That 1 woman I seek life has a completely different set of likes and desires. Like most men on this site I would like a long term situation and prefer an actual relationship. with a women that can accept that this is part of who I am. Just a small part but still important part. When I am in a relationship I am monogamous. If she desires something more then I can say I am open to it and talking about it.
A women that can take control at times is a perfect fit. It actually s relieve stress since the rest of my life requires me to be in complete control. Hopefully that make sense in some way. My "fetish", "kink" or what ever you choose to it does not control my life or relationship when it comes to love. The only thing beyond my control when I am in love is I love unconditionally. It too is part of who I am but it is a large part and equally important as it is part of my core being.
If you think we might be a match please don't be afraid to ask me questions. I will be open and hst about everything. Anything worth having is worth the work to build and create it. Nothing in my life is set in st when it comes to fetishes or kinks. I am open minded and accept people for who they are. I only ask they do the same and trust in what they see and feel, not what others have put in their mind.