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Lame incentives for older men to be in committed relationships
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Lame incentives for older men to be in committed relationships Due to the site removing words...see my first comment..  |
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I have to say this is NOT TRUE of all men or women!!! Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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7/27/2019 8:06 am |
yep- chat- have sex and go home- as an older man I'm not getting married again or really want a serious relationship- I like being alone- but I'm not lonely-
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7/27/2019 4:23 am |
I wonder if the old adage is still true.....men want sex, women want security. Maybe over 50 yrs ago women had to go for security. But, not so much now. We can make our own money. Men will always want sex and that is okay. Women do have emotion. So that plays a part for some. Always a trade off I guess. Just don’t generalize it. We all have our reasons, desires and some, agendas. Good old hot sweaty sex is great at times and then times for just a sweet loving touch is what some want, men and women.
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I wonder if the old adage is still true.....men want sex, women want security. Maybe over 50 yrs ago women had to go for security. But, not so much now. We can make our own money. Men will always want sex and that is okay. Women do have emotion. So that plays a part for some. Always a trade off I guess. Just don’t generalize it. We all have our reasons, desires and some, agendas. Good old hot sweaty sex is great at times and then times for just a sweet loving touch is what some want, men and women.
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Women past their youthful prime , sometimes think men , past his youthful prime want commitment because she's contacted on dating sites. Sometimes older women are trying to sell, to men, the concept of having "ONE" woman by using these incentives; He's aging.... His friends are going to die/are dying.... His penis is going to stop working .... And she has toys to play with instead of him... ...and that is suppose to make older men want to hold onto a woman? ..LOL. really?! Women put her friend above relationships with men. In fact, often a woman's close friends know more about her than the man she is in a relationship with. And contrary to Micheal Bolton, this is true about men, too. His close buddies are more important than a relationship with a woman....especially when she's telling him, "You need to be with me because your buddies are going to die, you're getting old and your penis is not what it use to be, and I have toys." Go ahead and use your vibrators or whatever other toys you have. Going to the gym , going fishing, playing some poker while drinking some whiskey and smoking a cigar while talking to each other, among men, is much preferable to being with a woman who basically points out he's sexually useless and almost dead. Lets take a look at why older women think a man contacts her: She thinks he wants to meet her for a relationship, because he sends texts , phones her, and takes her to dinner. .... No! He does that because he has erroneously learned, women want that attention before he tells her he wants to grab her by the ankles and split her legs apart. Telling the woman what she needs to hear. Seduce her mind and get the goodies. What women consider , a man with "Class" , is a lie, a show, [he puts on] to get her into bed. He pretends the facade of a man with manners to find her price for sex. Because she wants him to do that, so he has been lead to believe. In a way, he is feeling out the woman's selling price for access to the fun stuff. Which maybe she reject. But first, she might milk him out of so much money [through dinner, drinks, gifts, movies] , and then maybe decide , "No sex". [ and the even sadder part? Most men think he has dated the woman who has rejected him ] When really all he should have to do , is tell the woman, "I'm contacting your for sex". Now all she has to do is buck up and go meet him ... If she's into him, she will oblige. If not? Then she won't oblige. He doesn't need to put in "Effort" to get a woman naked. .... Because the woman wants to get naked, or she just simply does not want to get naked ...with him! The beautiful truth, which women think is ugly, ...is : Women are for sex and entertainment. ... Many men are afraid to agree to that because he's afraid of angering his limited sources of sex. So he plays the game, and eventually the woman gets upset with him for showing less and less attention to her! You want to play, or you don't. ... Don't waste his time..... Don't waste his money.... Don't remind him his friends are dying. Don't remind him he's getting older. Don't remind him his boner is weak. Don't remind him you have toys .... That's is all one lame ass group of incentives to choose a woman for a relationship in men's older years. So... he isn't contacting women for a relationship....he wants to date the woman [have sex]..... Not plan "Togetherness", months and years down the road....... If "Togetherness" works out? The reason is; She's a personable thoughtful woman. [Not the one pictured].
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