Too many profiles (vast majority women, some men) are on this site looking for a "relationship". I dont necessarily mean that they want to be BF GF but there are so many people on here who want to go out on dates, do boyfriend girlfriend things and have sex when the feeling is right. If thats your reason to be on here, go to plentyoffish. Because doing boyfriend girlfriend things = a relationship and a relationship=sex. This site is made for sexual people to meet other sexual people for sexual activities not boyfriend girlfriend activities.