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It Was Just A Kiss  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10179 posts
2/3/2019 10:49 pm
It Was Just A Kiss

He kissed her carefully, a first date kiss intended to invite and seduce. It was a kiss designed to reassure, a kiss meant to send the message that she was safe with him.

She had been through so much. The last thing she needed was a sexual encounter that she might regret in the morning. The last thing he wanted was to be the source of that regret.

Her response was cautious at first. That was OK...he expected that.

What he didn't expect was the way the simmering heat between them exploded with such intensity. Her lands became small claws on his shoulders. Her mouth was hot and wet. She shivered in his arms, gasped for air and pressed herself against him.

It took great effort on his part to tear his mouth free from hers.

"This is not a good idea," he mumbled.

At first, she didn't seem to hear him. Then she froze. He could literally feel the chill sweep through her.

She took a step back. folded her arms across herself tightly. He could not read her expression, there in the shadow - he couldn't tell if she was hurt or embarrassed - but either way, he was pretty sure he had screwed things up.

"You are right, this was a huge mistake. And it was my fault," she confessed.

"Don't start," he warned.

"I apologize for putting you into such an awkward situation.. You were trying to comfort me and I attempted to take advantage of your good intentions,"

"That is not what was happening here. This is crazy," he argued.

"You may of course, make your own decisions about the wisdom of getting into a personal relationship with me," she said.

"Oh really? Gee thanks for clearing that up for me," he countered.

"It was just a kiss. I was in the mood and apparently, so were you. It was your decision to end it and I guess I can respect that. But don't try to tell me you did it for my own good. Is that clear?"

"This is what I get of trying to be a gentleman?", he asked.

"No. This is what you get for pissing me off," she said.

"Out of morbid curiosity, do you get into arguments like this with a lot of your dates?"

"Nope. This is a first." She smiled at him victoriously. "And I must say, it did wonders for my mood. I feel a lot better now, than I did twenty minutes ago," she declared.

"That's a damn frightening thought!", he countered.

"Sort of cathartic, I guess," she replied.

"Yeah, well I am glad it was so good for you!". He turned and walked away, summoning all of his courage to resist slamming the door as he left.


What do you think about kissing 😘 on a first date?
Do you remember the first kiss you ever had ?



sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/3/2019 10:52 pm

The first kiss tells everything. If it doesn't go well, chances are, nothing further will happen.


lickeyzsplit 61M
1516 posts
2/4/2019 5:52 am

Either there is a connection or not would probably have an inkling of it before a first kiss!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/4/2019 6:25 am

    Quoting lickeyzsplit:
    Either there is a connection or not would probably have an inkling of it before a first kiss!
Yes that’s true.
I certainly wouldn’t kiss 💋 someone I wasn’t attracted to!


mc_justmc 63M

2/4/2019 6:59 am

I've got to get a real good vibe to go for a kiss on the 1st date and I can't read vibes worth a shit any more, so "she" usually has to make that 1st move. My 1st kiss? Yes, yes I do. A kiss in the closet during a spin the bottle game.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/4/2019 7:57 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've got to get a real good vibe to go for a kiss on the 1st date and I can't read vibes worth a shit any more, so "she" usually has to make that 1st move. My 1st kiss? Yes, yes I do. A kiss in the closet during a spin the bottle game.
When it comes to kissing, I wonder 🤔 how many women are comfortable making the first move?
Spin-the-bottle may have the first kiss opportunity for many people.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
2/4/2019 8:25 am

a good first kiss is powerful.... it needs to be done with the right intent

I'm an old man... I barely remember what happened yesterday..... but somethings are never forgotten


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/4/2019 9:41 am

    Quoting  :

Really? What about a hug 🤗?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/4/2019 9:45 am

    Quoting HermanG67:
    a good first kiss is powerful.... it needs to be done with the right intent

    I'm an old man... I barely remember what happened yesterday..... but somethings are never forgotten
Yes, I suppose 🤔 it could be misinterpreted. A first kiss 💋 is rarely forgotten.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/4/2019 10:18 am

Wow that was not what I was expecting, and I think that first kiss is so very important as it tells you if there is chemistry there between the two of you. I would of been so irritated to if that happened to me, I wonder why he acted like that, sometimes you just come across people like that. I hope you have a great start to your week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/4/2019 11:09 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Wow that was not what I was expecting, and I think that first kiss is so very important as it tells you if there is chemistry there between the two of you. I would of been so irritated to if that happened to me, I wonder why he acted like that, sometimes you just come across people like that. I hope you have a great start to your week..
Life is full of surprises isn't it?
I agree, the first kiss is the barometer of anything that may or may not follow.
Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/4/2019 11:11 am

    Quoting  :

Sometimes determining if there's real chemistry is the toughest part. And agree, no chemistry = no second date.
Thanks for stopping by.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/4/2019 11:55 am

Hmmm. Well.. if that first kiss doesn't work out, then I guess it's over.
Or.. there's always a second kiss - just to make sure that first one, wasn't a fluke.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/4/2019 12:07 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hmmm. Well.. if that first kiss doesn't work out, then I guess it's over.
    Or.. there's always a second kiss - just to make sure that first one, wasn't a fluke.
An interesting approach if the other person is willing to try it again.
Guess people misunderstood 🤔 my question about their ‘first kiss’. I meant their first kiss 💋 ever, not from a specific date.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/5/2019 3:32 am

    Quoting  :

I agree that comfort is important and doing what feels ‘right’.
Thanks for stopping by.


CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
2/7/2019 3:47 am

A kiss can launch a thousand thoughts at once.

That first date kiss though is always a doozey. I still like the first kiss, my stomach still feels like i have butterflies and my thoughts race faster than i can process and i usually say something REALLY stupid.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/7/2019 4:14 am

    Quoting CynicusMaximus:
    A kiss can launch a thousand thoughts at once.

    That first date kiss though is always a doozey. I still like the first kiss, my stomach still feels like i have butterflies and my thoughts race faster than i can process and i usually say something REALLY stupid.
Yes the first kiss {=} with someone new can lead to a myriad of reactions.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


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