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We Have All Done It.... Some Of Us Just Do Not Say It... 🤗  

Paulxx001 67M
8732 posts
4/1/2019 1:07 am

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We Have All Done It.... Some Of Us Just Do Not Say It... 🤗

Note: A F F website is still chopping words and numbers. Please be patient.

This past weekend, I went downtown, to an art exhibit. The artist, was displaying his works, of abstract expressionism . more of a... neo cubist kinda guy. I stood there, looking one of his larger pieces. It hung, brightly lit, against the backdrop, of a white wall. I thought, perhaps... if I moved, further back... and squinted - I might understand it. From the shadows (of the gallery), walked a stylishly attired woman and her handsomely dressed young . They posed beside me, in silence and focused their eyes, on mural. After a minute or so, the young , turned to his mom and remarked.

"Wow. 's really, fucked !"

His mother looked down the little , nodded her head and agreed. "Yes it is."

Then... they moved on. I was stunned. Not the was wrong. piece of art, was... truly fucked . I was surprised, this mom, had allowed her , to express his point of view, with such profane language. I thought, the word 'fuck' - was reserved, for adults only. Did I miss a memo?

There are roughly... o.ne hundred seventy o.ne, thousand (1.000), words in the Oxford Dictionary. Most people, only have a vocabulary, of 20,000 words. Yet... there is this one word, everyone knows; some people abuse and some people... never use. word is - "Fuck".

Is it the most, vulgar word in the English language? "Fuck" is the only English word, can be used as a; noun, pronoun, adjective, verb, adverb and preposition. "Fuck", can be used, in almost every, informal situation, to express, any emotion. Change the tone of your voice, surround "it" with other words - and you can use " word" , anywhere. I found, least 27, different ways, to adapt it. I've listed those examples, in my comments. Did I miss any?

I never used " word" , when I was raising my daughters; yet... they know it. times, they've sprinkled it about, all around me. How the fuck, did happen? I never utter " word" , in business. Except of course, to describe the sales deal, just completely... fucked . With close friends, I might blurt "it" out, from time to time; to punctuate a point. Especially, when my point, is fucking right! Here, on my blog.... I'll try to avoid it, completely. And yet sometimes... well, I don't give a fuck.

It's a small... but powerful and versatile word.

As I left art exhibition, I passed stylish lady and her y.oung . I smiled politely, nodded and said hello. I half-expected , to turn around and say...

"What the fuck do you want?"


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So...
Are you offended, when you hear, or see the word "fuck", written; or do you also use "it", when you speak and write?
Did your patents swear; or did you ever swear, in front of your ? 😱😁


Note: A F F is still really fucked ... chopping and editing words. Please be patient. . .
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 1:07 am

27 ways to use "that" word...
1. What the fuck?
2. Fuck!
3. Fuck it.
4. Holy fuck.
5. Fuck (you,him,her,that)
6. Go fuck yourself.
7. Did you fuck him?
8. Were they a good fuck?
9. Fuck... yeah /no
10. Fuck me.
11. Don't fuck me over.
12. Are you fucking with me?
13. Stop fucking around.
14. He's fucked.
15. He's fucked up.
16. That's fucking stupid.
17. What a stupid fuck.
18. I don't give a fuck.
19. Fuck off.
20. Where the fuck are we?
21. I don't fucking know.
22. Shut the fuck up.
23. Fuck up.
24. Who the fuck are you?
25. Abso - fucking - lutely!
26. Mother fucker.
27. Fuck - face.

Did I miss any? 🤔


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 1:08 am

Well.... you already know what I do. I never use that word in front of kids. Nor with people, I've never met. If I hear them swearing... I may sprinkle in... a few examples of my own. I sort of want to, blend in. Is that the right thing to do?
When I write.... I'll hold back, on using it. I think "it", has greater effect, if "it" is used less. 🤔


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 1:09 am

I was really careful, when I was raising my daughters. I tried not to swear or use "that word", in front of them, at all. They're adults now. Yet... I remind them... and they remind me - to watch the language. When we're in public... I don't tolerate swearing from them, and they know it! 😊


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
4/1/2019 4:45 am

I tried not to swear in front of my daughter, but in anger sometimes it slips out. You know when you hit your finger with the hammer it just sneaks out and you instantly feel better. My daughter knows the word along with others but she has been taught there is a time and a place.

Perhaps the boy was not her son. Hopefully whomever his parents are will teach them some boundaries...


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
4/1/2019 5:40 am

The famous F bomb. I get surprised sometimes when others let it slip out like my 81 y.o neighbor when I took her grocery shopping. She was talking about her husband of 65 years in the process of dying " that fucker is going to leave me after all these years"
I try to be really careful not to use it in public but among my friends if I have heard them utter it then I know if it sneaks out there will be no reprisal. The worst word my mother ever used was damn so I know we never heard it at home

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mc_justmc 63M

4/1/2019 6:33 am

I use it, my parents never did. I grew up with a friend who was from Wales. He used to tell his Mom to fuck off regularly. She would respond, "Simon, I'm sure Agent Rawlings ( she always called us little spies up to no good ) doesn't want to hear that language", which usually got another round of "fuck off, Mom".


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
4/1/2019 7:13 am

Growing up, my Dad NEVER swore in front of me and certainly never used Fuck. Perhaps it was different for my brothers as they played sports. The worst my Mom would say is Tish instead of Shit.
I worked for a Female Manager who swore like a sailor. I also worked with a woman who seemed to use Fuck in every sentence. I think she had become totally immune to the word. While not a prude, I felt in both instances, it was inappropriate for the workplace.
Using public transit, there probably isn't a word I haven't heard. I do my best to tune it out and think to myself, What the fuck is wrong with everyone


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
4/1/2019 7:19 am

Overuse of profanity diminishes the effect so I rarely cuss. Everyone in my family knows that if I say it I really mean it!

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


SolarPowered0 118M
8346 posts
4/1/2019 10:18 am



Paul...

I gotta go with the Lurking One here. That being pointed out, I just gotta say... that painting you stuck in there, is REALLY fucked up! My personal take on "art" is... if it ain't realism, it ain't art. It's just a bunch of paint splattered onto canvas ( or velvet, in some cases--FUCK! )

Ya know... when I was a kid, I used to actually read the dictionary. A vast array of words just didn't stick with me--over time. I discovered that when I used "real" officially sanctioned words, most people became very confused whenever I tried to communicate with them. After all--how many people "read" the dictionary?? Eventually, I concluded that I just had to sink to their level... in an effort to prevent any unnecessary "misunderstandings".

It's just like "democracy"--in order to have any meeting of the minds, ya gotta find the lowest common denominator. Otherwise, you're gonna be bangin' your head against a brick wall. And we all know how that ends.

I don't much care what my kids say... 'long as they ain't sayin' it to me; especially now that I'm old and they're just hangin' out waitin' for me to croak so thy can swoop in and grab my goods! FUCK 'em! That's what I say.

As for being offended-- the only time I feel offended is when some babe laughs at my dick. I mean... 4-1/4" is the standard size--Right?

I'll close with this: Ask me no questions, and I'll tell you no lies: unless I have to--

Solar...



Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
4/1/2019 10:32 am

    Quoting SolarPowered0:


    Paul...

    I gotta go with the Lurking One here. That being pointed out, I just gotta say... that painting you stuck in there, is REALLY fucked up! My personal take on "art" is... if it ain't realism, it ain't art. It's just a bunch of paint splattered onto canvas ( or velvet, in some cases--FUCK! )

    Ya know... when I was a kid, I used to actually read the dictionary. A vast array of words just didn't stick with me--over time. I discovered that when I used "real" officially sanctioned words, most people became very confused whenever I tried to communicate with them. After all--how many people "read" the dictionary?? Eventually, I concluded that I just had to sink to their level... in an effort to prevent any unnecessary "misunderstandings".

    It's just like "democracy"--in order to have any meeting of the minds, ya gotta find the lowest common denominator. Otherwise, you're gonna be bangin' your head against a brick wall. And we all know how that ends.

    I don't much care what my kids say... 'long as they ain't sayin' it to me; especially now that I'm old and they're just hangin' out waitin' for me to croak so thy can swoop in and grab my goods! FUCK 'em! That's what I say.

    As for being offended-- the only time I feel offended is when some babe laughs at my dick. I mean... 4-1/4" is the standard size--Right?

    I'll close with this: Ask me no questions, and I'll tell you no lies: unless I have to--

    Solar...



I am thinking you should leave all your money to starving musicians that would really fuck your kids...

ooops when I was a kid and swore I got my mouth washed out with soap...


SolarPowered0 118M
8346 posts
4/1/2019 10:51 am



My exquisitely Naughty Baby...

First off: I said "my goods". I ain't got no money.

Second: Fuck those starvin' musicians! If I did have any money, I'd spend it all... on you! Talk about fucking with my kids--and makin' me as happy as a dog gnarlin' on a marrow-bone!!!

Third: If I could get you to open your mouth, it wouldn't be a bar of soap I'd be puttin' in it.

Lastly: You can swear up a freakin' storm with me, Baby!

your loyal DJ--

Solar...



Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
4/1/2019 11:08 am

Happy Monday and wow a boy used it in at an Art Showing and the mother said nothing, that's just wrong. I believe that children should be on their best behavior in public. My parents used it often, hell I even used it but tried not so much in front of my kids, they say it to though. I hope you have a great week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 12:08 pm

    Quoting  :

I might have sworn in front of my kids as well. Sometimes you just can't help it, right?
I find using that word in the text is unavoidable. Otherwise the story just misses something, no? 🤔
Oh... I can see you getting angry and throwing a few choice words in someone's direction. Do you think you scare them? I might be.... 😱😘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 12:23 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm sure, past a certain age, kids are immune to it. Although... I listen to the songs kids listen to these days, and those tunes are littered with f bombs. How would a youngster avoid it? Anyone can download a song, right? 🎵📻
My parents might have used that language with me, but I was a young adult by then.
Your father had a lot of self control in not using that language around you. Can you imagine his war experiences and how they salted up every conversation? I'm only basing my opinion on movies I've seen. I'm sure the language they used was rough, right? 😱👍
Thanks for dropping by . My father never made it to the war. You must have many stories, of his terrible adventure to share. 🤔 Although I also know that many people who've been in a war, just don't want to talk about it....


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 12:27 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    I tried not to swear in front of my daughter, but in anger sometimes it slips out. You know when you hit your finger with the hammer it just sneaks out and you instantly feel better. My daughter knows the word along with others but she has been taught there is a time and a place.

    Perhaps the boy was not her son. Hopefully whomever his parents are will teach them some boundaries...
With me, it was when I'd stub my toe on the bed post.... Oooops... 😱 But it just comes out, right? omg... 😂
It looked like it was his mom. Modem family..? I don't know what a kid was doing in an art gallery. Some parents try to be progressive, but I don't know if that works. Does it? 🤔


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 12:31 pm

    Quoting  :

If I'm around people who use it, then I use it as well. I kinda adapt... Does that make sense? lol... 😱
Funny story about your mom! 😁
Well... I'm in sales. We're really polite and cultured on stage, but when the curtain closes... well... Have you ever met a salesman who didn't swear? 😱😁
Have a good one! 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 12:41 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    The famous F bomb. I get surprised sometimes when others let it slip out like my 81 y.o neighbor when I took her grocery shopping. She was talking about her husband of 65 years in the process of dying " that fucker is going to leave me after all these years"
    I try to be really careful not to use it in public but among my friends if I have heard them utter it then I know if it sneaks out there will be no reprisal. The worst word my mother ever used was damn so I know we never heard it at home
Yep... When older people use it, it's a shocker.. lol. Then again... I'm becoming one of those... and I use it. Do you? lol 😱😁
Ya know... I was going to include the history of the word. It came out in Germany (so they say), in the 12 th century... There's a trivia question for you... no? ❓🤔 lol... You use it? hmmm.. ❓😨😁


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 12:45 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I use it, my parents never did. I grew up with a friend who was from Wales. He used to tell his Mom to fuck off regularly. She would respond, "Simon, I'm sure Agent Rawlings ( she always called us little spies up to no good ) doesn't want to hear that language", which usually got another round of "fuck off, Mom".
Funny story. Although I get the impression that some people from the other side of ocean, are cut from a different cloth aren't they? lol
Yep... as a guy in a band... my gosh. Have you ever heard a musician who didn't swear? 😱
Yeah maybe Cat Stevens..... 🙀😶


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 12:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Love your soap story. I'll bet if they had ignored you saying that word, you might have forgotten it, no?
True... when I hear that word too often, in a movie, it's annoying, right? 😕
My daughters are adults as well... and every once in a while they'll punctuate a sentance with that eurd. I might do a double take... lol 😱
Hey... no rules or stuffy attitude over here. Feel free to express yourself, any way you'd like. 😊👍
Thanks for sharing your story... 😁😘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 1:01 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Growing up, my Dad NEVER swore in front of me and certainly never used Fuck. Perhaps it was different for my brothers as they played sports. The worst my Mom would say is Tish instead of Shit.
    I worked for a Female Manager who swore like a sailor. I also worked with a woman who seemed to use Fuck in every sentence. I think she had become totally immune to the word. While not a prude, I felt in both instances, it was inappropriate for the workplace.
    Using public transit, there probably isn't a word I haven't heard. I do my best to tune it out and think to myself, What the fuck is wrong with everyone
Sounds like some of the people you've hung around with, have no filter... hmmm.. I'll try to be more careful.
Of course... that was a funny punctuation you just used! You planned that one, right? lol 😁😱


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 1:09 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Overuse of profanity diminishes the effect so I rarely cuss. Everyone in my family knows that if I say it I really mean it!
Overuse deffinitely diminishes the effectiveness of anything. 🤔
I can speak from personal experience, when I say that after the third or fifth time... it kinda peter's out. Although... when I was younger, 7 or oven more uses in one session... would still be satisfying. 🤔
What were you talking about? Oh yeah... less is more. Except when it's not. 😱😁😘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 1:13 pm

    Quoting  :

Yep.. you're right about that one... omg 😱
But you know what? It's not about what you or I think is offensive... it's about the person who we're talking with thinks. I once was speaking with a person of oriental decent and I parted the head of her child. It was the most offensive thing I could ever have done. You're not supposed to touch the head of children. I learned that lesson the hard way.
Ever say something benign, and the person you're speaking with, takes offense? omg... 😱
Thanks for dropping by. 👍


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
4/1/2019 1:19 pm

"I can speak from personal experience, when I say that after the third or fifth time...."

Holy Fuck! I need to get to Montreal.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 1:22 pm

    Quoting SolarPowered0:


    My exquisitely Naughty Baby...

    First off: I said "my goods". I ain't got no money.

    Second: Fuck those starvin' musicians! If I did have any money, I'd spend it all... on you! Talk about fucking with my kids--and makin' me as happy as a dog gnarlin' on a marrow-bone!!!

    Third: If I could get you to open your mouth, it wouldn't be a bar of soap I'd be puttin' in it.

    Lastly: You can swear up a freakin' storm with me, Baby!

    your loyal DJ--

    Solar...



Hey... I fucked up and accidentally deleted your first comment. I'm on my damm phone. Sorry about that. Yeah... good thing you're quoted here and I can still read it...
Hey yeah.... Nothing offends me.. Except for the fact that I just can't avoid these damm potholes here. Oh and people who don't signal before turning. Yeah I'm sure there's other stuff.
I'll be more careful next time. Sorry about that. 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/1/2019 1:25 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    I am thinking you should leave all your money to starving musicians that would really fuck your kids...

    ooops when I was a kid and swore I got my mouth washed out with soap...
Good suggestions... All of them.
Based on Solar's reply to you... I think he likes you. 🤔😱❤️
Good suggestions though! 👍


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