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Telling your significant other that you want to mix it up
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Telling your significant other that you want to mix it up When I was married I, of course, fantasized about introducing multiple partners into our life. Aside from the occasional porn, I never was unfaithful. (We can debate the attitudes of porn as cheating at another time. ) We had one experience that was a probability has we both been aware of the stakes and if the other couple was more our style. Throughout our marriage my wife was a bit prudish and it is ironic that she is the one who had multiple affairs that came to be the death of our marriage. While I was devastated to find this out, I do believe that it was the dishonesty that is what got me. Yes, the immature, kneejerk reaction to the physical intimacy was real but had she been more honest about her desires, had I been more open we may have just been a swinging couple. Looking back I see where she had these tendencies but, for some reason, I was blind to it in real time. I hate that I didn't know, but you don't know what you don't know. She was fiercely jealous but I think that was her own insecurities in her own desires. It could have been weird, it could have still failed but I believe that we should have pursued multiple partners with gusto and maybe, just maybe, our relationship would have been healthier. |
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I understand where you are coming from..... and I think you need to keep yourself happy! I wasn't getting any so I just discreetly keep looking and every once in a while I find a fun partner! 
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Indeed it is ironic. Communication is harder than we think.
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