner? Movie? Show? Bowling? Activity to interact in a casual environment.. That does not mean texting and e-mailing incessantly. It is difficult for me to develop a relationship on impersonal things... that means we have to be in each other presence to build a relationship. Yes, BUILD, if we choose... this will take a bit of effort on both our parts, but I can assure you, I am a good friend, cheerleader, and lover. Seems most on here just want to fuck... Why have we forgotten how to be in relationship??? I know we are in the technological age, what ever happened to dating? Gentlemen?
NOW if the above doesn't thrill you and you are looking for something else... please just move on... I'm a big girl, I do know what I'm looking for and at my age, it's pretty likely you're not going to change my mind.
All that being said, I do know how to compromise, am a giving and loving person, well rounded, would prefer to be out doing something then sitting on the couch, love all seasons, am a beach girl at heart, love live anything, I'm a patron of the arts, like most music, nature of all kind, walking, riding my bike, gardening, and traveling... have passport, travel when $$ allows. I'm pretty sure I would be called a free spirit, I'm independent and do not need to be attached at your hip every given minute, have a pretty flexible schedule, live by the motto "do unto others.." I have no , no pets currently, have about 6 yrs to work before I can start traveling more, do you like to camp? Resort? RV? I'm a bit to serious sometimes and need to find the ying to my yang. Must be a good kisser, value for/after play, is tactile, and no wham/bam... well you know already... lol
The most I am willing to settle for here is a FWB until the Prince shows up.... that means I do not expect a monogamous relationship, as it will not be that for me unless it's discussed somewhere along the way. When the next best candidate comes along, then it will be next.... we are both adults here, we are on a adult site and it should be cool... we don't have to hate each other or be nasty at all if it comes to that.
I do not host? I'll drive or we can meet 1/2 way. What??? Why??? Because I said so... if in time we are in a decent relationship, I might invite you over, but don't count on that... so you obviously need to do so or figure something out. I've had a stalker and just choose not too presently. So that means no stopping over unexpectedly just to say Hi or hanging at my house for dinner and a movie.... If you would like to ask me out on a date, that would be fine. What a novel concept... hum... what a great way to get to know someone... do you like putt, putt? Play pool? Bowl?
Mileage... hummm about an hr is cool... maybe a bit longer....
Frequency, well.... sex at least 1xwk... right?? At least... hey if it takes 2 different guys so be it, but up until now one has been tricky. If we've met or e-mailed multiple times and have had no further contact, chances I the intention wasn't there then, and probably won't be now... I do presently have a FWB and am looking for an upgrade, sorry guys I'm not desperate and hitting every guy that wants it. Condoms are a must.
I do need someone somewhat assertive, not aggressive. I need someone who has a life and time to include me, relaxed and chilled.. Integrity, street smart/educated, no active alcoholics or drug addicts, recovered ok... preference is non-smoker, 420 friendly.
OK.. don't you think I beat the dead long enough??? That's it, I'm done, this is my last straw.. lol
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My Pics
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Posted:Sep 19, 2011 10:30 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2016 6:08 pm
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Due to business and the future of my livlihood .... I've had to pull all my pictures.. I've posted one just to have something.. I don't see how that can incriminate me... but I guess just being on this site can insite something.. we'll see.. should be an intertesting experiment though to see how many e-mails I get now.. lol Enjoy all!
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Is My Age Really Showing??? Lol
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Posted:Sep 16, 2011 7:29 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2012 10:02 am
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First, I’ll preface all this with.. if it does, I’ve earned every year and the best is yet to come…. Bring it on…
There are a few things I miss in our modern society… Do I sound like some old person now??? Are there any real gentlemen out there anymore? Do you think it was the women’s lib thing, the breakdown on social morals, or did you just get tired of carrying the load? I for one, miss it… I miss being with a man who took care of me, if only for the simple act of opening a door or holding the chair, for some reason it makes me feel special. Can’t say anyone has ever laid their coat down for me, but actually I think I’d take my shoes off and play in the puddle first…lol
Now a question for you guys…. What is the point of view you do it from? Just cause your mom taught you to? You enjoy being kind to others? Protection/defender? Just curious… feel free to comment.
Technology, hummmmm well it’s nice for the “in the pinch” situation where you really need to get a hold or be gotten hold of…BUT…. There certainly sound be some sort of code of conduct, I’d like to think it’s not needed, but really… Like texting while you are getting your cock sucked.. not appropriate… in any situation (this did not happen to me, a male friend told me of his sexcapade).
Do I want to hear a conversation, that should be private, on speaker because someone doesn’t want to wear an earpiece or god forbid hold the phone to their ear… and for that matter.. do I really need to hear ½ a conversation (that should be private also) while I’m out in public…. I think we need some quiet zones in the world.. For me, I prefer speaking with someone. I have texting blocked. Pick up the phone and talk to me.. novel concept huh??? Leave me a voice message if you have to. I believe that technology overall is a good thing, but I also believe that it is also causing people to be less social physically/verbally. Is it me? Has the world forgotten the beauty of relationship? Even here, people are more into the random sex thing and it doesn’t seem that anyone actually cares who they are fucking…. Where have personal relationships gone????
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Is it Me? Am I in the wrong place?
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Posted:Dec 1, 2010 12:26 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2012 9:47 am
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OK I know this is a sex site and I like sex... but... I'm not into the random sex thing. I've tried the match and other dating sites and they are to vanilla and waste a lot of time so I thought I'd try here and so far I get the totally opposite.. the men just looking to fill holes. I say that because most of the men I've met on this site can't hold a conversation or don't care to hold a conversation on anything other than sex (and it's all pretty spelled out in the bio, read it).
FWB to my understanding stands for Friend With Benefits... What does that mean to you? To me it means a friend that I sleep with but also do other things with, movies, dinner, drinks, events..... A friend to me means I know you personally, I care about you and your life,that we generally care about each other on a human level. That we operate from a level of respect and integrity (that means you are honest and a person that can be depended on). Please do not confuse this with a Monogamous Relationship or a Heavy Committment. I had a lover for 20 yrs, the same one.. on and off, it was nice to be with someone I was familar with and truly cared for as a friend. It made our love making that much more precious and valued. Is there anyone out there that this resonates with? That is local, and unattached.
My apologies to the decent men here.. this is not meant to male bash.... but I must say that 85% of the men I've met on here this applies to.. just looking to step out on their relationship, don't read the bios, don't really care to read them, and are just looking for any hole and any cost (that would apply to the Liars I have caught or paid the price for).
So what do you think? Am I in the wrong place? Is there another site I should be on to find a good steady lover that enjoys some romantic times and the comfort of enjoying a familar body and soul?
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my original profile... you choose.. lol
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Posted:Oct 1, 2010 11:25 am
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2011 10:51 am
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for some reason, some men think I'm a self absorbed bitch... I thought this was honest and a good representation of who I am and in no way meant that way... In my no muss, no fuss, cut through the bulll attitude it seems that some have taken it the wrong way... you choose... and btw..if it floats your boat.. you know what to do...
Hold on to your cock...here we go....
If you've contacted me in the past, no need to send another e-mail. Sorry. NO CURRENT PIC with e-mail, NO RESPONSE.. Got Game? I'm tired of wasting time (mine and yours), that’s the reason for the specifics and the site. Please, I do realize this is an Adult site and many are looking for just a fuck, I’m looking for someone a bit different. I'd call it the cream of the crop here. Ultimately, I’m looking for a Long-Term Relationship and will keep upgrading steady lovers until I find the man/men to fit the bill. I’m not saying this has to be a monogamous relationship or any heavy commitment, but I actually can’t list it as a NSA either. I believe that a really good sexual/sensual relationship is one that’s built on a familiarity of the same body/bodies and having some sense of relationship with the person/people I am sleeping with. We have to have something to talk about before and after… lol Must be a good kisser, like touching, caressing, and enjoy a lot of fore/during and after/play. I'm not a quickie kinda girl, they have their place, but only on occasion. If I'm driving an hour to meet or see you, don't give us 30 minutes in between picking up your or work related business. Be available....
I've learned from experience that you guys don’t read profiles and/or your attention span is really short... I’ll put all the really important things first. If you hit a deal breaker, just move on to the next profile (save us both time).. NOT INTERESTED IN: Married/Involved/Attached (thanks for the winks, but won't respond), Convicts, Clingy, Obsessive, Needy, Ax Murders, Active/Functional Alcoholics, Drug Addicts (don't need the drama) AA and NA are cool. Must be able to host (or figure something out), for now I will not. Looking for someone interested in building some sort of relationship outside of bed or wherever we make love. My ideal age range is 40-60 (older is not a deal breaker, and will consider 35-40 with the right guy). Be available, that means you have more than one day off every month and you can commit to a meet and greet and keep it. I usually work weekends, so if you work in the city and don't have time during the week day/night it probably won't work realistically. I am looking for some intimate fun... not a one night stand, would be fun to find a steady partner (min 1x a week/every other week, maybe it will take two of you...lol) until Mr. Right comes along and I'll treat it the same on your end. I expect to be treated like the lady I am - like variety (technique and location), into anal with the right partner, BDSM curious. No guarantees on a first meet. Must be willing to wear a condom, no exceptions.... Must supply a CURRENT PICTURE(or few) with your e-mail, face/full body (doesn’t need to be naked). I tend to like my men tall (height not a deal breaker) and average/thin with a personality and good sex drive (I love lust). A gentleman would be nice, someone kind, caring, can compose a sentence is a plus.
I know it’s not going to look like it by reading this profile, but I'm really an easy going person. I love the beach, my garden, spas, massages, travel (day or longer), have passport and finances - will travel.. lol What you see is what you get, not much into make up or the latest styles (although it's been said that I clean up good), feminine, not prissy, low maintenance, independent, love culture and live anything. My interests are varied; I can enjoy a good movie at home or a dining experience, bowling, pool, bicycles and motorcycles. I live life simply for the most part, but like to indulge every once in a while. Hot Tubs are fun, I like wine and a mixed drink every once in a while, being pampered is great (I’ll pamper you if you pamper me), and a shoulder to lean on is appreciated. I am a person who believes that actions speak louder than words and Ill have your back, be your cheerleader, friend, someone who you can count on, your co-pilot, and your lover.
This is a pretty good overview of who I am. TMI you say, well I guess that's part of my no wasting time thing. Still there???
If you've gotten this far, thanks for hanging in there.... Since this is my wish list, they said "Ideal".. I'm looking for someone looking for a relationship in and out of bed, stimulates me intellectually as well as physically, knows that sex starts way before the act itself, is confident, communicative/verbal and likes to talk sexy, kind, generous, socially conscience, creative, good stamina, manners, is comfortable in his skin (literally, naked is fun), takes care of himself and can ditch the jeans once in a while and dress (and actually enjoys it), emotionally secure, sense of humor, great eyes and smile, I'm an upper body girl... Can you wrap me in your arms and melt me?... lol Cologne is a plus! Inasmuch as the above looks like I'm looking for someone perfect, I am NOT... I think perfect would be boring, I really want just a old fashion, on-the-fringe-wild side great guy, who would appreciate the relationship for what it is.... Just looking for my equal or better.... tired of trying to help/fix people (I'm a nurturer by nature), it would be nice to be taken care of a little when we are together.... Do you like to spend all day in bed???? Rainy days and cold winter days are my favorite when I have company. Can you play in life? Can you appreciate the beauty that is around you and not judge every aspect or person? I do see the world through rose colored glasses at times and I am also a realist. I am an optimist and prefer to see the good in people and life.
Thanks for taking the time to read all that's here... If it floats your boat, you know what to do.. If not, please move on and I wish you well.. please don't bother sending any nasty opinionated e-mails wasting my time and yours. My hrs are very flexible for the moment..... Peace......
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Enough with the P.C. crap..........
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Posted:Aug 22, 2010 1:02 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2012 3:12 pm
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Honestly... I can take it. If we meet for a drink and there's no interest on your part, let's not spend hours talking and flirting if it's just not there for you. One reason I meet for a meet and greet/drink/walk (usually a time constricted thing, no long obligation) is that it is or should be a non-threatening no pressure thing. It's for you as well as for me, no pressure, easy out for you. So, if you have no interest in pursuing it further let's just chat, have a drink and go out separate ways. We'll both live, I'm sure. I'm a big girl, I know the site I'm on, and I also know that honestly is the best policy even if it's not what you think I want to hear. I would much rather have a drink with someone, find out the truth, than keep me waiting for the phone call you said you were going to make. I've lived long, learned much, and would much rather be treated honestly and yes, I've laughed much too. This site never ceases to amaze me lol
Now on the other hand if we float each other's boat... You should pursue your opportunity for a future encounter. Who knows what the possibilities could be. Always interesting to ponder....
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bitting, stinging, hurtful words.....
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Posted:Jul 25, 2010 2:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2010 6:51 pm
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Sometimes I blog for the sake of education (not that I have all the answers, but that I’ve made some really good mistakes, good because I’ve learned), sometimes just to share, sometime to enlighten one on my feelings/actions, and sometime just for the hell of it (and hoping it always makes a difference in the world in some small way)......
So here goes.... People say continually that age is nothing, only a number, I would disagree with that in some instances.... The number in life represents (generally) certain things, generational commonalities, experiences/phases of life, and sometimes the wisdom to know when to shut up....the lessons we learn along the way (if we are smart...)... I learned a long time ago not to speak if I am angry, my mouth speaks faster than my brain can process.. The words spoken out of anger are very hard to forget... we can forgive, but they hurt so that it is difficult to forget them sometimes...
I have from time to time received nasty/biting e-mails from those very angry and/or ignorant, perhaps both; some about the length and requests in my profile, to my size, to criticizing my choice of words/preferences, assumptions they’ve made about who I am or how I feel (I think my profile is pretty up front and honest). I’m pretty sure they've never learned to handle rejection well, or this situation reminds them of another circumstance, whatever the case.... Are we not all adults here? We do have the choice, no one is forcing you to read the profile, blogs, or check out my pics…. And unfortunately, I do realize that I’m probably preaching to the choir here…
I am fortunate that I have rather high sense of self-esteem and have learned through life that what is lashed out at, is not necessarily the thing one is angry about at the moment... but words can still hurt... Even from a stranger that has proven beyond all doubt is not someone I would want to be involved in any sort of relationship with.... They still hurt, from a humanistic aspect. I urge you to please choose your words wisely and know that your actions and communications do make a difference in the world.
I believe in God, but Karma is a bitch........
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"Prefer not to say"
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Posted:Jul 12, 2010 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2011 8:04 am
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OK,ok, so you are either lazy or not wanting to dulvuge information, but.... If you list "Prefer not to say" in your marital status section,you are either married or attached... so I won't be responding to that either...sorry.......
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It's Amazing....
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Posted:Jul 1, 2010 7:39 pm
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2014 6:15 pm
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or perhaps perplexing.... So you say you're a lawyer, CEO, COO, have your masters and/or an executive.... could you at least type a complete sentence...maybe do a spell check... at least fill out your profile.... hummmmmmmm and you wonder why you have no response????? If you have to type something in a word program and do a spell check.... that works usually, but you still have to be able to read what you've written before you hit send...
I'm sorry... I'm sure you guys run into the same thing... lol, or maybe you just don't care..... sorry.. just had to rant..that's it, I'm done...yes, i really am....
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Younger Men... 20 something
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Posted:May 10, 2010 10:16 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2012 9:05 pm
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Younger men. Hum. Now there seems to be a loaded subject (no pun intended). Inasmuch as I really do appreciate the attention (winks and e-mails) from you 20 something men, I just can't go there... Cougar seems to be the term these days, was cradle robber back in my day.. lol the title isn't the issue, I have a rule. No one younger than my youngest brother. I know I've dropped my age limit to 40, but sorry guys, just can't go any lower than that. Some of you do tempt me and make me wish I was a few years younger, but for what I'm looking for, I need to stand my ground on this one. Let me try to explain why. Some say that age is just a number and for the most part it is, but that number does represent things in a person's life, maturity, experiences, generational differences, and at times moral decisions. I also understand that this is a very general statement and some or the 35 yr olds I have met has led to my change in age.
Now here's a little something something for your 20 - 39 yr olds... you are to be commended on your willingness to put your self out there and go for the possibility, you seem to have the quality of assertiveness to your personality (try not to loose it), proof read your bios (look for typos), I know you guys like us "Mature" women, but don't use the word Mature.. lol... I know you want the experience..... yours will come in time.. that's another thing the number is good for.. lol just for the record, if I were in my 30's I'd jump your bones....
I will no longer be responding to any e-mails or winks to the 20-39 something guys sorry, I was responding just to be considerate, but I have a limit to the number I can send not being a paying member of this site. so to you guys, here�s my response. Thanks so much for your interest and e-mail/wink; however, you are much too young for me. I wish you all the best.
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