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6 years
6 years it's been six long years since the death of my some days are better then others this ones not so good the pain the anger the sadness I'm still learning to deal the only good thing that came from the husband fucking around is it gave me a place to focus all that rage and finally let some of it go or redirect it anyway sure I made her life hell but why not she was fucking my husband I'll get over this and as soon as possible I will move on the only thing I am waiting for now is my to outgrow will intentioned misinformed grandparents it's my own damn fault I've covered for him so well and so completely that they still have no idea how deep his drinking problem is hell if I hadn't found his mistress I'd still be in denial of it myself ah well life goes on we live we learn some days I miss my rose colored glasses ignorance is bliss not acknowledging it meant I didn't have to deal with it I've told both his parents and mine but since I didn't say anything until after he had his affair I come off as a snarky jaded wife trying to get back at her husband he is very very sorry and it will never ever happen again I am to forgive and forget and return to the way things were before |
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Sorry for your loss. I do give the best hugs.
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1 post 1/27/2015 11:28 pm |
Its been 4years cent's my only son past I do no what you're filling
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This is probably one of the toughest blogs I've ever read. I realize anything said by a stranger can be way off the mark and really there are no words that will ever bring total comfort, but i hope you find your happiness again some day. Take care out there.
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1/25/2015 11:35 am |
Sorry about your loss, losing a child is devastating thing. And being in a awful relationship doesn't help matter. I got my finger crossed, and wishing someone good happen for you in 2015.
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Forgive but never forget. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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A momma shouldn't have to bury her young . Everybody deals with grief different I watched my mom crawl into the bottle over my twin brother death . There really isn't anything to do I sure wish she would have seeked help instead of seeing how fast she could die . Seen people tiptoe around not mentioning the name even . I wish that you find the answer to handle your grief I know it is large . I am so sorry you are going through this . It shouldn't happen but it does again I feel for you .
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