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Really? All of them?  

Justagirl9895 41F
33 posts
12/14/2015 11:55 pm
Really? All of them?


I'm taking issue with people (esp men) who write on their profiles that they have no preference. Really? I call BS! How can you say you like all women. All of them!? Again, really? There are some women out there with serious BO. Do you like them too? What about the one missing all their front teeth? And the super bitchy selfish ones? Oh I'm sure you love those. Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating vanity or being superficial but surely you cannot like everyone. There has to be something that turns you off one person and not another. Otherwise why there hell are you single? If you like everyone then at no point in your life should you be partnerless. Just on to the next one right? Anyway my point is saying you like all women is just being lazy. You have a preference. Take the time to write it down, and it will help me in deciding whether to contact you or not.

itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
12/15/2015 12:03 am

My dear, I am sure the guys will not like this answer, but there is a good number, a HUGE NUMBER of men that would fuck a snake if they could hold it still long enough. LOLOL There is a large contingency of men that just want to fuck something with a warm hole and could care less about the owner of it as long as they don't have to jack off again. They may not brag about it, they may even laugh about how fat or ugly that woman was, but they WILL fuck her rather than have to jack off. SORRY FELLAS!!! Blame your own kind for that behavior and you know who we are talking about!!


xxxsasaxxxx 49M
719 posts
12/15/2015 1:56 am

yeah >>!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/15/2015 2:12 am

To define what he doesn't find attractive, is a waste of energy, could be lengthy, will be hurtful, will invite all kinds of hate mail, pretty much make you look schmucky, and who knows, maybe specifying specifics about what you are attracted to and what you are not attracted to , may cause you to miss someone you might not have ever considered before.

So , being superficial would be how a guy would come across, if he did that, and potentially ruin meeting a really cool girl.

The ratio on here is about 20:1, depending on ones location , may vary, but why make that ratio worse? No smart guy would intentionally do that.

What about the one missing all their front teeth? ... At a meeting, he can say, "No".

And the super bitchy selfish ones? .... Again, at a meeting, he can say, "No".

Otherwise why the hell are you single? .... Most guys are single because being single is a smart choice today. Now he has the luxury of dating anyone he chooses, any given day, week, or month, or have a collection of favorites.

If you like everyone then at no point in your life should you be partnerless. ... That's okay. Men don't need to play "Partners" with one woman, and really no straight male is going to refer to his woman as his "Partner", unless he is in law enforcement, opening a business.

Just on to the next one right? ... This is truly a good way. Establish a harem. Women, today, are usually busy, anyway, so what if he wants to go out Tuesday and wants a woman to accompany him to some event, but the one woman is busy with work, so the benefit of the harem, someone will go with him on Tuesday.

Anyway my point is saying you like all women is just being lazy. ... No, it's actually an attempt to make a lot of women not get all upset, feel bad about herself or him, and not get all weepy. So much less drama, specifying nothing.

You have a preference. .... Indeed we do, but who knows, meeting with you , he might find that you are a really cool chick.

Take the time to write it down, and it will help me in deciding whether to contact you or not. .... No. Buck up, and take a chance. Read what ever he says, study his photo, and arrange a meeting for 20 minutes.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/15/2015 2:18 am

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    My dear, I am sure the guys will not like this answer, but there is a good number, a HUGE NUMBER of men that would fuck a snake if they could hold it still long enough. LOLOL There is a large contingency of men that just want to fuck something with a warm hole and could care less about the owner of it as long as they don't have to jack off again. They may not brag about it, they may even laugh about how fat or ugly that woman was, but they WILL fuck her rather than have to jack off. SORRY FELLAS!!! Blame your own kind for that behavior and you know who we are talking about!!
Nothing to be sorry about. Basically that is a true statement. Women do the something like that too. Women congregate and laugh about the kind of guys who want to fuck her, and [she] boasts about how long she makes him wait, or spend on her.

So yes, a warm hole can be just fine. This is a sex site , after all, not Christian Mingle.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/15/2015 2:21 am

    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I like short blondes, but was very aroused by a tall brunette I once dated. Then there was the young African American girl I had in my 1st FMF, and the Redhead from a MFM. I have a preference, but can enjoy different women with different styles. Why are we still single? People always find a way to turn us off. You surely have a preference, so why wouldn't you go with that, instead of letting HIS preference be the deciding factor in whether or not you contact him?
Why are we still single? .... Also because being single is fun, today. Enjoy it.


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
12/15/2015 7:58 am

HEATHEN_G STATED: Nothing to be sorry about. Basically that is a true statement. Women do the something like that too. Women congregate and laugh about the kind of guys who want to fuck her, and [she] boasts about how long she makes him wait, or spend on her. So yes, a warm hole can be just fine. This is a sex site , after all, not Christian Mingle.

Umm.. it is not a 'sex site' i.e. an online whorehouse, which is what quite a few men think sex site means. I myself am NOT here to fuck, I am here to play on my cam. So I am NOT having sex. Many here are here to blog or chat, even write stories, not just to fuck. It may not be Christn Mingle, but to assume we are all here to fuck around and not have preferences is wrong on all levels.

If that is what one wants to do is just BE a hole for a guy, go for it, but do not ASSUME as it is supposedly a sex site that all women are here to be used as a hole. One can look for sex and not be a crude asshole about it and to try to justify it by stating it is a sex site is really ignorant. Assholes are assholes no matter what and we see it. hahaha

YEPPERS.. there are women that do that.. I know of women that do Exactly that. Thank God it isn't all of them either. hahahaha

In regards to Suepk05's answer...lol I LOVE YOU. I can always find something they are not into as well. Anything?? So you will eat feces and play in vomit?? How about something like THAT babyyyyy.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/15/2015 11:58 pm

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    HEATHEN_G STATED: Nothing to be sorry about. Basically that is a true statement. Women do the something like that too. Women congregate and laugh about the kind of guys who want to fuck her, and [she] boasts about how long she makes him wait, or spend on her. So yes, a warm hole can be just fine. This is a sex site , after all, not Christian Mingle.

    Umm.. it is not a 'sex site' i.e. an online whorehouse, which is what quite a few men think sex site means. I myself am NOT here to fuck, I am here to play on my cam. So I am NOT having sex. Many here are here to blog or chat, even write stories, not just to fuck. It may not be Christn Mingle, but to assume we are all here to fuck around and not have preferences is wrong on all levels.

    If that is what one wants to do is just BE a hole for a guy, go for it, but do not ASSUME as it is supposedly a sex site that all women are here to be used as a hole. One can look for sex and not be a crude asshole about it and to try to justify it by stating it is a sex site is really ignorant. Assholes are assholes no matter what and we see it. hahaha

    YEPPERS.. there are women that do that.. I know of women that do Exactly that. Thank God it isn't all of them either. hahahaha

    In regards to Suepk05's answer...lol I LOVE YOU. I can always find something they are not into as well. Anything?? So you will eat feces and play in vomit?? How about something like THAT babyyyyy.
This is a sex site. Go to Google, type, "Sex dating sites", you get this one, along with some others. In fact, A.F.F. made the number 2 of the Editors top 10 sex dating sites.

Umm.. it is not a 'sex site' ..... Yes it is.

sex site i.e. an online whorehouse, .... Well , essentially it is a whorehouse. Girls get Gold membership for free, men typically have to pay to get access to profiles where chicks flaunt their junk. Buy points for TopFan, view videos of women jerking off with stuff if you pay to see it, so yes, it's essentially a whorehouse. Oh and if a guy says he wants to meet you, you probably expect him to buy you a drink or something to eat, that is 'Being compensated' , so again, yes, it's a whorehouse, online.

which is what quite a few men think sex site means. ...No. Men think sex means fucking. And that's why they chance placing a profile on here looking for a woman who wants to do that too.

I myself am NOT here to fuck, I am here to play on my cam. .... Okay so you're basically a video sex operator.

So I am NOT having sex. ... True, you're probably more into masturbation.

Many here are here to blog or chat, even write stories, not just to fuck. .... Still as sex site. Evidence of that all over this site.

It may not be Christn Mingle, .... That's where you should go, if the behavior of men , on this site, offends you.

but to assume we are all here to fuck around and not have preferences is wrong on all levels. .... Nonsense. You're here to fuck around, in one way or another. Best thing is , every woman knows exactly why she is here, what this site is about, because she filled out a profile and submitted it. Excellent for women past their prime to still get validation, and for young women to play with their power of attraction.

Enjoy yourself, but zip it if you encounter a man who is saying something like, "Wanna fuck", because on here, that's a conversation starter.


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
12/16/2015 9:24 am

STRAIGHT OUT OF THE HELP SECTION HERE ON THE SITE:

STRAIGHT FROM THE HELP SECTION ON THE SITE!!

What is the purpose of HotMatch.com?

The purpose of HotMatch.com site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At HotMatch.com, you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, that allow you to narrow your search so you can find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at Passion a successful and fun experience.

I AM NOT HERE TO MEET ANYONE!! So NO, I am not a whore nor a sex operator as I am not receiving even a dinner or coffee for anything. If you wish to call yourself a whore then go for it, but as per your definition everyone on the planet would be a whore as we work for a living so taking money from our employer is being a whore. That is RIDICULOUS at best. You are just making argument for the sake of it.

I am not into masturbation, I HAVE a person I do sexual things with. Geesh, you are just digging for a fight.

I HOPE TO GOD THERE ARE NOT WOMEN NAKED ON CAM ON CHRSTN MINGLE!! Should I tell them they need that on their site?? ROFLMAO.

I never said it offended ME. I was making conversation, of which is about to stop. I gave you more credit than I should have obviously.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/16/2015 9:41 pm

    Quoting itsallfantasy:
    STRAIGHT OUT OF THE HELP SECTION HERE ON THE SITE:

    STRAIGHT FROM THE HELP SECTION ON THE SITE!!

    What is the purpose of HotMatch.com?

    The purpose of HotMatch.com site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At HotMatch.com, you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, that allow you to narrow your search so you can find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at Passion a successful and fun experience.

    I AM NOT HERE TO MEET ANYONE!! So NO, I am not a whore nor a sex operator as I am not receiving even a dinner or coffee for anything. If you wish to call yourself a whore then go for it, but as per your definition everyone on the planet would be a whore as we work for a living so taking money from our employer is being a whore. That is RIDICULOUS at best. You are just making argument for the sake of it.

    I am not into masturbation, I HAVE a person I do sexual things with. Geesh, you are just digging for a fight.

    I HOPE TO GOD THERE ARE NOT WOMEN NAKED ON CAM ON CHRSTN MINGLE!! Should I tell them they need that on their site?? ROFLMAO.

    I never said it offended ME. I was making conversation, of which is about to stop. I gave you more credit than I should have obviously.
Again, research the site. Second on the list of "Sex dating sites".

So the "Community" of people who looked up the site, saw the advertising, are looking for sex. To come here to find someone else who is into crocheting, would be stupid. You're on the wrong site.

If you wish to call yourself a whore then go for it, .... No. Men are natural born sluts when it comes to adult interaction. We don't expect compensation for you to sit on our boners.

but as per your definition everyone on the planet would be a whore as we work for a living so taking money from our employer is being a whore. .... That , in fact, is correct. You are compensated. So being a whore for a paycheck.

I HOPE TO GOD THERE ARE NOT WOMEN NAKED ON CAM ON CHRSTN MINGLE!! .... I would hope there is. That would be so damn hot.


talos1422 47M
44 posts
12/17/2015 2:13 am

And there ya have it folks, a guy that is exactly the type that women avoid as he is a misogynistic jerk due to he can't get laid so he makes sweeping, insulting comments about them. Not all men are natural born sluts no matter if he is, and he is now totally disrespecting this entire blog as that wasn't the subject. I can totally understand why women are the way they are when I see guys behaving like this. I didn't come here to find sex and I most certainly haven't met anyone from here. Fun can be many things other than sex. I noted he used the word Dating in his definition, so by that alone he blew his own definition of sex site. lol Please ladies, we are not all like that. Please ignore the asshats and weed them out, sometimes it is easier than others, but there are good men here.

I have no preferences listed as I am not really looking and I agree, if one is willing to do anyone the avoid them. Who wants someone, male or female, that will screw anyone? I surely don't.


LoveJunkie2015 41F
487 posts
12/17/2015 3:07 am

I agree with your post. Yes, everyone has preferences. Look at my profile and you may think I have TOO MANY, but hey, I have a right to be picky. When I get 50 messages a day, and good lawd if I go into IM, 1000s. I need preferences to choose who to talk to, and since I took the time to specify in my profile, I'd assume I'd get less messages, but A. most men ARE too lazy to read my profile, let alone fill out their own. I for one do NOT talk to anyone who doesn't fill out their profile. An empty profile is to me a way of showing that they can make things up as they go along to fit whoever they are talking to. B. I prefer if you say what you're looking for so I know whether or not to waste my time messaging you or not. It is an ego blow a bit when I don't get a response because some guy that supposedly wants to just fuck anything, doesn't think I"m hot enough. I do agree that I think the vast majority of men are willing to stick their dicks in a warm bowl of soup if it'll get them off. They do fuck fat women and laugh about it later. I've always been one of those guy's girls that's had tons of "bros" my whole life and I hear them say rude, awful shit like that about women all the time. Sex is sex to them, especially if they're drunk. I keep coming back to this site hoping that one day more men on here will have more common courtesy and respect for women on here, but every time I am still disappointed. This is NOT a free whorehouse where women will fuck you no matter what, and that is what most of the men who message me seem to expect. I do not respond to "nice tits" or "hi" messages. Yeah I have my boobs displayed on my profile. I need something to draw attention, but I choose to do it modestly, never nipples, never cooch, never naked anything. IMO, it's trashy, no offense to anyone doing those things, just my PERSONAL preference. I prefer men with chest/ab shots over dick pics. Well, I PREFER face pics, but I'd rather not have my face displayed on this "sex site" for anyone in my small town to stumble across and know I'm on here. I am here for sex, but I am very picky. Personality and ability to hold conversation/make me laugh wins over anything else


LoveJunkie2015 41F
487 posts
12/17/2015 3:11 am

    Quoting talos1422:
    And there ya have it folks, a guy that is exactly the type that women avoid as he is a misogynistic jerk due to he can't get laid so he makes sweeping, insulting comments about them. Not all men are natural born sluts no matter if he is, and he is now totally disrespecting this entire blog as that wasn't the subject. I can totally understand why women are the way they are when I see guys behaving like this. I didn't come here to find sex and I most certainly haven't met anyone from here. Fun can be many things other than sex. I noted he used the word Dating in his definition, so by that alone he blew his own definition of sex site. lol Please ladies, we are not all like that. Please ignore the asshats and weed them out, sometimes it is easier than others, but there are good men here.

    I have no preferences listed as I am not really looking and I agree, if one is willing to do anyone the avoid them. Who wants someone, male or female, that will screw anyone? I surely don't.
This guy...we need more like him on this site. thank your sir


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
12/17/2015 7:38 am

THANK YOU FOR THE ADDED POSTS even though it isn't my blog.

LoveJunkie2015 I get flooded with IM's when I am on cam and most of them are so vile they make me wanna puke. Courtesy is almost totally lost there.

Suepk05 that is EXACTLY how I feel too. No one pays for my anything, I pay for it all.

Guys are way too lazy on the internet as this happens on other sites as well.


Vickie_Jo 62F

12/17/2015 10:10 am

Sometimes.........they make it really obvious


itimebomb666 57M
521 posts
12/30/2015 7:19 am

well what can i say after all that......i do have an ideal woman in my head.....its boxing helana but deaf. dumb and blind lol

BOOMSHENKA may the seed of your loin be fruitfull in the belly of your woman.(neil - the young ones)


Ababix3 37M
1459 posts
2/20/2016 6:20 pm

While I might have preferences, I prefer to keep most to myself. Met a lady from this site with terrible body odor sometime back. But I wouldn't need to have that in my preferences since most women take good care of their hygiene.

Having too many preferences would would also take away from the excitement that being on this site gives.


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