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Does a Broken Heart Ever Really Heal?
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Does a Broken Heart Ever Really Heal? Have you ever truly loved someone? So much so that you ache for them when they are gone? When they are the first thing you think of when you wake and the last thing you think of before you fall asleep? When you interact with people and think "my guy says that word the same way." Or where you are content with the silence because words aren't needed? But at the same time, you can talk until the morning? When you can't wait to talk to them to just hear their voice? When you have seen them at their worst and their best and they seen you the same; yet they wouldn't take you any other way? Now, be in love with this person for years. To the same extent. Still wanting to be with them every day. To hear their voice. Now break up.............. I believe that a broken heart is one of the worst things a person can go through. Assuming of course, that there is a great deal of love between the two people. The question is, at this point, does a broken heart ever heal? Do you ever really get over the other person? Some people say that yes, time heals all wounds including a broken heart. I disagree. I've been that person I described at the top of my blog. I've had the overwhelming feeling of being totally complete. Sept 2009, I/We broke my heart. I attempted to fix it and move on. I thought I had, until I saw him again in July 2010 and we decided to give it another go shortly after that. Only to have my heart broken again. I thought that I was good. I thought that I had moved on and was good to start again. But the moment I spent a bit of time with him again, I realized that even though I was mostly healed, he still had a piece of my heart. It's almost like putting a broken glass back together. You search for all the pieces, glue them back together one by one, but there is one piece that you can't find. That glass is never the same. It will always be missing that piece. So, when that glass gets shattered again, it's that much more difficult to heal it. On top of that, you are now missing two pieces and that glass will never be the same. Does time heal all wounds? No. Time eases the pain, but the wounds are always there in the background. |
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7/7/2011 3:46 am |
Sorry, short to the point. Sadly no, time hasn't healed my wounds (its been over 50 years for the first one, over 20 years since my last heartbreak and I remember them as if they just happened). You just learn to live with the pain/sorrow and move on. Strength to all broken hearts. It never gets better. To all the Lady's Orally Yours For Ever and A Day, Oral_Whiz
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@ Nt.... I am in the same boat as you. He and talked a little yesterday and it's just as hard as before. I like the bullying idea, great thought for any teachers out there! @ Blue... you know, people say that "its better to have loved and lost than to have not loved at all." I'm not sure I agree, because you are right... it is not fun. Oh.. and Red Green FTW! @ Just... It amazes me that even now, I hear a song and I can feel my eyes tearing up.... damn love  @ Outta... The problem is moving on. I thought I had, but I hadn't. @ True... Well, at least it's honest. Guess I have a lot of years ahead of me...
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@ Outta... Fingers crossed my friend, fingers crossed 
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The heart can heal if you realize that, if the other did you wrong as was my case at the end of 12 years, and with time, look back and see that a LOT of what made that person special was how you felt about them. The heart heals, it's the pulverization of the trust bone that is a fukker as it sabotages future possible connections before they can happen, or after. Just sayin' BTW: Reshoot this bent over from behind pic with your hem line about 1 1/2" higher please and thanks lass
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Still very fresh here and at this point I agree with you.
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@ Clgy.. ya, it sucks
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I've got to completely agree with you, time doesn't heal it, time simply manages to numb it, usually until you see the person again. I went through this, and discovered it for myself, and let me tell you, as you know, it sucks!
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@ Rock... Yup, it makes sense to me
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@ Jaded... you have some very valid points and all rambles are very welcome with me I like the thoughts! I suppose the hard part is that, human nature is to agree with the negative. If 30 people tell you that you have beautiful eyes and 1 person tells you that they are ugly and a little lazy, you will believe the 1 person. Even though the 30 others said otherwise. The same is true of relationships. Although we had amazing times, all the positive (at least right now), is tarnished by the bad. Yes we may have had an amazing time in Israel and we had a blast laying on the beach, but the fact that he told me yesterday that he couldnt be bothered to make a decision about something, as though it was a burden to him, is enough to make me forget about all the good and focus on the bad. It's tough. Because as much as you love the person and want so much for it all to be fixed, you can't. Now... about this never being asked out thing.... wtf?? That can't be right! I recall seeing a group post and last count was 19 offers babe! I'm very sure there are plenty of men on here that would love to take you out for a coffee
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@ Jaded... I agree. It is a very big difference. I know that someone is out there for you. You just have to wade thru the fucktards to find them. And really... don't 100% discount this site. I met a guy on here in 2004, fucked him a few times, decided that we should try and date, didnt work and are still best friends. 7 Years later and we go out twice or three times a week. So, even tho this site is full of us pervs, there are a handful of amazing people And... worst case scenario, move to Calgary!! We ROCK!! NO WAY!! I have done a lot of travelling and Israel is the only place that I tell people that I would suggest they go. Jerusalem and the intensity behind it, vs Tel Aviv and the party life?? The beach, the people, the food.. omg the food... I have israeli salad a few times a week still!! I would go back in a heartbeat!
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Thinks it heals but leaves scars. Kisses
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