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Bi Women ~ How to Spot us in a Crowd? ~  

sci335 62M/56F  
13 posts
11/7/2010 10:28 am
Bi Women ~ How to Spot us in a Crowd? ~


Openly "butch" women and openly gay men are easy to spot. Why are Bi-women so hard to identify?

Bi women are single, married, divorced, widowed or attached...They are the women we pass in the grocery store, they are soccer moms, the flirty barista or the receptionist at our hair salon. They play (or want to play) alone, with their boyfriend/husband, or with a couple.

But, how do we know?

Bi women don't have a "look" or "walk" or speech pattern to identify us to the lookers. We don't have a secret handshake or special barrette to wear in our hair.

When I spark up a conversation over the cantaloupes, I'd like you to know I'm NOT discussing the virtue of fruit and nutrition.

How do we make this happen?
How can we make ourselves "Known" without being "Out" to others?

Any input would help us ALL...Bi women AND those LOOKING!!!

Waiting for your reply...

bybbw4u2taste 56F

11/12/2010 12:50 pm

That is a VERY good question. When you find the answer please let me know. I will be checking back soon to see if anyone has the answer


sci335 replies on 12/26/2010 11:43 am:
I really wish folks would respond, but *sigh* looks like we are on our own to find the secrets of the universe!

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