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Hair pulling vs. Hair touching...
Hair pulling vs. Hair touching... Sometimes it's a fine line... ...and I do mean fine. Feeling the hair slipping through your fingers as you softly move your fingertips across your lovers head is such an integral part of the process. And, grasping firmly and pressing your temple into the side of her head as you wrap your fingers into her hair and pull down as you push up and into... very fine. And yet, confusing... it is different with every woman. Some might be similar, but even the same woman can be a different experience almost each and every time. It can be intimately apropos to just enjoy the sensation of soft wisps that flow across the skin. An electric sensation traces through the fingers and conveys a feeling that resonates within the mind. Specifically, I enjoy feeling the contrasting warmth that lies between the ear and skull, and the cool touch of the hair that flows outward. The fingertips feel the warmth intimately and the webbing between the fingers feels the cool softness. And it is very similar in both instances. Pulling usually involves the fingers wrapping and pressing into the warmth of the palm as the hair intertwines with the fingers... But how is a guy to know? Which way works best? I usually try to inquire about hair pulling first to get a sense of limits and expectations. But I wonder if it might be a little off putting and make me seem too aggressive. When in actuality, I'm just trying to determine what works best... So my question is: How do you communicate what works best for you? |
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Here's a link to the same posting at Girls Watching Guys On Cam Hair pulling vs. Hair touching...
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I know... I was just saying...
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He he he... you're gonna make me blush!
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Yes... You've shed a beautiful light! Thank you!
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Hmmm... where's that pen?
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I personally like having my hair pulled when I'm facing away from my lover. That whole animal position incites me to want my man to be a little more forceful while having sex. On the other hand, when we're looking into each other's eyes, that's the time I like the carresses and fingers running through my hair. I do think that talking about what you like and don't like BEFORE getting naked is imperative to a good sexual encounter.
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gggrrr...
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