Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Forgot password?
Blogs > suddenlea > Suddenlea

Why Friendships  

suddenlea 77M/74F
26 posts
12/19/2013 1:48 am

Last Read:
9/27/2020 11:17 pm
Why Friendships

We have had many requests to become friends on this site. We also have asked many to form a friendship eventually hoping that a more intimate interaction will result. But only if all participants are compatible and serious about furthering the relationship. What we can't understand why do some members only wish to form friendship and nothing else. Can't they join a social club and make friends as HotMatch.com is a Swingers type site. They must realize that in the near future one will wish to proceed from being friends into some other form of deviation that most HotMatch.com profiles portray...we all have different kinks and certainly just being friends to us cannot be one. Maybe we are missing the picture. Possibly writing lurid stories, or telling of your fantasies provides extra satisfaction for you. Perhaps by associating with another member just as a friend you feel completely at ease....yes, we all have hidden agendas.

suddenlea 77M/74F

9/27/2020 5:59 pm

 We have met up with possibly 40-50 couples over the last twenty years with nothing ever eventuating..Nothing could be further from the truth than all they were intent on, was to see if we were Brad and Jennifer! Without all the make up, expensive clothes, hair do's false hair,
sun tans, capped teeth...you name it ....
It's what between your ears that determines a person.


Cazallia M/F

9/27/2020 2:26 pm

 Agreed! Association with various groups is about common shared interests. Hence a diversity in our friendship groups.

HotMatch.com likewise is of interest to us as a couple, to meet like-minded people with whom we feel comfortable and share our interest of enjoying intimate times with them.


Trapper69 67G  
2657 posts
5/15/2018 11:25 pm

 Sue and I travel, so we add people who live in the areas we travel to, or hope to travel to. We add women and couples who share our interests, and hope to visit and share steamy, hot, erotic fun with them when we're in their area. It's worked out great for us!


Become a member to create a blog