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After three dead husbands, a good man who got away, an ex now business partner, several bizarre relationships with wonderful men, lots of clients, playmates and friends with benefits, and even a few missteps, I've decided to just be me for a while and enjoy the single life...on my terms!
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A Bit of an Update
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Posted:Jun 17, 2015 4:29 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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Yes, you may have noticed the username or profile name has changed. I just didn't have time to alter the profile itself is on my agenda for the next few days.
Thank you very much to the only person who answered my last poll. I did actually get to host a strip poker night, but it was on the seventeenth. I had a romantic date on the holiday, which led to a late night at the bar and a stay at the bath house. So I got a lot of the list in. Thank you very much for your input.
Dee has been doing a lot of traveling since the divorce became final. Paris, Thailand, Treasure Island. He is also preparing for his last semester of teaching before he completely retires. He also has a young thing he has moved in with him. So life is going well for him.
Myself, the massage business is keeping me busy. The three publications I own and write for will turn ten years old next year. I'm really excited about that. I continue to host strip poker nights, twice a month, but I also host a massage party every other month and joined another group that has orgies every week. In addition, I have been recycling guys from my past, turning friends into friends with benefits and accepting applications for new guys to become a part of my life or my world.
That's it for me for now. I may not be Gwen Stefani, but I'll holler back when I can!
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Foreign Affairs!
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Posted:Dec 30, 2013 12:00 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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As much as I love Tina Turner, that was not one of her better songs. I've decided to wrap up the end of the year feeling cosmopolitan, and count down my ten favorite "relationships" with men from other places.
Now I should preface this by saying that I have a weird saying I use to describe myself. The average white man can get my attention, but it takes and exceptional or extraordinary anything else. That phrase basically boils down to body hair. Minus the feet, the fingers and the back, hair anywhere else is a turn on for me. And since the darker skinned guys, for the most part, don't grow it that well, white guys have almost half the battle won already. But I'm a total package kind of guy, so if you have other attributes, I will at least give you a shot. And no, I'm not a size queen, as long as it works! With that, let the games begin!
10) I'm not actually sure where Ken came from. He was a patron at one of the stores I use to manage. But he was by far the most well built Asian I ever met in my life. It didn't hurt that he had that geeky, Clark Kent thing going on as well. We all know they can be quite bright. But the day we found each other at a mutual friend's pool party, he was on me like white on rice, not that I mind. And contrary to popular belief, some of them actually have it going on below the waist. In his case, front and back. About his only flaw was no hair on the muscular chest of his. But that pool party was the start of great things to cum.
9) Caesar was a Greek~French stripper at one of my favorite bars back in the day. And from the neck down, he was an Adonis. I even kind of liked his Fabio hair at the time. But something about his grill worked my nerves. But I didn't have to kiss him, just ravish that awesome body of his. And he was a sweetheart to boot. I will never forget how he saved me from myself, at a co-ed orgy with some wild recreationals.
 Mike was from the Dominican Republic, and there was something between us from the moment we met. We were both seeing other people at the time, but he was so worth the wait. That slab of meat that swung between his massive thighs, connected in the back by two beautiful mounds of butterscotch flesh, that muscular frame, that strange natural musk he wore so well. I easily got over the teeth and the tattoo for this one. For one brief, hot summer, we sizzled!
7) Osman was this gorgeous Arab man who worked with me at the museum. The job frowned on employees dating each other, but we didn't think it counted that we only got together in the only large single stall bathroom in the place. We'd just lock the doors and go at it. An exceptional kisser, another fine piece of meat and a beautiful ass gave me much more to enjoy that the exhibits!
6) Gabor was another stripper I grew quite fond of, this one from Sweden. Not buxom blonds for me, my blond was all muscle, well, except for maybe the two heads. A butt you would dream about, an awesome face and that chest and those arms made him nearly irresistible. Unfortunately, many tried to take advantage of his beauty and naivete, and I found myself wavering between my own desires and his need of a real, true friend. But the lines did get blurred several times before he went home.
5) Back in the day, I was also known for acclimating and showing the ropes to the bi-curious and new gays. The only real problem with that is sometimes you dealt with guys who wouldn't normally be your type. One of my better ones who fit this category was Phil. A thin, feminine bottom boy from the Philippines, the only thing that really worked for me as indeed his ass, and the huge messes he would make, on the rare occasion I would decide to let them go and see the show instead. But he learned his lessons well, and even got into the group scene before he moved to New England.
4) Keith was my little Mexican who spoiled me rotten because our "relationship" seemed so one-sided. I preferred making out, eating his ass out and then fucking him. He preferred getting his average dick sucked off to completion. So he would just show up with orchids, bottles of cologne and other gifts for our dates, which usually consisted of dinner, dancing, road head and him dropping me off at a bar on his way home. Did I mentioned he lived about an hour away? But it was cool and even fun, until his job took him to another state.
3) Pedro use to work for me back when I was in the restaurant game. My "dream team" as I called them consisted of a large black girl, three guys, (one I was crushing on and the other two I would eventually get to play with) and myself. Pedro really did all the hard, non-public work and I would reward him in any way I could. Such a sweetheart, and not too bad on the eyes either, he would usually settle for his elevated pay rate and a blow job, though I would do more when I could. He had the dream cream that only had me looking at Dairy Queen for blizzards!
2) Fuad was my bar buddy from Bosnia. Now we were crazy raunchy when we got together. He would stir my 151 and Coke with his dick, then complain about the ice making it cold and make me warm it up right there at the bar, not that I minded. I was one of the few people that he not only hang with at the bar for hours, but that he would repeatedly go to for sexual favors. You usually got one shot at him and it was over. I may very well be the only one to rim his ass, and I did it more than once, and he frequently unloaded in my mouth as well. We would also try to play with each other's erogenous zones in public, and trick each other into dastardly sexual deeds. And we carried on this way for nearly a decade.
1) I actually went to school with Taco, though we wouldn't fully enjoy each other's company until after we graduated. I called him Taco because his complexion reminded me of a taco shell, that gorgeous golden brown with the occasional dark dot. It didn't hurt that he was packing meat, made your mouth water looking at him, and no matter where you put you mouth at on him, it was good! He was born in Mexico but his dad was black. I would be hard pressed to say one bad thing about him, other than I just couldn't get enough of him. For a period in time, Taco replaced fried chicken as my favorite food.
Well, I'm feeling like I need to get off of here for a bit. But please allow me to wish all of my readers a healthy, magical and prosperous 2014!
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Top Ten African American Playmates (Thus Far)
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Posted:Dec 7, 2013 3:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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I found myself thinking about this, after my last massage left here Wednesday night. Since I'm single around the holidays, you will probably see a lot of these posts between now and the new year. So if it isn't your thing, take a month away from me. In the meantime, I will not use their real names, just a nickname that seems appropriate.
10) Tiny, because he is just the opposite. He's been cumming around for years now, mainly to get his large cock sucked, though he has sucked mine once or twice. Doesn't do much else, and his ass is never clean enough to do anything with. But when they are swinging a thick, 10.5 down there, how do you refuse?
9) J.T., since we have the same name, we will use the initials for Jay #2. He's the that started this post. Young, skinny, bony thin , with a surprisingly nice ass and a schlong that is definitely the bigger thing on him. I couldn't decide which was larger, his or ten's, until I got it in my mouth. #10 is thicker, but #9 is longer, about eleven or so. He also had a tight, tasty ass and even played with me some.
Shorty, for two reasons. One, he was tall, 6'3 or so. Two, the first time I saw his cock, it feel out of the leg of his shorts. That, on top of a gorgeous face and an intoxicating, masculine musk, made him a quick and frequent favorite of mine. And he let me partake in one of my fetishes, rare for a black guy to do for me!
7) Canally, because we met on the canal. We was well built, always smelled great, a great kisser and was by far the hairiest black man I have ever met in my life, and I love hair!
6) Beau! OMG, he was beautiful, nicely built, hairy chest and a wonderful dancer. Why the name? Because he was bowlegged, which made his walk so sexy to me, especially in those tight jeans he use to wear. And the only thing better than looking at his ass in those jeans was looking at it when they came off. I never knew an ass could be that gorgeous. And I loved getting my regular taste of those honey buns!
5) Tony, and now that I think of it, Beau should be here and Tony up there. Tony was the second guy I ever played with in my life, and it went on for four years. He had great hair, and smelled good, but was really more trouble than he was worth. Apparently, he dated one of my sisters as well, but I had him first. And sadly, there were two other guys on the list with the same distinction, but they were with the other sister.
4) Blackie, because he was extremely dark. In most of my dealings with black men, I'm either a sucker and or the fucker. This is one of the rare guys who actually entered my tunnel of love, and he was one of two guys who was perfectly equipped to do it. Long enough to hit both spots, with just enough girth to make it uncomfortable, not painful. Damn, I'm feeling the urge to bottom again.
3) Patch, because he had a light birthmark on his nice, hairless chest. He was one of the better selections from my baby sister. It is a very long story, but one drunken night, he fell asleep in bed with her, but woke up in the morning with me. Because of the situation, I led him to believe we had done something, and kicked him out of my house! But I guess he figured the damage was done, because he kept coming back, even though she too was gone.
2) BiGuy! You guessed it, the other one my baby sister had, only after me. He was the hottest guy in the neighborhood, and everybody wanted him, and he would do just about anyone, for a price. Fortunately, I was on like a retainer, where he would do favors for me and the ask for larger things from me when he needed them, like rent or a car payment. Hard to believe, he was worth every penny, even if he didn't have that much in the front to work with. On top of being sexy as hell with a dreamy ass and a great build, he also had marvelous personality and an amazing sense of humor. He was just a great guy to be around. He was also the first of a rare few guys who could actually get me off without my assistance. The first time is one hell of a story, but we will save it for another time. And...
1) Dancer, because he was my favorite of three black strippers I use to hang out with. One was well built but was dark and his breath was horrendous. Another was tall, hung and a great kisser, but really wasn't much to look at. And then there was Dancer, who was near perfect, with his small, muscular body, hairy chest, tight cute butt, well endowed, gorgeous face, smelled good and was one hell of a kisser.
All right, I need to get off now. Until next time...
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Let Me Say It One More Time!!!
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Posted:Oct 6, 2013 11:35 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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Dee & Jay are no longer a couple. We still run a massage business together. Actually, to be more accurate, we run separate massage businesses. Jay works in Indianapolis and Dee is now in Brownsburg. And then we still do four hand massages in Brownsburg.
I will change the picture shortly, and may try to change the name of this profile. But I need to make it clear that we are rarely play these days, and even less together with a third.
I will take messages comments and messages for Dee and myself. And I relay his to him. It is not a hostile split at all. I guess you could say we were cramping each others' styles and now we have the freedom to be ourselves.
Thank you very much. Hope you will keep reading and have a wonderful October!
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Update Before the Return!
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Posted:Aug 18, 2013 4:54 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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It has been a while since we last spoke, so I thought I would bring you up to speed before we return to the usual blog fare.
Dee is enjoying his life in a small town, though he says he is always bored and it is far too quiet. He will be adding another year to his age this week, and unfortunately has a requested doctor's appointment the day after. He also returns to teaching this week. He has also decided to semi retire from massages, doing only four hands and out call massages.And since he was always more sexual than I was, he is hooking up quite a bit as well.
I'm enjoying my friends again, and I enjoy my new home, despite the neighborhood. I still spend time with the maintenance boy at out other place, as well as the hot stud across the street. I do the bulk of the work with the massage business, as well as teach computers and work at the museum. I started a new venture that I hope to make a huge success. And rather than hooking up, I have chosen to spend time with a few guys, and see if it feels right to rock their world. I can't just give this chocolate brown sugar to just anybody! lol
And I'm still getting strange occurrences happening to me. Like the night, a sexy, young black man, pull up to me and whipped out his beautiful ten inches of masculinity for me to see. But he wanted money and I had eleven inches of regular meat coming over later. Still, it was a great free show.
Or the guy who approached me at the bar about licking my feet and sucking my toes. I may never wear sandals again. But I went ahead and let him do it after he bought two rounds of drinks.
Or accidentally showing up on the last night that our local male stripper bar was open. Fortunately, I had enough business cards to give all the hot guys one with a nice tip.
Or being at my favorite bar for Undie Mondays and enjoying a two hour make-out session with a familiar face. Unfortunately, it did mean I wore a pair of sexy underwear for nothing, but hey, we will just call it even!
Until next time,join in nature's song. Hum with the bees. Sing with the birds. And send all the half dressed, masculine eye candy in my direction!
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Bad News All Around!!!
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Posted:May 21, 2013 10:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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As you may know by now, Dee is no longer here. He went west to be closer to his family. This is my first night without him. And although most of my neighbors were sending me sympathy and condolences, I was really quite fine with it. We both knew it was coming and tried to make it as painless as possible. And he's already planning for me to hang out there sometime.
Unfortunately, it came with some unexpected difficulties, the biggest of them being me also having to move. Not only does the landlord want to go up on the rent, but he wants me to pay another deposit. So I'm still trying to put the funds together to do that, but also preparing for the move I really don't want to make.
What will I miss most about this place? The guys! The maintenance guy is adorable and a sweetheart to boot. My next door neighbor is always having party with some of the hottest, most open-minded young men there. There's an absolutely gorgeous guy across the street who comes over once a week to hang out, literally. Plus the massage business has been here long enough that most of our are familiar with it, and the word of mouth business is incredible. So many reasons to stay.
Wish me luck as I try to pull off a minor miracle here. I will keep you posted.
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Just An Idea!!!
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Posted:Apr 20, 2013 11:44 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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So now that my birthday celebration is over and Dee will be moving out in about a month, I've been trying to decided what to do with myself. Yes, we still plan to do some four hand massages, but most of the business will just me giving various kinds of massages. And I still have my regular job, and help out with several others. And I have my friends and stuff, but it just feels like with my lover, roommate and business partner leaving, I should have some sort of project or something, to keep occupied in this big place.
Then it donned on me. I'm a pretty good cook and a bit of a neat freak, and there is plenty of room, why not start a bed and breakfast?
I'm located close enough to downtown to walk just about anywhere you'd want to go. Since I have lived here most of my life, I know downtown like the back of my hand, so I could be a tour guide for some. And because of my history with the local gay community, I could really help the visiting gay guy with the bars, the bath houses and the male stripper bar here. Throw in my experiences as a masseur and a personal assistant, and I could make your stay in Indy absolutely wonderful.
Just a thought!
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Updated~ Jay's Birthday Celebration!!!
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Posted:Mar 23, 2013 9:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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Now technically, we started celebrating Jay's birthday at the beginning of March, at his two favorite bars here in the city. We also went to his favorite bar in St. Petersburg, Florida, Kansas City, Missouri and Saint Louis, Missouri. We kicked it up another notch last week when we returned, and had a blow out Wednesday night, including strippers, and yet another stroke of luck hit him as one of his favorite straight guys in the world, finally let him see what he was missing! I swear, no one can be lucky than Jay. But that said, here is the birthday boy himself!!!
I can't believe I have to put down my drink to type this, but I remembered there are some things I need to do here.
Well, we are kicking it up another notch for the last week of March, and you guys are partially responsible. After reading your responses to our post, go down two if you haven't a clue what I'm referring to, we are hosting three parties this week, in honor of yours truly.
The first is on the 27th, and it will be a Sir-Cum-ference Party. Yes, I will be surrounded by hot naked guys, playing amongst themselves or letting me do what I rarely get to do these days. I will be very selected about the guest list, so I know everyone will fit the bill. And literally, when the time comes, you will yourself to me.
The following day will be our Massage Party. Yes, everyone will work on everyone, and everyone will get a shot on the massage table as well. The hope is that everyone will get a full body massage, plus a happy ending. I will be a little less finicky about the guys here.
And on the 30th, we will be hosting our monthly strip poker game. Yes the rules will be a bit raunchier than usual, and the birthday boy will be giving a select few door prizes as they arrived. I will be somewhat picky about the guest list as well. Everyone is required to bring the birthday boy a gift to attend, but I know a great time will be had by all. Everything will be provided for these events.
Now, I have compiled a list of guys from this site who have an automatic invite to any or all of these events. These guys have either become our friends here, read, responded to or watch our blog, have written to us personally, or have made it on our hot list. Since I couldn't list them all, I also tried to keep them local, within fifty miles of us, with a few exceptions. They are: nudedude1960, needakinkygirl4m, bigtim191, youngbuck02007, upforfun212, kegger1985, masc4same46201, rd_hite, hungfun4u82, averagejoe46815, aceone125, christo6785100, funguy4u2bwithme, bafc53, countrycowboy67, badcumpany, alittleIrishnya, handsOnme, CBrown16, indianafun1, discreetfun934, downtownguy1975, cloudbiter09, and RDre1227. We aren't oppose to others inquiring, but these are guaranteed if they want to hang out with us.
Now for those of you who don't already know, Dee and Jay have decided to go our separate ways after his birthday. It is a mutual decision, as he wants to be closer to his family and I plan to resume life as I knew it before him. So for the month of April, if some of you are still trying to get a threeway in with us, you need to start booking those in now. Of course, we will host. And some of you have also indicated wanting a small or large group, or orgy together with us. So if you are willing to do your part and get some guys to attend with you, we will try to get those in as well. ONLY for the month of March, and please make sure they are guys only affairs.
Thank you so much for hanging out with us here. The blog will continue under Jay after April. But in the meantime, keep on writing, reading and checking us out. We greatly appreciate it and you!!!
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Jay's Birthday Celebration!!!
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Posted:Mar 10, 2013 9:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 12:47 pm
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If you are wondering about the last poll we posted, here is your answer!!!
Jay's favorite bar is hosting a month long celebration for their longtime and favorite customer. Bringing back some of his favorite drinks like Hot Sex and White Russians. Old employees are popping to see him. Guy hasn't paid for a drink yet, and the body shots he has collected and where they let him drink them from. In addition, the bar he use to work at, and his second favorite bar, are sending strippers from the past and present to entertain him. Lucky bastard!
He's even getting gifts from all over. Two his sexy guy friends from Europe have sent him pictures of themselves and calenders. His friends in Kansas City have sent him bottles of liquor. A former playmate in Pennsylvania has sent him an outfit that fits him like a glove in all the right places. The bitch has led a charmed life thus far.
So what does that have to do with the poll and you? We have decided to host several events in honor of the occasion. In addition to his free bath house visit, there will be what we hope will be an orgy on the 27th, running from one to four in the afternoon. He never takes off from work. On the 28th, we are hosting a massage party from three to eight in the evening. And those of you who know him knows he will not do without a strip poker game. So the hope it that strip poker game starting at nine at night on the 30th will turn into a small group affair. In addition, we are not oppose to arranging a few threeways during the month with some hot and sexy guys. So that should cover everything you guys voted for in the poll.
I guess I will go ahead and warn you that the very next post will be Jay's personal invitation list for these affairs from this site. Don't worry! If you are not on the hot list, friends list, watch list, blog readers or have never written us, you should be safe. But if you haven't and are interested, you had better do something now. He's planning to write it this week to give the far away guys time to make arrangements to attend! lol How considerate of him, huh?
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