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My older vs younger...
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My older vs younger... Throughout life we constantly deal with the question of older or . Literally in everything we come across. Vehicles, wine, spirits, clothing, furniture and yes interactions with other people. Whether it be just a conversation, a hookup or a relationship, the situation is there more times than most people realize. The undeniable part of it is that every single person deals with a paradigm shift in their life in going from the to the old. The midway point is the toughest section of life because there are so many questions about what is considered versus the other. Over the course of my adult life (18+), I have had the opportunity to experience both sides of the coin (sexually) from, well, both sides of the coin. When I was in my late teens/early 20s, I was fortunate enough to have several sexual partners that were in my as well as experiencing being with a woman in her mid 30s. By my mid 20s I still had a few encounter with girls in the 18/19 range, girls in their mid 20s, women in their early 30s and even a couple of women in their 40s. When I reached late 20s, I covered all of that again and even expanded into being with woman in her early 50s. My early 30s still brought on the experience of an 18 year old followed by a 23 year old. Since those , I have also been with a woman in her early 30s, 40s and as in as 54. back through all of that mentioned above I came to the conclusion that I really love sex. Oh, wait, that wasnt the point. Where was I???? Oh yes, I came to the conclusion that there really hasnt been any that really covered everything sexually. Each had positives and negatives (and the positives each outweigh the negatives by far!). When I was in my early 20s, fucking girls in the same was all about hard-hitting, speed, getting drunk, fucking 25 times in 6 hours and then doing it all again the next night. Fucking a woman in her 30s was more of a "slow down and learn" experience and figure out what sort of things make my partner more. I learned a great deal during that about giving oral AND about the touching involved leading up to, during AND after sex. When I got into my late 20s, I had become more focused on relations with women that were above my . I was really enjoying the sex drive that the late 30s/early 40s brought on and learned that women in that range were actually hornier than any teenage I ever knew. I did enjoy a couple of people during that time as well and those were a lot of fun too. The downside was the drama that followed. In bed, it was a whirlwind. Outside of bed, most of them were flaky, inconsistent and over-dramatic. not saying that the sex wasnt worth it on a few occasions though. lol My 30s era sex-life has tamed WAY down in terms of who I sleep with. I have been selective almost to an extreme level at times. I have, again, had encounters with the 18-24 that have been intense, wild, crazy sex but there tends to be less similar interests and things we have in common. I have, however, been with at least 1 person in their early 20s that was a knockout physically, emotionally stable, intelligent beyond the they were and we connected really well. This person I wouldnt have imagined was only 21/22 old. So there are ALWAYS exceptions to a rule. My experiences during my 30s that covers being with people in their mid 30s all the way to 54 (I believe is the oldest I have been with) has been mostly everything I expected. For the most part, slower paced, communicative, sensual, etc...At the same time the people in this range have also been more verbal with me about how often they want to meet, how soon and what they want. There hasnt been as much of the above mentioned & "drama". Overall I would have to say that with the people, I tended to see more physical appeal traits above anything else. Whether it be a tighter body, endurance or whatnot. Whereas the people in the higher groups could also offer similar things, it was more often than not a better sexual connection because of openness, communication, sex drive, less drama, etc... Again, what I have said is that there are always exceptions to everything so when "categorizing" people into groups, orientation or whatever, keep in mind that some can always be quite a bit different than the other in that group. |
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