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Current idiots - Carlson3200  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
11/28/2018 12:40 pm
Current idiots - Carlson3200

Again I sit here yesterday and an incoming IM came in from a user named Carlson3200. [ Mind you, he's a black male. This will become important to know as I begin explaining ]. I open the IM, we trade greetings and he claims that he likes my boob pics. I thank him. He stays geared to that topic, regardless of his Gold level membership status and his ignorance in not reading my profile at all ( how typical, right? ). As the flirty and sexual type of chat persists with him, I realign chat several times, asking him what is relevant in this level of sex chat per my profile'd description of "sensible" and "general topic" term chat? He dodges the question.

He then asks me if I like BBC. I tell him that the term BBC is stupid to begin with. I tell him that it's a racially motivated term and that any "cock" in general isn't relative at all to me anyway, again, per my profile criteria and intent to sensibly chat on general topic terms here.

He pulls the race card immediately. The chat is shifted racially. He lives in RI. Suddenly he's pinning me as being a racist, asking me if the KKK exists around me and making claims that the entire state of PA is a racist state. Wait...what??? I live near Allentown, which is a major city in PA and contains races of all sorts of people. I even have several black family members. Me, racist? Haha WTF! Farthest thing from the truth!

After a few moments, I have had enough and once again, I realign the conversation back to where it belongs...asking once again, what was his reason and relevancy of initiating an IM to me per my profile description of sensible socializing ( because racism or cock in general is NOT sensible socializing, mind you ). He has no real answers to give me, calls me a "racist bitch", then closes IM immediately.

This is what happens when someone polite and kind does nothing more but open an IM and merely ask to chat on a basic level. SMH!

So, in turn I text expose his behavior on his profile pics for all to see. He gets in a rage, blocking me and then sending off one last email to me, which says this:

"fucking lowlife ugly ass white trash bitch, i saw the stupid pathetic comments u left in all my pics.. u are the mother fucking reason why i dont like u hill billy racist redneck snow flakes..when i said that i wanna suck ur tits on IM, i lied to ur ass..i like my women with some type of color to them with a phat ass"

Typical idiot...which is why he now found himself exposed publicly on this blog, too. Ah yes, as usual, men mysteriously wonder why no women exist or even bother opening IM's. Where is the mystery in any of this, I continually ask myself?

Many more blogs to follow. The amount of idiots to expose exceed the time I have to actually get around to posting them all. How crazy is that!!!

Carlson3200


GIdontknow_134 66M
270 posts
11/28/2018 1:59 pm

Hi C_B:

It sounds like you're a walking incel detector.

Have a great day.

Ciao, Bella.

G


Banana_Canyon replies on 11/30/2018 8:11 am:
B_C, rather.

Incel detector...too funny. Lol I think that women on this site are just idiot magnets, to be honest.

illusion16a 40F
2 posts
11/28/2018 2:56 pm

I feel your pain. I do realize what "kind of site" this is, but that doesn't mean that all females here just want to be bombarded with dick pics and guys that want to jump straight into sexual conversation. True, if they'd take the time to read profiles they would probably do a lot better as far as getting people to actually talk to them. Props to you for giving someone a chance, but I'm sorry to hear that ended that way. The ignorance of some people here continues to amaze me. Oh, and btw, I state my opinion of bbc on my profile, but still get tons of messages from guys stating "bbc here".


Banana_Canyon replies on 11/30/2018 9:10 am:
What an amazing comment! We need more like you on here!

I completely agree with your comment! As for the BBC thing, I'm glad you see through it as also being offensive and having a racial foundation, as I do. Love how you made a mention of it on your profile in the manner you did! People can't call themselves human anymore. That's the issue. If people actually read profiles, there you will see what race anyone is. No need to tell someone "BBC" or "BWC" when I can merely read a profile ( or see a pic ) and make the determination that a person is white, black or otherwise. Silly world we exist in!

What I also took notice of on your profile was your disclaimer part. It reads this:

"DISCLAIMER: Any researcher, journalist, or institution that wishes to use the verbal contents of my profile for educational purposes is not merely welcomed but encouraged to do so (as long as you're not a prick trying to denigrate my lifestyle choices). Please! Research me!"

Kudos to you! I feel the same exact way about this. You're very intelligent. What most people can't comprehend is that they WILLINGLY post PUBLIC profiles on this site for ALL the world to see, yet they don't realize that there is no expectation to privacy in a public domain. I find it ironic that they have no issues posting pics of their physical nude bodies for the entire world to see and describe whatever it is that they seek here, yet somehow find that they are bound to some level of privacy in doing so. Too funny! When I began reading your disclaimer, I figured yours would be another run of the mill type that felt that they were entitled to some level of privacy, but to my surprise I found that disclaimer very refreshing to read that you actually understood, agreed to and encouraged others to research you for educational purposes. I loved hearing that! You are THE perfect member here and we need many, many more like you here.

I appreciate your comment and I cannot express how meaningful this one was to read. Thank you!

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
11/28/2018 4:55 pm

too bad, another one


Banana_Canyon replies on 11/30/2018 8:13 am:
As usual. Just another day at the zoo.

AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
11/28/2018 5:22 pm

You should have answered "Hell yes ... I love the British Broadcasting Corporation. "

AB


No Bozos


Banana_Canyon replies on 11/30/2018 8:13 am:
Oh, I have tried that tactic different times before by playing dumb to the meaning. Haha At best, it's fun to play along with the idiot game. Garbage in = garbage out.

HandsomeDaddy7 65M

11/28/2018 7:01 pm

Sigh! I have GREAT black friends. (I hate the hyphenated thing "African" American. When if Puerto Rico, I never once heard any racial distinctions. You were just Puerto Rican.) But that said, of all my Mexican friends/family and my Asian friends, none of them ever played the race card. The only time I ever heard one of my Mexican friends make a racial comment was because a black person had played the racial card against them at work. It's sad. I had it played against me and I promptly took it to HR. This person got all bent out of shape but then started kissing my ass to get me to go to HR and tell them everything was now cool, while still playing the race card with others.

Anyway, sorry you had to endure this. I've been on the "net" since early 70's in the military, then late 70's at a university laboratory. People use to be themselves without thought. When you met them the only thing different was how you had imagined them to look like, akin to your seeing your favorite radio host for the first time. But something happened in the last 10-15 yrs. Because, IMHO that was when so many people began lying and playing games. It now is almost de facto now.


Banana_Canyon replies on 11/30/2018 8:53 am:
Very nicely put. Agreed. A lot of what today's issues are regarding race is pushed on people by the media. People look for anything at all to start trouble, make a story and to pull a race card. It's gotten so crazy that I'm even hearing that some claim the Charlie Brown cartoon racist because it portrayed a scene where a black kid was sitting on one side of a table while the white kids were all sitting on the other side. I have also heard claims that the Dr. Seuss "The Cat In The Hat" cartoon was racist because it portrays the character wearing a bow tie. Apparently a bow tie plays some significance in rank or racist terms way back in the time of slavery or something...who knows.

But the bottom line is that media is killing this country and separating us all. The dumbing down of society and the focus on nonsense rather than on our puppet masters is keeping society in a naive bubble. Dare I say this is by pure design?

Thanks for the comment!

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/29/2018 9:36 am

I do hope you blocked him in return, and reported him for abuse???


Banana_Canyon replies on 11/30/2018 8:31 am:
Apparently you haven't read follow-ups to any of your comments that you leave on my blogs pertaining to blocking.

As for reporting for abuse, what do I really have on this member that's justifiable to report him for? I mean, if he wants to be rude, that's his right to. If he wants to show the world that he himself is a racist, then that's his choice in the matter. He hasn't threatened me or anything. If reporting people on this site for being an ass to each other and having it be effective, than that would wipe roughly 97% of the entire site's population off the grid. A site consisting of 700 million members isn't going to let that happen because this site is a business and it's only concern and goal is to generate profit. Since money is the underlying issue, reporting people is completely useless. Last thing the site would do would be to ban someone who is actually here paying for their services. Trust me, I have reported people on this site for big issues regarding personal harm, hacking and stalking. No action was ever taken, regardless of the multiple reports I made against each of those members. Again, the root cause is money, therefore nothing gets solved by reporting.

porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
12/1/2018 2:39 pm

i HAVE NOTICE WHEN YOU TRY TO BE NICE AND SAY NOT INTERESTED, PEOPLE BECOME CRAZY, MOST OF US ON HERE DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER, THAT IS THE REASON WHY YOU SEND IM, I AM A STANDARD MEMBER SO MOST TIME YOU CAN'T READ PROFILES, BUT ONCE SOMEONE TELL YOU THEY AREN'T INTERESTED, JUST LEAVE THEM THE HELL ALONE, I WAS A GOLD MEMBER BECAUSE OF ASSHOLES LIKE THAT ONE, I DID NOT RENEW MY MEMBERSHIP BECAUSE MOST NEVER BOTHER TO READ YOUR PROFILE OR YOU BLOG, AND REPORTING THEM IS A WASTE OF TIME,JUST BLOCK AND LET THE OTHER MEMBERS KNOW ABOUT THE ASSHOLES.


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
12/3/2018 5:09 am

The media has perpetuated it beyond control. The race card by a particular demographic works so well it is used before an educational achievement or certification.
Related/not related reference. The term BBW on a site like this is thrown around to freely. I love and I am drawn to full figured curvy women. I always have been. But to be BBW should she be at least pretty/cute/beautiful? Not just big?
This was only to build on your discussion, not directed at you or anyone in particular.


Pls1plz 36M/45F
10 posts
12/3/2018 10:15 pm

This is so sad. You are not a racist because you want to be treated a certain way.


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