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is it rude or not to not message someone who viewed your profile  

steph7213 51T
9 posts
3/5/2018 11:07 am
is it rude or not to not message someone who viewed your profile

is it rude to not send someone a message just because they clicked on and viewed your profile.am wandering because i have been told by some that it was. when i would think that it would not be unless they flirted or ask to be friends or sent you a message because they could have not meant to click on you or was just looking. which does not mean they are interested in you maybe just the picture on your profile and not when they looked further. a view is just a view in my book sorry if anyone feels differently seems everyone would want more interest than that to start a dialog with someone because it would take up all your time on line if you had a lot of people view you and you had to send a message to all of them you might miss out in someone that is very interested in you would like to know what other people think


>>!with love always,
stephannie w. >>! ...\8


mse197478 68M

3/5/2018 11:34 am

I think there needs to be some other kind of communication ..a comment on a picture, a flirt. something to indicate some sort of interest before responding with a message. I have tons of fakes viewing my profile and even sending messages . Some I respond to just for fun to see what they will say.
Your profile your choice to either message them or not.


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
3/5/2018 12:03 pm

Considering you are a T, id write other T"s n make friends, bi....the same. but straight men may not like it, i , as a woman, welcome T's here and in real life.

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Richie_247 42M
12 posts
3/5/2018 12:53 pm

No, it's not rude if they've only viewed your profile. I've accidentally viewed quite a few profiles whilst trying to do other things at the same time or not concentrating.

On the flip side, every morning I wake up to dozens of views from the other side of the world - mainly China. I've never had a message, flirt or anything else from any of them, and when I've checked, about 75% of the profiles have already been removed.


steph7213 51T
2 posts
3/5/2018 1:15 pm

thank you all i am so glad that i am not alone on this thought! i had a few people that had put on their profile that had viewed me that if i did not respond to them viewing me with a yes or no weather or not i am interested or not i was being rude and neither one was asking for what or who i am so do not even know why they would want me to respond not being what they were looking for and wanted to make sure that i wasn't having bad manners or something this makes me feel much better about it if you are truly interested i will at least try to give some kind of responce when i can again thank you all for your views on this

>>!with love always,
stephannie w. >>! ...\8


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
3/5/2018 1:47 pm

I have to admit, your question took me aback.
1000s look at my profile (which is just as sedate as my profile photo).
There is no way for me to take that much time, to see their profiles, send them a message, read their blog and comment, or comment on a photo.
But you know, it is nice to be as pleasant as possible.
And if you have the time, you might want to do that.
Or if you are wondering why they look and don't message you, you could always try messaging them first (after reading their profile, of course).
I hope that helps?
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Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
3/5/2018 3:58 pm

Not rude. How can a person know if might be interested in you unless view your profile. Viewing means nothing. Especially since a lot of views are from men nowhere near me. Also one younger or attached men etc repeatly viewing me hoping to get me to write. Unless they are hopping I get desperate to want young or attached or whatever that my profile says I don't want. Being 61 doesn't mean I will take any man.

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EWGuy 64T
563 posts
3/5/2018 4:48 pm

Take it from someone that does get Hundreds of viewers a day. There is no way we could reply to all views. I flirt to everyone that flirts, and Hot list or friend you if we want to know more.

We have a large friend base and we try to chat with them all when we can.

So NO it is not Rude to just smile that someone viewed your Profile. They made it past the picture.


steph7213 replies on 3/5/2018 5:59 pm:
i know right i have been guilty of viewing a profile just because i was wandering about the picture and after viewing the profile found i had no interest in the person or what they were looking for. no more than they were in me just could not tell what the small picture was but i did not expect them to message me and i do smile about it even if i am not what they are looking for. thanks for telling me what you think on the subject.
with love always,
stephannie w.

JerryhoneyU 71M

8/23/2018 3:42 pm

no i not Rude or just smile a person that look at profile just want to check out that person to see if they have a personal interested in what there looking at


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