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Do younger guys or guys in general are intimidated by older women?
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Do younger guys or guys in general are intimidated by older women? The reason I am asking this question. I've been told that I am too smart for my own such as book smarts and sexual smarts. I am comfortable with who I am , I try to be as real on here, so if someone actually read my profile. They will see me. I decided for myself, take me for who I am, or just move on. I also believe guys who are intimidated by sexy intelligent women have thier own insecurities. Dee_Cums  |
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11/29/2016 5:51 pm |
I believe that every man comes with a plan when approaching a woman. The plan is never to have a woman that is more confident, or more astute than you are. So when they are faced with that situation, they just abort the approach and look for a person that fits the lame plan they had .
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12/7/2016 4:40 am |
I am never intimidated by an older woman ... in face at 52 I love an enjoy the company of a younger woman your age as there no time for baby mama drama. Its all about pleasing and pleasuring each other with the time we are together. Brook
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There's no doubt that being intimidated is a manifestation of one's own insecurities. I'm completely intimidated by a beautiful stranger, to the point where I would never have the courage to approach her. It's because I can't imagine how someone like that could ever be interested in me. That has nothing to do with her. I know it's my own insecurity. And yet, even knowing that, I find myself unable to accept the reality that she's just a person with her own flaws and fears, just like any other person. Interestingly, though, for me at least, it's only about looks. I find the fact that a woman is older than me to be a turn-on. That's many times more true for a woman who's intelligent and sexually confident. Both of those things lend themselves to communication, which I think is the heart of eroticism. Getting to know a woman on those levels doesn't intimidate me; it does the opposite. Finding out a woman is packing smarts is the fastest way to break down the intimidation barriers for me. Online interactions are great for me, because that way I get to know someone before I see them in person. I'm still shy(ish) the first time face-to-face, but it's pretty easy to find a comfortable feeling quickly when there's already been some chemistry established. By and large, I've always been this way. I've always found older women attractive. For as long as I can remember, I've had a fantasy of an older woman using me as her sex toy and acting as my teacher--just spending endless hours showing me all the secrets she knows about sensuality. At 37, I have enough experience to make that fantasy impossible, but I still have fantasies about sexually confident older woman showing me what she loves. I find many women tend to be passive sexually, and it can be a guessing game to find out what they enjoy besides the obvious. I find communication and sharing to be intimate, and that's a major turn-on for me. I can see how guys could be intimidated by that, though. I'm sure for some, that kind of thing can burst the bubble of confidence. And I'm sure others probably see assertiveness as somehow diminishing of their own abilities. But it's all the same thing, right? If you see the other person as a person, those traits are just part of who they are. If you don't see them that way, or worse, only see those traits from a self-centered perspective, you're going to have a much different reaction.
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I think it just makes you more sexy!!
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Yepyep.....fellas who are intimidated by ladies like you are insecure.....Open invitation to Galveston for a freaky, orgasmic beach adventure anytime!!
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