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Why oh why  

fun1s4you 57M/52F
11 posts
6/1/2016 9:32 am
Why oh why

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sexynewf61 62M
2876 posts
6/1/2016 9:47 am

I know the feeling from the view of a single male. I have traveled to meet couples only to be stood up. When I agree to meet, I keep my promise. Some people on here are only here to play games.

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northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
6/1/2016 9:56 am

Sorry to hear that. That seems to be a growing trend ... or at least, there's usually one or two posts per day about this subject.

Wondering if anyone has insights? Do people need to simply spend more time talking live to get a feel for the person? Is it usually married/attached guys who don't show? What works and what doesn't?

It's a head scratcher for me. I'm simple. If we exchange msgs, talk by phone and plan a date--I show up.

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
6/1/2016 10:21 am

it seems to happen more times than not, set up meets, then no show


funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
6/25/2016 7:38 am

We are done with single guys, like you ,tired of the no shows or worse cant get it up or keep it up . We don't want to hear from them at all , gave them a ton of chances . we are only looking for single ladies or real open cpls. Also tired of guys posing as cpls, easy to find out when the lady is never avail to chat on phone .


fun1s4you replies on 6/29/2016 10:19 am:
It's not just single guys. We have run into it with couples also. This site has just gone to shit.

ClittyFlickr 69M

2/10/2017 8:36 am

I am a single bi guy and I love to please a lady and her man or either of them
love when I can do it in front of the other.. or taste both while they have sex
it's wonderful... I respect a couple's relationship and that means I
show up and meet.. you may enjoy my profile and videos.. I'm very oral


Grizly144 64M
216 posts
11/17/2017 8:30 am

I believe that these people are not real and get pleasure out of standing you up. I had many no shows when arranging to meet. For the life of me I cannot figure out why these people do this to others. What do they get by doing this. I give up trying to figure it out. I'm single and looking to meet real people.


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