Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > shannalvs2swllow > A Sex Addicts Self Discovery |
The Orally Underprivileged
|
The Orally Underprivileged Did you know that studies show that MORE people DO NOT engage in oral sex,neither giving or receiving then do? OMG!! I'm shocked to hear that. I really am. I would believe that men are receiving more then they're giving, but not people aren't doing it at all? That's just sad and maybe even a little crazy. I think i'll just do my own study. Or that's my excuse for asking you perverted personal questions again. Do you believe that oral sex is an acquired taste? Would you or have you ever performed oral on a woman when she's on her period? Tell me about your absolute worst oral sex experience. Have you ever accidently "knocked on a back door" while in the middle of a heated moment of oral? *if you're a regular ole ass licker that doesn't count. I want to know if you were surprised to find your tongue in someones ass. *A few tips for making oral sex more enjoyable for both partners are: 1. Don’t rush in -- take time on the rest of the body first; 2. Don’t assume what worked today will work tomorrow; 3. Keep clean and adhere to proper hygiene (i.e., not putting a finger into the anus and then directly into the vagina) 4. Be a good student and teacher; 5. Don’t be scared to say how you want it Come For The Booty, Stay For The Brains |
|||
6/24/2009 8:33 pm |
Do you believe that oral sex is an acquired taste? Yes. Would you or have you ever performed oral on a woman when she's on her period? Not that I was aware of. It wouldn't stop me though. Tell me about your absolute worst oral sex experience. None. The best blowjob I ever had was GREAT! Never had a bad experience giving. Have you ever accidently "knocked on a back door" while in the middle of a heated moment of oral? No. Love, Light, Laughter, Leave a Legacy, Greg
| ||
|
I am surprised, but then... no I am not. I'm just plain conflicted. I love giving oral, love getting it, but I do know that few women give it... and those that do rarely do it joyously - meaning - all you men with women who love to go down on you, who roll and revel on our cock - enjoy it, because we all don't get that...  Myself... I have what I would call an Earthy Fetish - I love going down on a woman because her taste and smell are so earthy... I love that. Besides the thrill I get slowly working that energy out of a woman, coaxing the clitoris out of it's home, gripping a woman while she bucks... yeah, that's the stuff! As for licking at the back door? Yeah - I've been there 'accidentally' - I recall going real crazy licking long and deep, and the crazy thought popped into my head that I could lick her all the way from her eyelashes down between her breasts, across the labial folds, right back up the ass, the soft fuzz of the lower back, up the spine to the rear of the neck... when she shivers. I sure do know how to get my juices flowing! Oh - and period oral... I have when there was small amounts of blood... not full on in the prime cleaning cycle. It was very sweet - and I also find that right after the period the taste is very sweet while before, very pungent - both great, but different. Ciao! WW.
| ||
6/25/2009 3:30 am |
Acquired taste? Mmm.... I think most men would love to have their ego stroked with a beautiful women's lips and mouth. But you never can tell about some... prudes are everywhere. But thats just receiving...I know for a fact all men do not reciprocate...lol. Is it because they were beaten as a child? dunno. But thats good for those of us who admire and worship the art form. Now women on the other hand. You guys are different creatures. God bless you. Not all of you enjoy the pleasures of spreading the juices, thats amazing to me, because they could win a friend for life if they would. But that being said... you can look that same women in the eyes from between her thighs and she is saying Pl zzz. No problem ma'am. Yes, I have tasted a women at the end of her period. And it was quite a turn on, no problem. Sex is sex! Worst oral experience...lol, I'm ashamed to say. Hit me on hoo and I'll give you all the juicy details. Now, now Shae isn't the back door area just an erogenous extension of your vaginal pleasures, I've always treated it as such. Not to mention it works on men too, doesn't it? Excellent tips, but we need to add JUST one more. Eye contact...it makes a big difference, don't you agree? Now that my mind is racing and heart is pumping from thinking about this, when and where can I see your lips on me? Visiting soon I hope. How about a late evening out on the docks? Be good
| ||
6/25/2009 3:54 am |
Do you believe that oral sex is an acquired taste? Yes. At least for me it was. I was pretty young when I started though. Would you or have you ever performed oral on a woman when she's on her period? Not if the flow was really heavy. The taste puts me off. Tell me about your absolute worst oral sex experience. There was a girl who thought biting was sexy. Ouch. Refer to my comment on nuts and sack being bitten. Have you ever accidently "knocked on a back door" while in the middle of a heated moment of oral?
| ||
6/25/2009 4:26 am |
I absolutely love oral - both giving and receiving. Love coaxing my lover to a and orgasm while giving oral, especially when she squirts. I do believe it is something of an acquired taste particularly for women. I have only been with a few who naturally migrate to oral. Never done the back door and probably never will. Have done the period in. Worst experience and there have been several... is the women who are just going through the motions and actually do not appreciate to use their mouth on a cock - more prevalent than I ever imagined. I like for the women to make love with their mouth. But this is definitely and acquired skill.
| ||
|
good morning sweetie. i would have to agree with the fact that its more of an aquired skill than an aquired taste (for both men and women) but hell isnt anything sexual...we all needed a bit of guidance at some point. COMMUNICATION IS KEY! period=no problem. worst experience=losing contact with the 2 woman who used to beg me to suck my cock...absolutely loved to suck to completion!! i miss u tracy and bianca! LOL accidental back door?=just the first time...now im just a...how did u call it?...regular ole ass licker. yeah thats it! have a great day gorgeous. peace @-->---
| ||
|
Well, I can only speak for myself, but I've been antasizing about giving oral since I was about 12...so DEFINITELY not an acquired taste for my. I looove getting that close to a pussy...tasting it...feeling it get wet and feeling her hips move against my face. SO SOOOOsexy! I have to say, I'm not too keen about going down on a girl when she's on the rag...since I'm so much about the taste I find it a turn off. I'm not a regular ass-licker, but if I go there and she grinds down onto my tongue...well, then bring it on!!! Worst experience with oral was just recently...she had a bad yeast infection...tasted nasty and I think it actually got me sick (my throat was sore for DAYS!). now, since you have experience giving and receiving from both sexes...what do women and men do differently? Which would you rather go down on...a nice cock or a beautiful pussy? -Your PK
| ||
1 post 6/25/2009 2:43 pm |
I don't remember peoples names when i meet them i never forget a face though and i have the ability to recall the smell and tast of every pussy i've had it's kinda weird but true.
| ||
6/26/2009 4:40 pm |
first off, TIP #3 -- If you use one finger for each at the same time then there shouldn't be much confusion... As for me, You could chaulk me up as one those not doin it, since I haven't had even an opportunity to give or recieve for a long time. However, if and when I do get a chance I'll be an oral giving fool!!!! I have come across women in the past that don't like either giving or recieving. Once I even had a woman grab me by the hair (as I was heading downtown) , pull me up, and ask me "WHAT THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE DOING?? YOU'RE NOT PLANNING ON LICKING ME DOWN THERE ARE YOU? THAT'S JUST GROSS!!!!!" So as far as aquired "taste" I could say yes, for some. Redwings- NO, and don't plan on it. Anal lickage, maybe, but not intensionally As for WORST oral expereince,  I did learn the hard way that when the BJ is pretty lame, not to let your mind wander and let your stray thoughts run out aloud. So in other words, the only words that may be uttered are: oh yeah, OMG, and anything pertaining to HER and how good she is. Saying anything about painting the ceiling, NOT a good idea....    The good thing though is that the scars did eventually go away... 
| ||
6/27/2009 4:05 pm |
Do you believe that oral sex is an acquired taste? yes it is, like learning to enjoy a fine wine. Would you or have you ever performed oral on a woman when she's on her period? No and No. There is a distinctive odor that is veruy much a turn off to Me. Tell me about your absolute worst oral sex experience. My first wife did not know how to suck with out letting her teeth scrape along the shaft. Was totally unpleasurable. Have you ever accidently "knocked on a back door" while in the middle of a heated moment of oral? Yes. *if you're a regular ole ass licker that doesn't count. I want to know if you were surprised to find your tongue in someones ass. Surprising but not unpleasant.
| ||
6/29/2009 11:38 pm |
For me oral sex wasn't an acquired taste, it was something I fantasized about before I ever had the opportunity to get naked with a girl. Turned out is was much better than the fantasy! I have given oral when she was on the very tail end of her period...but it would be a turnoff for me to do it regularly. Worst experience...hmm, I've met numerous swinger women who are terrible at oral - teeth, poor technigue, obvious looks of dislike but forcing themselves to do it (which, BTW, is a huge turnoff. Just don't do it, there's no law that says oral must precede penetration). I've had more quality oral sex outside of swinging than I have from women in the lifestyle. Still, the best head I've ever recieved was from the few swingers I've known he are great at it. Worst giving oral experience...going down during my ex-wifes pregnancy and finding a mild and undiscovered yeast infection. Ick! I have accidentally given a bit of a rimjob. Now though it's accidental only to her...I enjoy it, and love the gasp of surprise when a woman has never had that done to them and realizes suddenly, as my tongue finds her asshole, that it is VERY enjoyable.
| ||
8/27/2009 8:06 pm |
To the best of my knowledge I haven't accidently licked a gals ass. I really enjoy going down on gals, especially when the juices really start flowing!!! I never have and don't intend to go down on a gal whilst menstrating. I'm not a vampire and am not into drinking blood. Although I have had sex with previous partners during menstration. Ray Ray The difference between ignorance and apathy? I don't know, and I couldn't care less.
| ||
|
The first time I gave oral sex I was sixteen. The first time I licked a woman's ass I was 30 and now I LOVE it. I love to lay on my back with her laying opposite longways with her ass in my face and toungue a womans asshole while I finger her clit. I actually met a girl on HotMatch.com after chatting the same night. I told her how much I wanted to lick her asshole. She met me at the door in sweat pants and a tank top. we sat on the couch for about a minute and I put my hand between her legs and asked if that was ok? She then took my hand and lead me into the bedroom where we both undressed and she lay on her stomach. I told her to spread her ass cheeks and when she did I began tounguing deep inside her ass. It was SOO sexy. After about 5 or 10 minutes I flipped her over and licked her pussy until she came several times (I am assumiung she came, she had told me how she likes it before I got there and she told me when I finished she loved it) and she gave me a really sexy blowjob. We fucked for hours and she let me cum in her mouth two times. She was VERY sexy and HOT and I was VERY lucky to catch her in the mood that night. I can't remember a bad oral sex experience. I LOVE the taste of a woman and attribute the rest to a discriminating taste in women (no pun intended...yeah right).
| ||
|
my worst experience with oral is one time a guy straight chomped on my clit, not a playful nibble(thats hot) a fierce bite.my other negative experience is giving all the time and not receiving
| ||
|
Did you know that studies show that MORE people DO NOT engage in oral sex, neither giving or receiving then do? I'm actually not all that surprised to hear that. There are a whole lot of inhibited people in the world. Do you believe that oral sex is an acquired taste? That could be asked about both giving and receiving. But I think the answer in either case is that it depends on the individual. For some people, I would guess that it is an acquired taste, because inhibitions have to be overcome. I took to giving oral the first time a woman suggested it to me. I really enjoy it. As for receiving, I had read how it was supposedly the best thing ever, but my first time was a real disappointment (see worst, below), so since then I've been more curious than enthusiastic. Would you or have you ever performed oral on a woman when she's on her period? I haven't. I'd be willing, but I am not sure I'd like the taste. If that was a problem, but a partner liked it that way, I suppose I'd use a dam. Tell me about your absolute worst oral sex experience. The first time I received oral, the woman had been smoking, apparently using really strong mint or something. Whatever it was, it made me tingle, in a partially-numb, after-the-dentist sort of way, not an excited tingle. Yuck. The kisses made my mouth feel icky too. The worst giving-oral experience was a case of poor planning. She had put her diaphragm in already, in preparation for the next thing we had planned, without thinking about the fact that diaphragm gel is really nasty stuff in the mouth. Oops! Have you ever accidently "knocked on a back door" while in the middle of a heated moment of oral? I haven't tried that, and haven't been there by accident either.
| ||
1/3/2010 6:33 am |
I love oral sex its a fetish of mine one of the best things in life. What is their to bother you its al natural and all good. Ive even gone down on women after I have cum in them.
| ||
3/18/2010 7:09 pm |
I so believe oral is an acquired tastes .. I use to not like giving head at all and now I love it .. nothing better .. and there are for sure more men getting it then giving it .. but I had a girl give it to me for a while so kinda use to a girls tongue .. Wouldnt lick a girl on her period, unless, she was clean out of the shower and tampon in so I didnt taste any blood .. I myself have been eaten while on my period and no tampon on .. full on period and at the end when it wasnt so bad Ass lickin is all good .. I like my licked and would lick a guys ass .. so there is no accidents there ... Is there really such a thing as bad oral sex .. Ok I guess a guy could end up with lots of teeth marks ..or a girl could fall asleep during it .. LOl .. But if its not that good .. I just tell them to fuck me to end it
| ||
3/18/2010 7:10 pm |
Oh and btw ..Yes I never thought I would lick a guys ass .. but once I did .. I knew it wasnt bad and it was also an acquired taste
| ||
|
Speaking for myself I've never liked performing oral sex, but I've only been with smaller guys and it hasn't been enjoyable. But my fantasy on here is to find out what sex with a big dick is like, and I have to admit it makes me very, very wet to think about going down on a huge one. I don't know why it seems so different, but it is.
| ||
|
O_o Really? Either I have been hitting the small percentage that do, or mibbe it's just more common this side of the Atlantic, and as for giving, Im still lobbying for a flavour of crisps (chips if in the US)  On period if just started, clit only, dont want to come up looking like a zombie, but if I did I would have to drone out the word, 'BRAINS', before I went to wash off, lol, adversely sex while on is great, hornier and warmer and it looks like you have been fighting a war with your cock when you pull out (Death to the Infidel!!, lmao) Rimming, if clean, go for it, if dubious, avoid. Most girls taste good, some great, a few are just best avoided, dont know if its a diet thing, genetics or the wrath of god, but theres usually a subtle way round bringing it up and still leaving everyone involved satisfied Who in there right mind would want 3 wishes?
| ||
1 post 2/9/2011 6:08 pm |
I think the first time I performed oral sex on a woman it was an aquired situation because it was back in the day when au natural was the in thing lol. However, I never had a problem with it it was more on a woman by woman basis. I think oral sex is manditory if Im asked not to I actually get disappointed. Sometimes I, as you said, work the body more but it depends on the moment to me sometimes just getting down to business is just what the doctor ordered and sometimes all I can do is say take your pants off and let me taste you. I have a bad back so sometimes its better we play Amtrak. Thats when I lay down and shout ALL ABOARD! because I cant deal with the usual rolling around. lol
| ||
|
love oral sex not an aquired taste for me but then who know what works for others
| ||
5/11/2012 11:28 pm |
If it is true that most men do not enjoy giving woman oral sex, then I can't say that I mind. It just means that my skills are more in demand!
| ||
|
young lady once sucked me till I came in her mouth and she was on her period so I sucked her clit and licked/finger her ass till she spasm-ed.
| ||
|
Do you believe that oral sex is an acquired taste? Yess every women have different juicy cum taste & sweet aroma Would you or have you ever performed oral on a woman when she's on her period? Rite before yess jus a little... At first thought its Virgin's blood knew different.. Tell me about your absolute worst oral sex experience. You are drunk have gag reflux then Vomit All over haha! Have you ever accidently "knocked on a back door" while in the middle of a heated moment of oral? Very surprised to find tongue in someones ass.
|
Become a member to create a blog
