HALL PASS. freedom to play for a limited time.
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Posted:May 27, 2013 11:15 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2013 11:21 am
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We made a decision to break up. We were not happy. He wanted to have sex with others and I wanted to get married. The discussion of breaking up knocked the wind out of me. I wasn't expecting it. I wasn't the happiest I have ever been but I didn't think that we were to the point of breaking up.
I figured out that he had been cheating on me. We weren't married, but have been togethter for 7 years. We met on HotMatch.com and ended up getting together, moving in together and being a family for the past 5 years. I didn't know what happened.
I know that this is wrong, I appoligize in advance. He was fucking a midget! It hurt me so bad. My heart was broken. My best friend wasn't my best friend anymore. I didn't know what happened.
I got the idea that we needed to talk to a marriage counselor. I don't know if he talked to her before hand, but I know that I felt like I was being beaten down by him and the counselor. WTF? I made the appointment through my work benefits and the counselor was telling me that he didn't want to be with me, he didn't love me and I needed to face reality. FUCK YOU BITCH! Who the fuck do you think that you are to tell me that I need to face reality?
We drove there together and I wanted him to hurt as bad as I was hurting. I wanted to wreck and have him injured. Of course I didn't, but I did drive like a crazy person on the way home. I did manage to scare him. This was on a Wednesday and I stayed home from work on Thursday. We needed to talk. I didn't care about my job not being happy with me not giving notice to take off, I didn't care.
We talked all night long. I cried all night long. I talked and cried. He talked but I didn't hear what he was saying. I was thinking about all of the things that we have been through in the past 7 years and how he was taking his love from me without giving me a choice in anything. He was ruining my lifestyle that we had built together.
I told him that I was taking everything in the house except this stupid baseball cards. He could have that and his clothes, but nothing else. Everything was going with me. He said that he had somethings that were his and I couldn't have them. I had 2 cars, a house, a full household of everything. He walked in with 1 tv and his 's bedroom set, and a couch. And all of those stupid baseball cards.
We had bought furniture, a house, a car, and so much other that I am not willing to walk away from and just let him have it all. I didn't care if I had to rent a giant storage building. It was what he would have to give up if he wanted me gone. I don't think that he was willing.
By the next morning, we were talking about setting a wedding date in a few months. How did we get from breaking up to setting a date to get married? It is what I called a hall pass. He could have sex with anyone he wanted for 2 months, but after that date, we were getting married. He could sew his wild oats and then we would get married.
We worked out a contact. What was allowed and what wasn't. I wrote it up and he agreed to somethings, but disagreed to others. One major thing had to be that either of us couldn't refuse sex to the other when requested. I couldn't make him miss work because I wanted sex, but we could request sex and if we didn't have sex, it was breaking the contract. If the contract was broken, we had to pay each other off and end it.
Come back and see our contract and how things are going.
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