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When is a guy bi-sexual?  

sexy4uplay 65F  
126 posts
3/13/2018 9:10 pm
When is a guy bi-sexual?

Hi Again,
This seems like an odd subject to blog about because I am not attracted at all to bi-sexual men. But I figured that since there are so many guys that are openly claiming to be bi-sexual on the site and so many that hint they have that leaning I thought it might be a good discussion topic.

If you claim you are a bi-sexual male but have never interacted with another man are you bi-sexual just because you have the urge?

How about if a man is sucked by another guy ... lets say a woman is sitting on his face and another guy sucks him without him knowing it is a guy ... the girl sitting on his face says "do you like that?" and he says yes ... is he bi-sexual?

Or how about the guys who have a profile shot of their butt ... does that make them bi?

Just wondering what is it that makes a guy bi? Any thoughts anyone has on this topic?

Smiles,
Sexy

Tim99028 59M  
16 posts
3/14/2018 2:54 pm

 Hi there! Thanks Sexy, interesting topic.
I've had that experience, during a threesome, lady was top and tailing me with her pussy right in my face. Her and her husband were obviously down at my nether regions! Yes I did wonder who was sucking my cock, and was certain of it while I was taking a breath!
In the end I didn't mind, I was obviously enjoying eating her pussy, and it didn't matter who was sucking my cock. The sensation was the same.
I'm not homophobic and don't mind being near a naked man during a threesome. But can't say that this makes me bi sexual.
It was all about the threesome and pleasuring the woman and hey that is a fabulous experience being with a woman who is just fizzing at the attention two men can give her!


sexy4uplay 65F  
42 posts
4/30/2018 9:28 pm

 Hi Tim,
you sound straight. My bf says his definition of a bi guy is a guy who looks for guys and plays alone with them ... or if a guy reaches out to another guy ... who knows.
Thanks.
Sexy


sexy4uplay 65F  
42 posts
4/30/2018 9:36 pm

 Hi Scott,
I don't think that enjoying your prostate makes you gay ... or even bi ... well unless you are enjoying your prostate by another guy putting his cock in your ass ... lol ... but seriously if a woman enjoys pleasuring you in this way and you enjoy it then why not?
Thanks,
Sexy


jrinco 66M  
116 posts
10/3/2018 11:42 am

 This is a great question.....like the others, my experiences have been with MW couples.....a little casual contact.......help guiding my cock into a particular place....thay sort of thing. While I was occupied with the wife, two of the guys started sucking my cock.....while unexpected, it felt good.....it didn't bother me at all.........they were sharing their wife with me....it felt good.......I just went with it. Neither of the guys seemed to want reciprication......perhaps in the moment I would have????? That being said, I have no interest in meeting with guys alone, or seeking out guys. It's been a while since I've been with a couple......hopefully I'll find a couple again and will see what happens. My profile says Bi-curious......my thinking is showing I'm not afraid of some casual MM content.


EadenJames 103M
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4/8/2020 7:48 pm

 Hi, I realize this is an old blog but what the hell!
I think it's pretty cut and dry.
The first scenario you spoke of, never interacting with a man but have the urge; I believe that is pretty easily defined as bi curious.
The second scenario, a guy getting his dick sucked by an unseen mouth wouldn't even remotely make you bi sexual. That would be the same as saying you are a bad driver because a drunk driver hit your car while it was parked in your driveway.
It's quite simple, if a man by his own free will chooses to have sex with women AND men he is bisexual.
That's my take on it!


sexy4uplay replies on 4/9/2020 8:10 am:
Hi Eaden,
I see your point and it is a good one. Beyond the definition or how one classifies their orientation it would always be best to openly discuss the boundaries and expectations. Thank you for your thoughtful comment. Be safe out there.
Sexy

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