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SFL dating in a nutshell...  

HoneyEcomb 41F
67 posts
6/14/2019 3:37 pm

Last Read:
6/19/2019 2:10 pm

SFL dating in a nutshell...

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Honey xoxo


Tsosdd1 54M

6/18/2019 7:45 am

OMG... you are too interesting, sexy and intelligent to waste your time with a dude like that... you need to move further north, like right around the block from me


HoneyEcomb replies on 6/19/2019 2:16 pm:
Come get me!

OrangeC47 39M

6/17/2019 11:21 pm

Wow, this guy is something else! A couple of thoughts:

-- Dating in South Florida really does suck, both for women AND men. This is a very superficial place where people (of both sexes) are very judgy and just aren't kind to others. There are some awesome people here, but you have to sort through all the jerks to find them. It can be exhausting at times.

-- A lot of guys (especially in South Florida) tend to have a very "machismo" attitude because they think that's what works with women and/or because they associate that with confidence and "true" manhood. From the texts you posted, it's pretty clear that this guy was so insecure that he thought you were questioning his sexuality when you started talking about rimming, when in reality you did nothing of the sort.

When "attacked," the default setting of a guy like this is to attack back. That's why he kept saying childish and nonsensical insults like, "you're the shy one" and "you're bipolar" (wtf?!) and "I'm NOT on the site -- you are!" (also wtf?) I think a telling comment is when he said that you can't force him to do anything. Who was talking about forcing him to do anything? But in his mind, even talking about butt play means that you think he might be bi or gay (not that that should be taken as an insult, of course), and his machismo demanded a response to that. You're not even having the same conversation at this point. He's so blinded by his insecurity and feeling of being attacked that he felt he had to "defend" himself, when in reality, you haven't attacked him at all until you called him narrow-minded, which he deserved.

Guys like this mistake bluster and insults for confidence and think that it shows them being a "real" man, but instead, it simply shows their immaturity.

-- Maybe this guy actually WAS telling the truth about not being on the site often, lol -- this is a welcoming and diverse site. Seems pretty clear that he doesn't fit that mold!


HoneyEcomb replies on 6/19/2019 2:16 pm:
Thank you! You hit the nail on the head exactly! We honestly were not having the same conversation. Even more baffling was his picture choice! He has one leg on top of a waist-high object. Meaning he is showing me the starfish lol. That just invites my tongue and rim comments. Sigh... the site sure has been interesting to say the least lol

HoneyEcomb 41F

6/17/2019 8:52 am

UPDATE!

He texted me to send a YouTube link LOL...and that was it

Honey xoxo


heartshapedcock2 40M

6/16/2019 2:26 pm

He's a fucking idiot, I would love to get my ass licked by you , I don't think it's gay at all.


HoneyEcomb replies on 6/17/2019 8:51 am:
I mean he is free to feel however he wants about the topic. I got annoyed because he turned it into "anal" talk which it was not, and then said I was pushing it on him (pun intended) which I wasnt lol. Also, didnt like his words regarding homosexuals. I felt nothing but bad energy thru a text!

backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
6/16/2019 5:53 am

Hey Darlin,
.........Like School on a Saturday,..........No Class!...........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
6/16/2019 1:32 am

Some strange fruit out there my lady …
Better luck next time !

Cheers - P


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/15/2019 4:21 pm

    Quoting HoneyEcomb:
    Seems they took the 2 pics down. They were screen shots of the texts and explain how it all happened. He basically was rude and disrespectful to people of the LBGTQ community. And also insulted the audience that watches my cam, even referring to homosexual women with a derogatory term.... Come to think of it thats prob why the site took the pics down. oops. But he was an offensive jerk bigot.
If he was stating his opinion, within conversation with you...he is entitled to state his opinion..... but if he was attacking a person specifically, then that is a problem.


HoneyEcomb replies on 6/16/2019 6:53 am:
He is free to have his opinions, that's not the issue. He went off about anal sex which was never the topic. But The real issue was his terminology and words. He is a disgusting human for that.

HoneyEcomb 41F

6/15/2019 3:55 pm

Seems they took the 2 pics down. They were screen shots of the texts and explain how it all happened. He basically was rude and disrespectful to people of the LBGTQ community. And also insulted the audience that watches my cam, even referring to homosexual women with a derogatory term.... Come to think of it thats prob why the site took the pics down. oops. But he was an offensive jerk bigot.

Honey xoxo


dogslife2live01 71M

6/14/2019 7:22 pm



there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
6/14/2019 6:43 pm

As a former resident of FLL, let me tell you Broward has it's share of flakey females TOO.

I's disappointed at the lack of starfish shots here, though I know A*F*F has been dropping images all day.

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HoneyEcomb replies on 6/15/2019 3:50 pm:
LOL seems they might have taken down the 2 pics I attached....

I frequently say "dating in SFL".... it's not specific to only men, but i dont date women so i wouldnt know lol

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/14/2019 5:12 pm

That's not actually fair to the men in SFlorida who want to, and actually do , date you [ have sex with you], because that weirdo didn't have sex with you, at least going by what you said... you met, drank, smoked and exchanged butt pics....

What the hell is that... and why did you continue with him when you were clearly not having a good time the first day you met? ....Also why did you invite him to your place to meet you?


HoneyEcomb replies on 6/14/2019 5:52 pm:
good points but things had been verified through other means prior to the meet. gave him a chance afterwards bc i assumed he was nervous which I mentioned in the post. No not all men in SFL suck, but dating is not easy. Good humans exist, just not concentrated to the peninsula lol

SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
6/14/2019 5:03 pm

Laughing uncontrollably.... you should have turned your CAM on when he was over and made him jump through all your hoops while we watched. Most guys here are very cocky (pardon the pun) behind the keyboard. But when it comes to showing/proving what they typed....like a bad fire cracker on 4th of July.... a dud. Well at least you tried.... don't be discouraged eventually something good has to fall into your lap. Best of Luck


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
6/14/2019 4:46 pm

I think lots here are used to screen and keyboard, perhaps they do not know how to interact in real life.


chrissy1986 38F

6/14/2019 4:36 pm

babe you should be worshipped i know it's not healthy to worship anyone but your that special...i dated or lived with a man for 10 years found out he was an idiot...watched wonder woman sitcoms everynight even though there were only 3 seasons...among other things...i tried something i didn't do since high school and it was a very exciting moment although it didn't work out i was amazed i can get so excited...i don't know if you want to hear from me or not but i understand your problem but trust me on this one you are a very special woman don't ever lose your faith which i know your not...hope to see you tonight!


Coquindiscret81 43M

6/14/2019 4:31 pm

Don't worry love, get here to Paris I make u forget that date xx


HoneyEcomb replies on 6/14/2019 4:58 pm:
wow I am tempted....sexy babe!

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