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Blogs > angeldemoted > Broken Halos

So you want replies  

angeldemoted 44F  
144 posts
1/6/2018 9:49 am
So you want replies

I'm mostly venting here... I know most of the guys who will actually read this already know it.

So it's the post holiday season. And we have the annual rush of guys complaining that they don't get replies. All you guys who are currently complaining women never reply. (Mostly all you new members who are just meeting the realities of this site and having buyers remorse.)

I actually did not reply to a message today… one I was going to reply to. Why? Because there on the profile was the comment “it’s only polite to reply” and seriously that comment is pissing me off.

Now a bunch of you are getting your temper up. Probably about to call me names (really polite by the way ).

But here it is...

I used to try to reply to all decent messages in my inbox. By decent i mean… more than a one liner, and not offensive. As I don’t really play these days my reply was almost always a gentle: “Thanks but no thanks.”

I would say less than 10% of guys respected that answer. Most tried to convince me I didn’t actually know what I wanted. Some got out right rude and resorted to name calling.

And does anyone think those behaviors really made me want to reply and chat more? It quickly became not worth my time.

No matter what you paid for that membership. You are not entitled to replies. You are not entitled to meet someone from this site. Just like in the real world you want a woman to like you and respond to you… you’re gonna have to work at it.

So you want replies… send somethings worth replying too. Fill out that profile. Have a decent picture. And cross your fingers and hope. Sometimes it's all in the timing.

angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
1/6/2018 9:51 am

 And no arguing with me on this will not change my opinon. Is it fair you guys have crazy odds against you? Nope. Does all the whining help? Nope


Bunnysyummy2 64F
11293 posts
1/6/2018 9:55 am

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Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
1/6/2018 10:02 am

 I so agree with you. Why answer if he isn't what i want which he knows but choose to ignore my profile. I also don't answer nasty messages or ones with d pictures. Nasty messages that starts off that way shows without opening it. To many believe the instant hookups with a hot person ads. Some think women are suppose to want any and all men who want them. Manners don't matter on this kind of site some think. NOTICE i didn't say all men.
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


justlookin_50 49M
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1/6/2018 10:27 am

 I agree, new guys on here need to understand theres a lot of trial and error. They won't get replies every time... once they put some time into it i'm sure they'll have better luck.


Cumfindoutmore 59M

1/6/2018 10:40 am

 I believe many of the young guys here are hungry for replies because they are anxious to have sexual conversations only. Most of them are unable to talk about much anyway so they are here just for sexual conversations and encounters. Limited vocabulary and communication skills are lacking in today's society.


let_me_see1 64M
Ask me for a photo

1/7/2018 1:35 pm

 To me it is simple....If it is my decision to message or IM someone, it is then their decision to reply or not. It's that simple.

Now what does get me a little upset is when someone (not you) posts a blog post and asks for opinions and comments and then doesn't respond to the comments they receive. There are a few blogs I no longer respond to because of those antics.
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discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
1/7/2018 10:52 pm

 I think if a guy wants to be fairly certain of a reply, write to a really pretty woman in a third world country who says she's looking for romance and a life partner. Or answer local classified ads that advertise car play, no-strings blowjobs, satisfaction guarantees, and so forth. The former write to me fairly often, and I haven't figured out whether they're looking for an immigration marriage or up to some kind of financial scam. The latter, of course, are looking for quid-pro-qou.

Aside from that, the best way to get a reply is probably to establish a positive image in the blogs, then write to someone who recognizes your positive image, and have something to say that's worth a reply. That's no guarantee, but it's more likely to get a reply than a copy-and-paste mass mailing of a penis portrait and words like, "The site's ads say, 'Get laid tonight,' so let's fuck."


Calpal4sucking 45M

10/5/2018 4:20 pm

 Hey that’s not fair males don’t have the odds stacked against us🧐. We have the same probability/odds of getting what we want as everybody... slim to none chance that we will even know the complete truth about profiles on here or have the patience to just respond to someone continually hoping that they are being genuine ( can’t blame people for wanting general information and wanting to meet up right away since they want to). That being said there’s no place for verbally attacking someone that isn’t looking for what they think they should. That’s them wasting their “member”shit lol. I only paid for a month and if I can’t have real life relationships afterwards I’d be disappointed I wasted an hours wage but happy I didn’t have to deal with people that tried to make them happen just cause their on here🙄. It’s not really a hard concept ( just a nice way you might be able to know what person is looking for in general before going out on a date to find out a little bit etc). Anyways probably pretty optimistic since it’s day one of mine lol but hopefully everyone can get a bit of joy off here gl all🤠


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
1/17/2019 8:00 am

 Well said. Men must realize that the women here owe them nothing.
Thoughts from the Garden...


Need4contact 43M
8 posts
2/6/2022 5:02 pm

 Hello Angel,

The competition here is invisible to me, meaning I don't see other men's profiles. And, I don't know what they are writing in message sent to ladies. One reason I would not reply is because once I open the gate, there is a new flood of new messages from the same user. Also not counting the avalanche of messages from other members. Its is quite frankly overwhelming, even though the ego is having a sushi buffet. But that is just me and my opinion.

I am actually trying to get attention from anybody in general, considering the fact that I, as well as many others, am not getting any replies or views here!!

Best regards
Jon


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