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To all the Men tired of 'back & forth small talk'
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To all the Men tired of 'back & forth small talk' This is just a reminder to all the men who seem to be having a hard time actually 'meeting up' with someone from here. You guys don't (in genera)l have to worry about safety as much as a woman does. The small talk back & forth is actually our way of getting a feel for being safe or not. You saying ' nice, normal' doesn't actually mean a thing as the creeps don't exactly disclose themselves do they. I totally agree with you there are a lot of fakes on here...that goes both ways, as I have met up with a couple of guys who don't look at all like their pic, or say something totally different in person than what it says on their profile info. (red flag red flag... she changes her mind and won't all of a sudden 'do it with you'..) !! Also, if you have no pic and/or hardly any info and then you send an email saying something like, 'let's meet tonight'.... not surprised you're not getting very far. Now I know (and most women know) that the actual creeps are few and far between but we still would rather be safe then sorry...you must see that logic? (even if it is only for one night) Regardless of being online or in person, some of the same rules apply. We are (most women) not going to look at one pic (like a lot of you guys) and be like 'oh yeah, I'll sleep with him'. I really hope this is helpful to you...a little bit of patience just might go a long way! Happy Hunting!!  |
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Great advice! Thanks for sharing and happy hunting to you too. 
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Great post!! You have to be careful who you decide get together with. I too have had fakes contact me.
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The small talk back & forth is actually our way of getting a feel for being safe or not. That was a great way of putting it. That hit it square on the head.
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Words of wisdom that should be read and adhered to by all....
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I really hope your message get to some of the men on here, I think this is what most people on here feel, My safety is more important to me than a might be a good time,
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All the dumb guys who don't know/understand that make this easier for guys like me. They eliminate themselves from consideration and make me look like saint. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Amen, Sister! Have a great day, and be nice to one another.
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Couldn't agree more.
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patience ,understanding , making someone comfortable with your character  but how does that get them laid right now with no effort ? lol geeez these rules are ridiculous and capricious for the guy with a huge one .
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2/15/2019 8:01 pm |
Perhaps it is where I live but more than likely it is who I am, but I never even seem to be able to get any response from the women that I try to contact from this site. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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I agree - a little bit of patience just might go a long way! Happy Hunting !
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But it's ok if you have no face pics or anything written in your profile. Using more than all the road!
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2/18/2019 8:31 pm |
Good advice... get to know someone via chatting, and actually speaking on the phone. Always best to do the initial meet in a public space. Everyone, especially the ladies, need to be wary. Trust your gut, and don't be pressured into anything.
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