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The struggles of being a young man on AFF.  

cswalters93 30M
3 posts
5/16/2016 8:37 am
The struggles of being a young man on AFF.


I spent my hard earned money to get a year of gold membership on this site.
I have a strong sex drive, a desire to experiment and explore new things sexually. Unfortunately most people my age or at least in the crowd of people I socialize with the opportunities to share group experiences, explore sexualities, mingle with different partners/couples are few and far between. just as well, when opportunities DO arrive there are often many limits of comfort/interests and many are still very inhibited. I want to step out of my comfort zone and become involved in the "lifestyle," community. I want to mingle with various age groups, meet couples and experience the activities they like to share with single men. I would like people who know the ropes to help me find and get involved in new things I haven't yet been introduced to. I would like to step out of my comfort zone and really define my sexual interests through experiencing what's out there!
BUT unlike with young ladies, people see young men on here and they see another . they don't take or treat them seriously and don't give them a second thought. I would not have spent money to join this site if I knew that I would be overlooked and swept aside despite my efforts to reach out and put myself out there..
I know I am young, but I am not a . I mean its been three years now that I have been able to buy my own liquor. I'm not 18, fresh out of high school and walking around like a man because I'm finally legal. I've had three vehicles, leased and left an apartment of my own, gotten a college education, and have already had marriage and discussions with a previous girlfriend at this point!!!
So yes I am a young guy, and the fact that my baby face makes me appear younger than I really am isn't any help, but I can please a woman just as well as anyone else, I have something to offer and I feel like I deserve to be able to share it with people and experience the things this site can offer without being looked over or treated like a joke.

anyway that's my rant, hope someone relates or understands the struggle we young guys deal with on here!

redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
5/16/2016 8:40 am

Sad. Try a college setting or soft ball league....


zandigal 59F
13016 posts
5/16/2016 9:45 am

after you read beachcomber644's comment...
read it 100 more times.


Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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