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Well, I don't know if that was such a smart title but what the hell... I am not really sure where to begin or where this blog will take me.
I guess I should start with a little more about myself than I put on my profile. I like to put my thoughts to paper so to speak and at times I a sure I will offend. But I don't really care, opinions are like assholes and everyone has one.
With that said I welcome any and all comments just remember that I have the right to return comment and most likely will.
I have been told that I am passionate, quirky, loving and funny and oh yeah moody. Am I well to find out you will have to get to know me. I am real and if you don't think so well then move on sucka your wasting me time. Alot of the times my blogs will be about my life activities, especially sex but occasionally I may blog about something like I don't know erotica. I am a very sexual person and I am not ashamed of that, if I were why would I be on "The World's Largest Sex..." you get the picture. Oh and also, although I don't know why I am wasting my time because the assholes usually don't read blogs, but if I am not interested that means I AM NOT INTERESTED!!!!
I look forward to meeting some fun people here and hope i won't be disappointed.
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Posted:Aug 21, 2013 11:20 am
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2013 12:22 pm
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Ok folks one of my new besties is having a Going Away/SWAN SONG party for me at the Mon Chalet on August 24th.
I am leaving this as an open invite to all but am adding a clause to this...
I know there are some who read my blogs that are not how shall I say this... FANS of me. So if you are reading this I ask that you don't show up. If you choose to show up the place is big enough for everyone but don't come to try and spoil my fun. I have been ignoring the lot of you for months now and one more night will not be a bother to me.
Although as you ALL know I will not hesitate to say something to you if you over step your boundaries.
I have also posted something in the group which again I know some of you belong, so be an adult and stay the fuck away.
To the rest of you who will be in the area or would like to meet or say hello/goodbye please do...
I am moving in a week and will not look back... Ok so that's not true lol I cannot give up on my friendships I have made here in Colorado...
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On the move
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Posted:Aug 15, 2013 9:13 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2013 3:12 pm
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In approximately 2 1/2 weeks I will be on my way to Fort Riley Kansas. While job searching and wrapping everything up here in Colorado. The question has come to mind... When do I change my status here? Do I do it when I get out there or do it early? I am still getting emails from folks here and and don't know if its worth the time and energy knowing I will be leaving soon.
I will be at the Mon for a final swan song on the 24th of August but that will be the end of my playtime in Colorado.
Anyone have any experience with this? What did you do? When did you change your status?
I'm already having difficulty and heartbreak saying goodbye to BoyToy... I am hopeful but not optimistic we will make it through the move...
Any thoughts? Advise?
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Time for change
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Posted:Aug 9, 2013 7:33 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2013 8:04 pm
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The opportunity has risen for me to move to Kansas to live with my and I am taking it. Kansas??? You say, well yes its where the forces are guiding me to go for now. I will be about 8 hours from where I am now and plan to visit as often as I can.
As exciting as this change will be it will also be bittersweet. I will be leaving behind a few good friends but we will still connect via technology.
Boy toy and I had an amazing night the other night and were ready to move things to the next step... Obviously this has been put on hold and lord only knows what will happen. It saddens me that I may never know where we could have gone, but such is life and as you all know the only thing that is constant is change.
While settling in I will not be online, I will return once everything is squared away and will be looking to meet new people in my new hometown...
As soon as I get internet I will update my profile and once again blog...
This past month has definitely been a time for change for me. Tragically lost two school mates whom I will miss dearly. Met a great guy and of course had boy toy step up (only to have me have to take a step back).
I am excited and saddened about this change in my life, excited to meet new people and make a much needed change, but also saddened because of the obvious loss... It is much more difficult when you are leaving friends and lovers behind. I have been in Colorado for 14 yrs and although I have toyed with idea of leaving this beautiful state I never thought I would be heartbroken and begin to miss it before I left.
My life has been such that I have moved around the country for my (ex's) career and of course my move to Colorado so long ago to start over and give my a chance at a better life.
Just like moving here and starting over so long ago,this will be another new start. I do believe family is important and if I could have it my way I would have my family physically close to me here in Colorado. But since that is not possible right now I will move myself and my to Kansas so he can be closer to his sister.
I will not be meeting anyone new until I get settled in and as I mentioned before will make time to come back and see the people who I am leaving behind to start the next chapter in my new life.
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Little Black book
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Posted:Aug 6, 2013 5:01 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2013 8:42 pm
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Although I am sure most people's little black book has been replaced by a little BLACKBERRY... It just seemed like an appropriate title for this post...
The other night I was home relaxing and I get a text...
Him: Hey how are you?
Me: Hey Ok who is this?
Him: This is...
He sends a pic...
I was going through my contacts and found you.
Me: OK the pic looks familiar so does your name, have we met?
Him: Yes we met at your apt, you were amazing!
Me: thinking, " I have no fucking idea who this is!"
We talk a little more I kinda remember him. But it was 3 years ago that I met him!
Him: I actually got invited to a party up your way...
Would you like to go with me?
Me: No
Him: Ok
So... I am thinking, "who the fuck do you think you are texting me and asking me to go anywhere on such short notice?" I wonder how far down on his list in his little black book did he have to go til he got to my contact information?
After I said, "No." I realized I should have said, "Ok, I'll meet you at such and such a place at this time." And not showed up!
I was home and had no plans but that was because I chose to have no plans I was exhausted from work and just wanted to veg out.
Why do guys think that women are sitting at home with nothing to do and we will just jump at the chance to be with them?
I mean really? Am I that bad looking that I look like I am hard up for a pity fuck?
If you ask why I am so irate its two fold it irritates me when guys do that and I had another guy contact me today from a few months ago. Hey do you still want to meet? No was my response.
Guys am posting this for a learning tool to you and for the girls for you to know you are not alone! It happens to more than just you...
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Fellatio
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Posted:Jul 26, 2013 6:52 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2013 2:28 am
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Fellatio (fell a see o )Fellatio (also known as fellation,[1] and colloquially blowjob, BJ, giving head, or sucking off[2]) is an act of oral stimulation of the penis by a sexual partner or by oneself (autofellatio). It involves the stimulation of the penis by the use of the mouth, lips, tongue or throat.
While participating in some sexerational activities today this thought came to mind...
How can you explain if someone gives good head? Is it different things she can do to your cock? Does it turn you if she enjoys doing it?
Are there some things over others you enjoy more? Do you like it when your balls are played with, licked? What about below the balls the frenulum? Her using her tongue?
When I am participating in such activities I tend to listen to my partners body language to gauge what to do...
What are your turn offs? Getting her teeth grated across your cock? Lack of interest? Lack of experience?
Some women see it as demeaning to women... What do you think? Does it enhance your sex? Is it an intimate act or foreplay? Will you kiss your partner after getting a blow job? What if you cum in her mouth?
Do tell, spill your thoughts \8
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Kissing
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Posted:Jul 26, 2013 3:44 pm
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2013 4:34 pm
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]How many of you can tell from a kiss that the sex will be good or the chemistry is not there...
I know some people, couple mostly who have a rule, "No Kissing"
This is a hard one for me because I LOVE to kiss! Guys often ask me what turns you on the most and I reply, "kissing" Sometimes I get the response, "okay..." Other times I get, "I think kissing is hot!"
Well too think kissing is hot and also think its one of the most erotic things you can do with someone with your clothes on. That and touching, not groping just lightly touching certain body parts.
So back to kissing. When did it become a turn on to run your tongue along my lips? Sorry guys I don't like that. Kiss me like you mean it! Our tongues teasing each other... Gently run your lips down my ear and my neck... Whew enough of that!
At times I will lean in to kiss someone to determine their interest in me, and yes I have walked up to random men and women and kissed them full on the lips. I don't recall anyone pulling back, even the guy who's girl friend walked out of the bar when I laid on him... 
When I meet a couple who has this rule I feel as if it puts in a disadvantage. Again because I can tell so much from a kiss. I can tell its going to be good or eh not so much!
Some people feel that kissing is an intimate act that should only be done with your loved one. I don't understand that, you can bury your face in my pussy and ride me like Seattle Slew but you can't kiss me?
I feel the intimacy comes when you are in love with someone and any sexual act changes from pleasure of the primal kind to pleasure from being with someone you love and feel a certain deep connection.
So tell me folks what are your thoughts and opinions on kissing? Yes, no, maybe. OMG its so fucking hot to kiss!
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Poof its gone
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Posted:Jul 24, 2013 3:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2013 4:42 pm
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Just like that my post about age vs maturity is gone in a puff of smoke!
I emailed HotMatch.com to see what happened no response what a shock...
Oh well that's the first time that has happened to me.
Hopefully the last!
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Views, flirts, and hot list-
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Posted:Jul 10, 2013 3:16 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2013 7:35 pm
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I know I posted about this subject once but another thought came to mind today.
Being bored I actually looked at who viewed me,flirted, and hot listed. A question came to mind. Well two things actually lol...
First was do these people actually send these flirts and hot lists or is it the site doing it to promote themeselves? I know they send out ice breakers and I don't mind. I'm just curious how many are initiated by the member and how many are the site. Nothing like sending an email saying, "Hi thanks for the flirt." And not getting a response. 
And the other is I have been looking at who has viewed me (yes I have too much time on my hands), but I notice the same people view my profile like at least once a week. It makes me think, what do you think is going to change? Are you viewing it to see if you read something correctly? Are you waiting to see if I crash and burn? What is it?
Can someone tell me? You know curiousity killed the cat, and this cougar is not ready to die just yet!
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Ok I did it...
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Posted:Jul 8, 2013 3:28 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2013 10:34 am
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I did it...
I finally took BOY TOY out to the Mon Chalet. If you are not familiar with this establishment it is an Adult Motel in Aurora, Co.
I recommend you google it. Pretty cool place.
So now back to my adventure! I picked him up late due to traffic and was in a panic for a number of reasons. We have never ventured out of the bedroom. I was worried how he would react to the establishment and its guests. And how I would react to seeing him with someone else.
Knowing this I did exactly what I always do. Dove in head first! When we got there we met the rest of the group and I set up OUR space for the group and fidgeted around waiting for the rest. Once one of the guys came in I asked him..."Am I gonna be the first one to get naked?"
His reply, "Not if I beat you to it."
So off came the clothes and in the pool I went. Totally forgetting to introduce Boy Toy to this other person. I will call him Nordic for lack of another name. He dives in right behind me and then Boy Toy follows suit. We get out when the rest of the gang arrive and exchange introductions. I don't know how I can remember their names but most of them I can!
The night moves on and I ask Boy Toy if he is ready to break in the public bed, he wasn't ready so we waited a little longer. When we make it there he realizes he is a bit gun shy. OK go to the room fuck my brains out, I forget where I am for a min.
Nordic approaches and tells me one of the ladies would like to be with Boy Toy, is it ok? I jump out of the pool and walk over to him and tell him. He is excited so they go out and smoke come back in and have some fun, on the public bed! I was surprised but I was ok with it too. Our time was more intimate and that's cool. This night was for him to experience the place.
He had women fawning over him the whole night and not women from our group. At one point I over heard a woman telling him he is a nice looking young man. And seeing these women flirt with him was also fun.
It was a new experience for me too, to see him with other women and not be jealous of it. This was the biggest hurdle I thought I would have. Fear of getting insanely jealous of someone he was with, I don't mean girl fight jealous. Just worried I would lose him. Yes insecurity does creep in... But I knew he was coming home with me... And oddly enough found myself playing wing man.
I was truly impressed with the way he handled himself and so were the others as far as him being a newbie to the pond. He didn't approach anyone they approached him. He was comfortable and took to it just like a duck to water. We did have a bit of a hiccup but were able to work through it.
As we were driving home I asked him about the experience and he said he enjoyed himself but expected a younger crowd. I agreed and told him I was surprised there weren't more people and a more diverse age group. Boy Toy is 27  Over all he had fun and I told him he seemed to have a few admirers. He asked me how I knew and I told him I was watching, but I wasn't going to interfere. He seemed a bit surprised not knowing I was watching because I basically left him on his accord and checked in with him.
I am looking forward to possibly introducing him to other new facets of the lifestyle but have to ensure there are others present who are close to his age.
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UNICORN
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Posted:Jul 5, 2013 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2013 3:36 pm
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The unicorn is a legendary animal from European folklore that resembles a white with a large, pointed, spiraling horn projecting from its forehead, and sometimes a goat's beard and cloven hooves. First mentioned by the ancient Greeks, it became the most important imaginary animal of the Middle Ages and Renaissance when it was commonly described as an extremely wild woodland creature, a symbol of purity and grace, which could only be captured by a virgin.
If you are experienced in the lifestyle you know that this has a slightly different meaning... Basically means a bi female who is willing to play or be in a relationship with a couple. We are called this because we are elusive and difficult to find.
Although many are aware of the difficulty of finding said UNICORN. There are still who think its an easy thing to do...
Case in point. Boy toy has decided he wants to have woman join us for at least one adventure in the bedroom. I agreed being a unicorn myself and knowing this won't happen over night. Then he says the words I hate to hear!
"find someone for tonight."
"Are you fucking kidding me?????" I think then I educate him on the UNICORN...
"Its not that easy babe.I don't know any other bi women and they usually want to meet and get to know me before they have sex."
His response..."K"
I can find a guy faster and easier than I can a girl. Sorry its just a process that's why bi females are so coveted."
Him, "OK no problem."
Well that was easier than I expected! Another of the masses taught on the ways of the UNICORN!
Have any of you had difficulty finding a 2nd female? I know I get approached often and more often than not will not join the couple for one reason or another.
What has been your experience with the bi female? Difficult or easy to find? Any tips?
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Drama
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Posted:Jun 30, 2013 11:40 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2013 3:10 pm
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Everyone has it but some like to cause it or tell everyone about theirs.
We all know the drama queens, and kings,its how you deal with them that sets you apart.
Some of them whine about the problems in their lives to everyone and want you to feel sorry for them while they are the prime reason they have the drama! Have a boyfriend/lover that treats you like crap? Who's fault is that? Your disrespecting you? Again go look in the mirror!
You also have those who like to stir up trouble by talking shit. "Did you know she fucked this one and her b/f didn't know?" Shut the fuck up! Its none of your business and all you are doing is starting drama.
Of course to go along with that one is the one's who tell the injured party about it. "Girl, I only told you so that you were in the know and see how he's treating you?" No you didn't bitch you told her because you love to stir up the fucking drama!
There are others who like to be in a group and bring something up knowing its going to start trouble with someone in the group. And of course this causes people to take sides.
You also have the people who can't let go of the drama. They have continue to dredge things up and not let go. Or have to do things to continue the drama. I try to let it go when someone continues to drag it out. Emotionally its draining to continue it.
So how do you avoid these situations? I would love to know...
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My most recent meeting...
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Posted:Jun 30, 2013 7:39 am
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2013 8:14 am
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For those of you that have been following my blogs recently you have read about my train wreck.
This experience had me to the point of almost deleting my account. Once I calmed down and realized I use HotMatch.com for more than meeting people I decided to stay.
A few days ago I met a guy at a park near my place. We had been emailing for over a month and had some issue with making plans due to scheduling.
We finally nail down a date and it arrives. Colorado has been a bit dry up until two days ago and my allergies were on overtime.
I was on my home from work thinking, "I can't wait to get home, shower and go to bed!" Then I realize I made plans to meet this guy. SHIT!
Get home shower, hope the allergies are calmed down by the steam and get ready to go.
So far so good I arrive and I'm feeling ok. While I'm walking to meet him my head starts to clog. Great now I sound like I have a cold!
We meet I apologize to him for sounding nasally due to my allergies.
He smiles and says its ok.
Next my nose starts to run! Are you effin kidding me??? Of course I have no tissue so I'm trying to gracefully stop it from running down my face.
He asks if I'm ok I say, "Yes just these damn allergies!"
Throughout the entire meet I am apologizing for sounding and looking like a 5 yr old with a cold. And mentioning how hot I must be with my nose running and eyes swelling. He asked me if I wanted to leave and I did in a sense but wanted to make sure things were ok with us.
Shortly after that the allergies calmed down and I told him I almost cancelled but didn't want him to think I was being a flake or blowing him off. He told me he was glad I didn't but I could have rescheduled.We actually were able to hold a conversation without interruption of my nasal drainage and I really didn't want to leave but was fearful I would have another allergy attack.
He is a sweet guy from what I picked up from him and I do hope we can see each other again.
With so many different thoughts on what HotMatch.com is all about I'm glad I have the opportunity to meet some who are like him. 
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The big question: A PUBLIC SAFETY ANNOUNCEMENT
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Posted:Jun 29, 2013 7:26 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 12:10 am
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I went to the doctor for my annual physical and had ALL the tests run like I do every year. When I got my results which no surprise to me were negative it made me think and I asked a partner when the last time was he got tested. He snorted and said,"never!"
WOW!!! In this day and age I am blown away by this response! It made me glad that in most cases I demanded my partners use condoms. Now I know that a condom won't prevent all STDs but it gives me a better chance of not getting certain ones!
During the past year I have met a lot of people who chose to go "bareback" with anyone and everyone they fuck... This includes couples who play separate too. Don't get me wrong I am not judging because I too get that wild hair and will do it... But what happens if you do pick up something from someone? And worse yet, what if you give it to someone else?!
Remember: When you fuck someone, you have fucked everyone they have fucked before you... (meaning they can pass shit on to you from someone else unwittingly)
Where does the responsibility to yourself and your partners stop? How can you trust everyone when there is no stereotype of who has an STD? Do you just assume everyone gets tested and takes care of themselves? I have to admit that I have done this in the past, even had a partner tell me he came in contact with someone who contracted an STD he tested negative and so did I; but think about it... Six years ago I dodged a bullet!
Which brings me to another question... If you pick up an STD would you contact your partner(s) and tell them? I know I would, but in some cases would be mortified or scared shitless they would never talk to me again and I would mourn the loss of amazing sex, or worse yet they would tell the world I gave them and STD! (even thought they could have given it to me). But what about the strange you had last weekend???? You can't tell him/her because you don't even know their name! I know I am guilty of this too, who doesn't want a little strange from time to time... But I am more likely to use protection in those cases. (Again I know its not 100
Isn't it your responsibility to notify them that they may have been exposed to or exposed you to an STD?
If you did become exposed, would you change your lifestyle or just keep going the same way and play the crap shoot?
When talking with my doctor, the same one I have had for 6 yrs now she advised me she tells her patients, "Use condoms, get tested yearly, if you have any abnormal symptoms call, if you decide to have unprotected sex with a regular monogamous partner both get tested prior to doing so." Wise words in my book!
Sorry if I sound like I am being a downer but its just something that has loomed in my mind especially after this years activities and events in the lifestyle.
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