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Oops, We did it Again......... Almost  

vabeachhotwife 63M/62F
76 posts
2/13/2016 2:39 pm
Oops, We did it Again......... Almost


Well, once again the wall of shame has raised it's ugly head. Exchanged numerous emails on here with a local guy (Chesapeake). He said that he was interested, but the communication was limited. Almost one-sided. Described our situation and what we'd be looking for. All he did was express concern about maintaining discretion and privacy. Both of which are completely valid concerns. But to that degree should have been a red flag.
Eventually she contacted him directly, and the two of them exchanged emails. But it sounds like he was just as "guarded". Again, chalk it up to not being sure who you can trust or not. Ok. They made a date to get together....... But he wasn't willing to meet in a public place. A bar...... coffee shop..... etc. Wanted it to be a hotel parking lot at 8 at night. When she expressed concerns over that, it took him forever to respond. And then all he did was tell her that he'd find another alternative location. Ok, cool. The alternative: How about the WaWa gas station parking lot across the street from the hotel? Really? Oh, it's because he's really dating someone. But is looking for some action on the side. And that's why he's being so secretive.
Thanks, but we don't help guys cheat. His profile says "Separated" under marital status. And that he "...doesn't want any drama or games." Thanks for at least not being a ghost. But considering this new information, will have to give it a pass. Too bad, too. She thought that he was good-looking (he'd sent a picture).
And, as so many other women have reported on here, he then gets nasty. Calls us the fakes and phonies. Oh well. The way that we like to meet others may not be so cut and dried simple. But this is one of the reasons why we try to take some time before agreeing to meet. And our profile points that out, right?
Looking into the "Confirmed" / "Verified" parts of the profile to see if it helps alleviate some of the doubts........
For the other couples in the area....... watch out for this scenario.............
Moving on.........

love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
2/13/2016 3:04 pm

Shit happens happy valentines day


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
2/13/2016 3:08 pm

I have found that alot of guys will put on here they are Separated but they are still living in the same house sleeping in the same bed All they are after is to be a cheating spouse. They need a slap across the head. I like the ones that claim to be single on their profiles and all of a sudden they want you to talk to the wife then she is giving you permission to have sex with him they do their own thing. I dont think so. then you have the ones that are attached funny another man cheating lol

LadyTeddieBear


vabeachhotwife replies on 2/13/2016 3:17 pm:
Haven't come across a "single" guy who suddenly puts her in contact with his (oh, I forgot she existed) wife, telling you to go ahead and have sex with her husband. That would be a new one. Usually, it's the "separated / single" guys (see above). Or the "Couples" where the wife is currently "She's taking a break from playing". Or is otherwise unavailable to even have a drink and socialize........
Still say that the ladies should all get together and form the wall of shame. Just has to be within the rules of the site so that no one gets banned.

candylickernmike 73M/62F
1 post
2/18/2016 5:15 am

My husband and I play as a couple and play with other couples. We don't like to play with couples that are just sneaking out to just meet with each other just to play. We like real couples so we can have a social relationship with them as well. Like real FWBs , go out to dinner , catch a show, go away for a weekend etc.


vabeachhotwife replies on 2/18/2016 7:37 am:
Thanks. And that's the intent of the "FWB" part of her search. Otherwise, she'd simply respond to every booty call that comes in. And she doesn't do that......... anymore....... lol.

FuckandSuckit 57M  
443 posts
2/20/2016 12:05 pm

If you ever cum up to Toronto Canada for a visit, Please contact me

Very seXxxy, Muah

FuckandSuckit


vabeachhotwife replies on 2/21/2016 6:43 am:
Have often thought about how much fun it could be to take an extended road trip with her. Travel around and finally get to meet up with a few different folks that we've chatted with on here. It would be cool to see new places, with the added benefit of some possible fun with others as well.

Trapper69 67G  
2657 posts
3/5/2017 1:34 am

I can't imagine what makes some guys act like that.... Everyone is rejected at times.....simply move on.....why bitch and moan AND attack someone just because they're not interested... I always thank them for their time, and wish them luck in their search... Twice, by me being polite, they've changed their minds and invited me to meet them and it worked out great. We enjoyed a lot of fun together. I still meet with the one couple 14 years later!


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