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Another single male message.......
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Another single male message....... I like to post messages I send and receive from single guys. Always anonymous of course. I hope it helps you understand how we roll. I asked if the "guy" was willing to call me to break the ice. He responded "You and your wife?" I responded......... No just me, I need to talk to you first before I even tell her about you. You have to realize we get hit up by 10 to 15 guys a day. I know what we both like and my wife is NOT interested nor does she have the time to talk to that many guys. Plus most guys seem to be "lookers" here. If you and I hit it off than I get my wife involved. I may also want to meet you ahead of my wife. That's how we roll.........in fact I may put this message on my blog. I hope all guys read this and respect why we do what we do. I do not want to put my wife under any pressure or put her in any danger. You never know who your dealing with until you meet them. I just need to do that first......Jim |
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You need to understand a few things here. I get quite a bit of attention from couples. The funny thing is that it is always the male on the other end. The female is either at work or sleeping. Even the cams are male only. My experience with couples has been this. If the two women hit it off then its a go and the male doesnt really care. I can understand why you would want to keep your lady safe but why couldnt you both go meet the male or both of you be on the conversation? There are way too many couples profiles here that are fake. When dealing with couples I like to be able to interact with both parties. Not saying that you are fake but if you contacted me with this scenario, I wouldn't bother.
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10/17/2014 10:32 pm |
Jim, I am a "Newbie" single male and actually have not had the opportunity to actually meet any couples face to face yet in fact haven't met any single ladies yet either. That will change tomorrow night at the RMP Halloween Party. I personally see no issues with your request for the phone call first then meeting just you for a drink. The way I look at it is because I am a single male I am already fighting an up hill battle of actually meeting a couple much less actually having it move on to the next level. So I figure it is not my place to question your process of selecting potential single males. In fact I think it is a very reasonable request. Like you said you get 10 to 15 request a day so you have the luxury of being very picky. So the way I see things is this, If this is a couple I would really like to meet why would I automatically disqualify my self by not following your very simple request. Larry
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Jim, I applaud you 100%. I do the same thing for Ms. Kitty. If a guy can't take the time to talk to me before he meets her then that is not the type of guy that I want around her anyway. Part of my responsibility as her mate is to make sure that she is safe and respected and she expects no less from me. After every encounter that we have had she has told me that it was enjoyable because she knows that I would never put her in harms way. Considering some of the messages that single guys send they are lucky we don't do full background checks before meeting. Chuck
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MissCinders, I know that there are a lot of "fake couples" out there and I cannot speak for anyone's relationship but my own. If I come across a single woman that I think it would be nice for us to play with and we email or IM on this site after the initial conversation I tell her that I would like for her to continue the dialogue with Ms. Kitty. I then forward a copy of the email, o her and have her contact the other woman so that they can work out the details; because to your point if they both hit it off I am in for a fantastic experience. Chuck
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