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What do you think about this type of behaviour?  

bitchkitty2017 71F
2245 posts
2/27/2019 7:59 am
What do you think about this type of behaviour?

My Mother had a very simple philosophy on life , her simple ways and words were brushed off because she didn't sit and think about what the words meant for long periods of time , she didn't sit and debate with herself and others for any long length of time on the meaning to simple words or sayings ..when we were if we do something we are not supposed to do and something that has repercussions for our actions...we catch hell for it and maybe promise not to do it again yet we do...
So when you were a did you say you were sorry for what you did and really mean it or did you say you were sorry because you got caught and cry saying you would never do it again but didn't mean it and then try and figure out how to do it different next time so you wouldn't get caught?
I realize that maybe everyone who did something when being a don't really remember the things I mentioned but just for a laugh will be interesting to read any comments...lol

bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 8:00 am

 do u remember ?


1999valk 73M

2/27/2019 8:26 am

 I learned not to get caught


doubledownRC 39M
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23 posts
2/27/2019 8:37 am

 A little of column A and a little of column B. Really, as kids you don't think that far in advance.


sniflicksuck 58M
55 posts
2/27/2019 8:43 am

 Naturally we cry and say we sorry cause we got caught but it's a learning process and as we grow we don't make that mistake again for some of us it may take longer to realize 😉


PrairieFire88 60M  
395 posts
2/27/2019 9:19 am

 I didn't want the whooping again. Spank me once and I learned. Or sometimes I received "the look."


Basilikummen 47M
1006 posts
2/27/2019 11:08 am

 For me, a bit of both. I can't say that I was ever a complete angel growing up. But then, who is?

I'm a very firm believer that children are sociopaths., plain and simple, no judgement, just acceptance. That "right" and "wrong" are concepts that can only be learned. That we have no innate concept of this from birth.

Maybe we learn them on our own. Hopefully we are taught them. But it is our responsibility as adults, especially parents, but also definitely family and friends of (it takes a village) to teach what is right and what is wrong and why. (Because without the understanding the why and the empathy of how you'd feel if someone else did that to you, why would you care? You'd just find a way to not get caught the next time.) If we want to live in a healthy society, it's our duty to help teach how to work together and get along, from the ground up. Start at home. Expand from there.

'Tis my two pence anyway.
Even an herb as sweet as basil is nothing without its bite.
Lord Basil


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 11:09 am
    Quoting 1999valk:
    I learned not to get caught
so you learned to try to figure it out as time went on to do things another way to do what you caught hell for. so you wouldn't get caught .lol smart


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 11:11 am
    Quoting doubledownRC:
    A little of column A and a little of column B. Really, as kids you don't think that far in advance.
not true some kids do and as a foster parent I had kids pass through my doors that sometimes did when they got caught figure out different ways of doing something a different way weeks after a first incident..after all those kids were always getting blamed for stuff even that they never done...so inventive they became...


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 11:13 am
    Quoting sniflicksuck:
    Naturally we cry and say we sorry cause we got caught but it's a learning process and as we grow we don't make that mistake again for some of us it may take longer to realize 😉
of course being kids we do learn and evolve but we did always have a back up plan now as adults we make different mistakes and still some learn and others don't , some become more edept at inventing all sorts of ways of dealing with right or wrong....we evolve but don't become smarter at it just find ways of getting around it..thanx.


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 11:15 am
    Quoting PrairieFire88:
    I didn't want the whooping again. Spank me once and I learned. Or sometimes I received "the look."
yep my Mom ruled with a hand I didn't want to experience more than once..My Dad was gone alot and she had to be stern and if we needed a slap on the ass we got it and it hurt enough we didn't want to feel it again...good comment..


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 11:18 am
    Quoting  :
yes lol curse words were my downfall because as kids we heard it outside of the home my Parents didn't use foul language and what intrigues a kid is thinking being around those older folks in the neighborhood that we thought was so cool using foul language was the best thing ever..so it kind of became normal....great comment


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 11:24 am
    Quoting Basilikummen:
    For me, a bit of both. I can't say that I was ever a complete angel growing up. But then, who is?

    I'm a very firm believer that children are sociopaths., plain and simple, no judgement, just acceptance. That "right" and "wrong" are concepts that can only be learned. That we have no innate concept of this from birth.

    Maybe we learn them on our own. Hopefully we are taught them. But it is our responsibility as adults, especially parents, but also definitely family and friends of (it takes a village) to teach what is right and what is wrong and why. (Because without the understanding the why and the empathy of how you'd feel if someone else did that to you, why would you care? You'd just find a way to not get caught the next time.) If we want to live in a healthy society, it's our duty to help teach how to work together and get along, from the ground up. Start at home. Expand from there.

    'Tis my two pence anyway.
two pence is worth the read always have a great comment of choice words falling just right ..we learned from outside the home what was supposed to be the cool stuff to do and also what not to do to get caught lest a slap on the ass for it..people today do not know what the real meaning of empathy and do not teach their kids what is empathy because they don't know how.I just actually read a good article about how to teach empathy to your children and what one woman did to teach her kids.....I will pass it on in another blog..thanks always a great response


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 11:59 am
    Quoting 12kltmaxx:
    mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
looking for points? well I am looking for real comments I will leave this here for a bit then delete it..


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/27/2019 12:55 pm

 There were always punishment for us if we did something wrong, and sometimes we had to pick a switch off the tree to get punished with. And trust me we learned not to make the same mistake twice..Have a great hump day hun..
Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/27/2019 2:05 pm
    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    There were always punishment for us if we did something wrong, and sometimes we had to pick a switch off the tree to get punished with. And trust me we learned not to make the same mistake twice..Have a great hump day hun..
wow never heard of that picking your own switch off the tree please forgive me if I smile at that comment sorry..if kids today had to do something like that for bad behaviour well there be more kids running to report that ..damn!my Mom raised us six kids basically on her own so the punishment was swift we def learned not to do stuff to piss her off...take care be safe ...


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/28/2019 12:35 pm

 When I was a little kid, I didn't always understand what I did, but I was sorry for upsetting a parent or someone else . As I grew... I was sorry that I was about to get beaten for whatever it was that I had done.
And then at a certain age.. I said sorry... when I was truly sorry... 😶
Or... I didn't say anything at.... because... I really wasn't sorry, and couldn't give a fuck!


scoupe42 60M
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3/1/2019 11:25 am

 I learn a lesson the first several times! After a few ass -whipping I stop doing things I knew was wrong, and from them on, they had no worries of me fucking up.


bitchkitty2017 71F

3/1/2019 2:51 pm
    Quoting scoupe42:
    I learn a lesson the first several times! After a few ass -whipping I stop doing things I knew was wrong, and from them on, they had no worries of me fucking up.
well that's too bad that a lot of kids our ages and even us had to get beaten not just smacked for doing something wrong as I read the comments here but then you at least now don't say like they do about don't giving a fuck sorry for the nasty word...thanks for the comment...wish we were closer we have some good conversations yes?


bitchkitty2017 71F

3/1/2019 2:53 pm
    Quoting  :
well as kids we most generally say sorry if we are told to obviously and its a normal and natural reaction to an action but learned a lot about when knowing that it was wrong.


bitchkitty2017 71F

3/1/2019 3:06 pm
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    When I was a little kid, I didn't always understand what I did, but I was sorry for upsetting a parent or someone else . As I grew... I was sorry that I was about to get beaten for whatever it was that I had done.
    And then at a certain age.. I said sorry... when I was truly sorry... 😶
    Or... I didn't say anything at.... because... I really wasn't sorry, and couldn't give a fuck!
beaten or spanked? difference there... and now its finally a sunken ship ...and as a kid we all know when we did something wrong because if we didn't then there would have been no repercussions for our actions.,so if you were saying you were sorry obviously then you were standing guilty unless you didn't do something bad and got blamed anyway and suffered any consequences , therefore that would not be fair..we as kids move in stages from less conscious of wrong doing to more consciously aware of wrong doing...


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