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The Next Best Thing!!!!  

greeneyz36 49F
117 posts
7/16/2016 8:21 am
The Next Best Thing!!!!

I am curious other peoples perspective on this topic. Now don't get me wrong, I understand this is a sex website for hooking up and am not niave to the realization that this is happening on a regular basis, so hear me out.
Why is it when you meet someone, hit it off right away, have amazing sex, and have the perception that things are going well that they suddenly go to shit? I have a couple of theories and would like to hear from you.
1. They got bored and moved on?
2. They were feeding you a line of bullshit for a quick fuck?
3. Things truley were going well, but then the "NEXT BEST THING" came along so they jumped ship and moved on?
4. Are guys really just after as much ass as they can get?

Being married I guess I try to be a little more cautious than the average person. Please give me some perspective on here considering we are all in search of great sex!!

voyeurs53 45M  
433 posts
7/17/2016 11:39 pm

 I am guessing it is... all of the above and just depends on the guy. Definitely sucks, because if you can find it... keep doing it


wanna4playU 56M  
265 posts
7/31/2016 5:51 am

 my guess is all of the above, hang in there, you may just find that diamond in the rough...not all men are that way


NormalFun71 53M

6/27/2017 1:29 pm

 You're probably correct about the motivations of someone moving on quickly. I had a girl do it to me a couple years ago. I had told my wife about flirting with the girl, she was a customer of the company I worked for. After a couple dates I told her I was going to buy my wifes birthday present and it was going to be extra special since she was being so cool about my dates. And that was pretty much the end of our relationship. Not like a tearjerker by any means, but a WTF'r? It was cool when I was cheating (or so she thought ) and now since I'm honest it's not cool. Whatever.
But maybe it's an insecurity issue about that type of issue. People are WEIRD about that.


adventure4fun00 63M  
22 posts
9/22/2017 10:13 am

 It really depends on the guy, but I think guys in general fall into those categories you outlined.
I prefer a monogamous relationship for a real FWB as the pleasure and common interests/desires/experience only builds to a more satisfying relationship and sessions.


ThaMahsheen 39M
16 posts
4/24/2018 8:25 am

 For sure depends on the guy. Some men think they can handle married women, then after they begin to overthink it and end up not being able to handle it so well. But, Im sure 2 and 4 are true most of them time lol


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