KateNxtcy - yes I was talking bout you
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Posted:Apr 17, 2008 11:04 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 4:54 pm
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Hey guys,
yes I was talking about you with the below problem. I can not answer again to your blog post so I will write up over here. On the other hand I am not only talking on your behalf but rather on everybody that is concerned. I hope for you, them and us all that this issue will be resolved at some stage, but then I fear that nothing ever will happen, judgement based on your year long discussion with this site...
Good luck still
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thanks for your comments on my post, but I can not answer you...
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Posted:Apr 13, 2008 7:52 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 4:54 pm
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I want to thank EnchantingWench and BlackHeatLust for your comments on my post. Yest it is important to speak it out, even if nothing is going to change. The couple in question tried to answer to my post and I tried to answer your comments on my own post, but nothing goes. All I can do is create new posts as this process does not require me to put the stupid confirmation number. I guess if HotMatch.com reads this post, they will make it mandatory for adding a post as well? Thanks again for your reactions, support and thoughts. I just fear nothing is ever going to change on this site 
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What about HotMatch.com? do they care about their paying customer?
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Posted:Mar 31, 2008 2:07 am
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2018 2:17 pm
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What is going on? I had an email from good friend of mine fighting with HotMatch.com. The fight is so stupid I had to write a Blog about it, hoping that the What is going on? I had an email from good friend of mine fighting with HotMatch.com. The fight is so stupid I had to write a Blog about it, hoping that the people making this website would care a dime. But then, from their reaction, most likely they won’t give a cent worth of thoughts on what is going on here.
My friends are a couple that has been on this site for a long time and always been paying customers. Now, I know that all of us in China, we know there is an issue with the confirmation number when we want to write emails or posts on the groups. And this issue has been discussed already plenty of times so I don’t want to take the discussion up again.
I want to rant about this website’s customer service completely ignoring customers questions, problems and complaints. At some stage it even looks like HotMatch.com would not care if they loose long term paying customers. I mean that they don’t care about cheapskates like me does not make me wonder. But customers that have been paying and writing friendly mail to inquire about some issue they are having with this site?
Dear HotMatch.com,
in the name of all paying customers, cut the cr&# telling your paying customers everything about pop up blockers in different internet programs and simply tell us the only and true reason why we can not see your stupid confirmation number in China. And do something about it instead of letting paying customers wait for month without even being able to reply to mails of their friends. Or at least give them the well known answers to their issues as they have been discussed previously already. Or do you just care about the money and not about the needs of your ? I mean why on earth would somebody be paying for your website if it is not for getting in touch with other members? And then you let them pay merrily, knowing that they can NOT contact other customers?
Well done HotMatch.com, I am sure you have two more satisfied customer so far..
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新年快乐 - Happy New Year
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Posted:Feb 1, 2008 6:25 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 4:54 pm
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The coldest winter since 50 years in Guangdong and I am caught in the middle. I fell sick, I stayed sick, I went lethargic and it got worse. Can you imagine it is around 0 degree (Celsius) of course, there is no heating in your place, All you can do is to creep under the blanket and wait till it is over. Even if you have a naughty friend or 2 with you, you don’t dare to get naughty together, the blanket could move and expose naked body parts to the freezing air. The weather forecast said that this would go on for another week at least. Where is the point?
What are you guys doing to warm yourselves up? Sauna? (S)Exercise? Flying to some tropical location and wait there till the winter is over?
新年快乐, Happy New Year to all of you
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Seasons greeting
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Posted:Dec 20, 2007 8:37 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2008 9:47 pm
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Finally it is Christmas again. Finally? Are we really glad about this season? Well to be honest and true, I am less keen on it.
I am now realizing that I live in a country where the Christmas tradition hardly exists. It seems that the only fact known about this, to us so special season, is the fact that you have to give and receive expensive presents and send Christmas cards to everybody. So every day my email is swamped with Christmas special offers and colorful, blinking Season’s greetings. Also the consume culture has been adapted well in this country. Besides the fact that we are not really having any holidays, it is still expected that we have to run around and shop for Christmas gifts, fighting and shouting our way through heavily overcrowded shops with stressed and shop assistants. So even Christmas does de facto not exist in China, everybody seems to be so busy and hectic.
My understanding of Christmas is a time where you can calm down, reflect, pass more (gentle, quality or even naughty) time with your beloved one(s), this seems to be not the case for me.
But I don’t want to miss out on wishing you all a merry Christmas, may you at least find some moments of peace, get some rest and enjoy a lot of wonderful naughty moments with whoever is around you
Oh my god ‒ New Year is coming up soon
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Swing low...
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Posted:Nov 26, 2007 12:49 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 4:54 pm
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I see many discussions about the active swinging scene in China and many friends have been approaching me and asked how to go about it if they want to live out their swinging fantasies. Even that I am not a very active swinger; I am in loose touch with this kind of lifestyle and in the past I have been enjoying a sometimes more, sometimes less active swinging lifestyle. Through my connections I have been in touch with active swingers in China, participated a few times in such events and what I am writing today, is mostly based on what I have been experiencing, reading and hearing from other sources about the scene in China.
Where in Europe swinging has become somewhat of a lifestyle question and nothing that is being treated as secluded and hidden as in China, here it is still kind of Stone Age for any related activities. I have been in touch with active swingers, participated rarely in such events and have been reading and hearing from other sources about the scene in China.
Right now I think that in China there are 2 categories of the scene:
1. Mixed couples where the male is a foreigner
2. Foreign couples
3. Chinese among themselves (foreigners are rarely admited to these events)...
Very rarely I have heard of the above mixing and something more interracial going on. In the end it is also about something very important if you are going to have a swinging session: Understanding. The language barrier will simply make it difficult for all involved parties to get to a mutual understanding.
Anyway there are no swinging clubs or anything that comes near to it in China. Those private parties, according to my knowledge, are mostly organized by the swingers and takes place in hotel rooms or private houses and one must be connected with the hosts or other invited guests to be able to participate and enjoy this lifestyle.
In the end, I don’t want to miss to refer and refer the blog of an experienced couple in Shenzhen, “pjdavis”. Don’t miss out reading if your interested in the swinging scene. Their blog is very well written and gives you, besides some interesting observations, certainly you a chuckle or two.
Looking forward to your feed back, experience...
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some basic thoughts
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Posted:Nov 22, 2007 11:18 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 4:54 pm
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I have been on this website for quite a while now. Have been trying this and that on here. But I am still and always astonished about the comment and reactions of some of the members on this site. I have been searching for 2 more guys, because a friend of mine (female) wanted to try it with 3 males for the first time.
Let me also quickly explain that I am a standard member, because being in China, even if you are a paying member, you can not contact other member as there seems to be some technical issues. Anyhow that was the reason why we left a message in the interest group setting stating clearly to contact me if interested.
Coming back to what I want to “rant” about is the kind of reactions we have been getting on that very posting in an interest group section in which we described shortly what we were looking for at that stage. Hoping that we get some short interesting introductions and some hints on how to contact the male candidates  (you all know what I mean), we got high quality answers like:
- I hope join
- Baby I like it
- I'd like to join u
That left me wondering what kind of people are actually posting on this site. I was at that point seriously wondering if those people are actually believing that they will get a reaction from us? Well if that is not enough and we actually should not have been bothered about such dull and stupid reactions to our posting, I saw something much later that really got me seriously wondering. Another couple was searching for a few guys for his wife and after one poster did not get invited, he was insulting the couple on their own blog calling them ass and sack.
I could go on to rant about the ill manners of some people in here but let’s turn this in a fun game. Who else saw some really fun and worth mentioning comments to share with me here?
Have fun out there and be safe
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