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Blogs > LaBellaVita87 > My Blog

wow. there really are some assholes on here  

LaBellaVita87 36F
50 posts
5/7/2008 10:18 am
wow. there really are some assholes on here
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SirDashing 47M
145 posts
5/7/2008 10:43 am

 So very true my friend. School is your future and anyone that does not see how important that is, is very short sighted and self centered. Defiantly someone you are better off without.


rm_xAmiableToox 64M
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5/7/2008 11:02 am

 Connect the valium drip! There are no more or less assholes here than anywhere else. Relax, the HotMatch.com ride can be fun, if you flush the turds.

Good luck!


ajg8869 54M/45F
4 posts
5/7/2008 1:52 pm

 yup know how ya feel ,couples can ce just as bad !!!


rm_rideu10 54M
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5/7/2008 3:59 pm

 Your very right!!


rm_hungctdude8 43M

5/7/2008 4:04 pm

 hungctdude8 on y, if you'd like to chat sometime...


ninjazx711 56M
499 posts
5/7/2008 4:28 pm

 i would trade with you in a heart beat.
i would rather get 30 bad email's a day, than none at all.
be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
good luck on your schooling.
i will take an email from you anyday, good,bad,or ugly.


lnlyinhickville 42M/42F

5/7/2008 4:32 pm

 don't let all of the childish people ruin it for you. there are some good people on here if you can make it thru everyone elses bs. good luck searching cutie.

mike and sally


jdelicious69 49M

5/7/2008 6:43 pm

 Sorry to hear that you are experiencing the wrong kind of guys here. If your interested check out my blog and profile and if you want to chat it's jdelicious69 on Y!oo.


rm_sxercise_u 65M/61F
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5 posts
5/8/2008 3:03 pm

 Sorry but we are laughing a snide bit cause if your that buisy then this is not the place to post your wants, and looking fors. We know we are not one of those assholes and we dont like pressured contacts either so we know what your saying but by posting this its kinda like yah i'm looking but dont bother me. Are you into ying yang? ?*


LaBellaVita87 replies on 5/8/2008 3:46 pm:
in response to your post:

i am looking. i am intersted in meeting people. what i was saying that i get turned off by people who aren't patient. I'm busy with school.. but hey, i have a whole summer off (well still working 3 jobs. but yeah). but things have to happen on my terms or when im free. You wouldnt believe the people i do get back to about meeting at some point and they want it NOW NOW NOW and can't wait a week or 3 for me to find free time. Part of finding a friend with benefits is being a friend. which means people need to be patient.

its a huge turn off when i say im intersted in someone and then they harass me everyday or insult me because i can't meet up right away.

there is a time for that. such as school vaca, summer break, days off (when and if i get them) etc.

so your post is pretty irrelevant. i am looking. but im not looking for someone that wants me to drop everything to meet with them.

42neo 40M

5/10/2008 8:47 pm

 Hey sorry to hear about all the crap. You are so right to put your education first, I am getting my masters right now, and school is so more important. Otherwise I hope you find some free time so that if you do meet a decent guy on here,(good luck), you can have some fun. Sounds like you could use a break from getting harassed by those assholes. My best wishes and feel free to stop by my blog to let me know how things go.


rm_blk4white33 48M

5/14/2008 6:42 am

 HELLO SEE Y YHIS SITE DOESNT WORK FOR THE SANE SINGLE MAN BECAUSE OF THE ASSHOLES LIKE THE ONES YOU SPOKE OF. SORRY YOU HAVENT HAD ANY GOOD LUCK AND GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR SCHOOL PEACE AND LUV


rm_HookUp_InCT 38M

6/18/2008 9:26 am

 Where you run into trouble is sending an email saying you're interested and then never follow through, or by never responding period...If you arnt interested, simply drop them a line saying so. Most people will accept it and move on, and will appreciate the fact that you took the time to respond to them, when they took the time to email you. Respect and you will be respected.

In the interest of full disclosure, i emailed you with a face pic and all very politely and never got a response, that was like months ago lol...i didtn take it personally or even get upset, I figured either you didnt get a chance to read it or whatever but alot of people feel like they're taking the time to pay you mind, all they'd like is a response either way in return. If you do that, then you've done all you can do. But on a site full of fakes you have to understand why someone would mistake you ignoring them for you not being real...nobody on here puts food on your table so dont take what they say personally or let it bother you cause at the end of the day you're opinion is the only 1 that matters in you're life.

Good luck


rm_sxercise_u 65M/61F
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5 posts
8/13/2008 3:27 pm

 Summer Off and 3 Jobs...no time. We think the site sucks like u do and yes there are alot of fakes and assholes. We actually think also this site promotes and is paid by spammers as well as by the funds us gold members who are sincere have paid. Well we are not renewing with this or any affiliated sites of theres. We take it as a lesson learned. Good luck and have fun.


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