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Decisions, decisions
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Decisions, decisions The other day I received these 4 messages simultaneously (and I quote): "Hello? " "Hey there" "hi.." "hi there" How do I choose from these underwhelming greetings? Since they were equally uninspiring, I chose none. It was actually an easy choice. . So as not to point out a problem without a solution, I offer this suggestion. Try crafting a greeting that not only gets my attention but also engages my mind. Tell me something about yourself. Ask me my opinion. What is interesting to you? What have you seen or experienced? Avoid sex or crass comments. Do NOT say, “I have a hotel room. Join me.”, “Do you have a strap-on?”, “ Do you want to poop in my mouth?”. All of these are actual messages sent to me. They also got ignored. I know, I know. This is a sex site, but that doesn’t mean you don’t need to be civil. . It is said that the way to a man’s heart is though his stomach. The way into a woman’s pants is through her head. Stimulate her mind and other stimulation will follow. . In the end, the choice is yours. If you find what you are doing works for you, good for you. These are just my observations and thoughts, trying to be helpful. You can take them or leave them. |
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Good luck in your search.
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Hi amybell2. thanks for sharing your thoughts on greetings... I was just wondering how you got the different sizes of duct tape... black to attach to your face pics... It seems that you have found three different sizes... I always carry a roll of duct-tape in my car... you never know when you are going to need it... anyway... I hope that you find what you are looking for... reminded me of this song... Todd Rundgren - "Hello It's Me" Hello, it's me I've thought about us for a long, long time Maybe I think too much but something's wrong There's something here that doesn't last too long Maybe I shouldn't think of you as mine Seeing you, or seeing anything as much as I do you I take for granted that you're always there I take for granted that you just don't care Sometimes I can't help seeing all the way through It's important to me That you know you are free 'Cause I never want to make you change for me Think of me You know that I'd be with you if I could I'll come around to see you once in a while Or if I ever need a reason to smile... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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2/22/2019 9:24 pm |
sometimes you keep it short to see if theyre not busy or if they even want to talk....just sayin'
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2/22/2019 11:02 pm |
can I join you madame ?
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Your best is not behind you at 50!!
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2/22/2019 11:20 pm |
sadly most men don't know how to engage with the female mind so are just stuck with some of the stuff you mention
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Your post points out the fact that there is not much differences between men and women. I've received very few messages that said much beyond "hi there".  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Good morning amybell2! We saw your latest blog post and thought we’d share our ever-so-slightly different perspective. Generally speaking, we wholeheartedly agree with you. A message that simply reads “Hi there”, doesn’t really leave one with much to work in helping to carry a conversation forward. And, crass/rude messages are simply depressing. The one exception for us is over instant message. We will often say something as simple as “Good morning” to see if a woman has the time or interest to even engage in a live, interactive conversation. With that said, we try to include more substance in our introductory messages. We do read profiles and do our best to find something in common, or be able to refer to a particular interest we see in her profile. Some profiles make that easier to do than others.  Now, here’s our struggle these days. We only receive a response about 15% of the time. Yes, we took the time to do that math. Lol. And, wouldn’t you know, the most common reply we receive is “Hi there.” Haha. So, we’ll admit that, these days, our introductory messages are a little less creative than they used to be. We keep trying to find the right balance between being engaging and interesting to a woman, without wasting too much of our time, because we so rarely hear anything back. Once we have a woman’s attention, though, watch out! We love to chat; we love to share; and we love to learn! Thanks again, for inspiring us to write some of our thoughts down. Have a great day!!
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I can only imagine the look I'd get if I said that to you waiting for the cashier Or putting gas in my car. With so many unanswered messages.Hi,hello or how are you! Is really nothing more than "Is anyone home?Knock.Knock is anyone in there?" Since no one answers a simple ice breaker like that One'll never know just how engaging they could be! Using more than all the road!
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Hi Amybell I worry that our reliance on technology is actually beginning to erode our writing and social skills. There doesn't seem to be a lot of intelligence on display here at this site. And that is OK in some regards. But being pleasant and having something to say that doesn't begin with a sexually charged comment can go a long way. And it isn't just women who receive crude notes.
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