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Blogs > vabeachhotwife > Our Thoughts and Experiences

FWB vs Hookups 2  

vabeachhotwife 63M/62F
76 posts
1/28/2016 5:57 am
FWB vs Hookups 2

Had a few responses from our previous posting. Thanks to those.
Sort of made me think about a possible statistic in this though. Most of the gentlemen who agreed with us were 40+ and probably more mature. Is it the younger.......... more specifically, the NOT mature....... ones who are the most guilty in this? They think that just by approaching a woman and asking her, "Hey! Wanna go fuck?" that she's going to automatically agree? As most guys get a bit older (most, but not all), they begin to learn that this tactic doesn't always work so well.
Don't get me wrong. She enjoys the hell out of the enthusiasm that a younger guy shows when they do connect. "Enthusiasm", meaning stamina and ability to repeat during the evening........
So, for the other ladies out there: is this your experience as well? (Regarding younger vs older.) Is it mostly the younger guys who expect a hook-up after only two short text messages to you?

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
2/6/2016 5:25 am

 My personal experience is that there's no difference. A man can be in his 30s, 40s or 50s... heck even a few 20s and 60+s, and there's still a certain percentage who just don't get it. Who think that there only needs to be minimal investment before the reward. It just seems a little more expected or not-surprising coming from a "boy" than it does coming from a "man" I suppose. When a 40+ man does it we all kind of think "he's too old to be acting that way," and when a -40 man does it we excuse it as "too young to know better."


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
2/9/2016 9:56 am

 Most men who approach over 45's women like me, most of the time they just want a quick fix. They don't want to introduce themselves better, discuss compatibility, or negotiate in general.
Their age doesn't seem to play a role, IMHO it's how they happen to view us older women.


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