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Insecurities
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Insecurities What is it about me that brings such venom ... from other men on this site ? Those who know me will know that I regularly chat in the rooms on this site, mostly in the UK Room, but also on occasion in other rooms. I pride myself on behaving exactly the same in the rooms as I am in real life. I am what I am, take it or leave it. I get on with most of the women in all rooms that I enter. I think that most see me as a friendly face that they can talk to, flirt with and generally have a laugh with. However, it seems to me that most guys in the same rooms seem to take umbrage with the fact that I can talk to women with ease and quite freely. Now don't get me wrong. I am no lothario. I do not think I am any great catch by any measure, for any woman. But it is noticeable of late how venomous the reactions of many men are in these rooms...and I don't understand why. I treat everyone with the same respect when I am in the rooms - male and female. Everyone is a potential friend in my eyes. I am well aware that this is a sex site, but I do not go with the mentality that everyone I talk to is a potential sex partner. I have met many people from this site in social environments. The vast majority of them turn out to be good friends who keep in regular contact. That is all I ask of anyone I befriend on this site. But it seems to me that some guys simply cannot, or will not, accept that this can be the case here. There are quite a few guys on here who I do consider as friends. I've even had a drink with several, along with female members of the site. We have become a growing and thriving social circle. They are not the ones I am talking about in this case. So why do some guys have so much insecurities that rise to the surface so readily in the chat rooms ? It certainly isn't because I am stepping on anybody's toes. I respect the fact that some people are, or may be, potential couples. In fact, I encourage that. But I don't see why that should mean that I cannot speak to the ladies in question. This is probably more of a question of their (the guys) insecurities than anything else. But it does piss me off that this is becoming more and more of a familiar scenario when I am in a chat room. All I ask to be able to visit a chat room and have a bit of fun and banter without the nastiness. But more and more I am being met with venomous remarks and hearsay. It really is starting to spoil what can be a great and friendly website. Why are some people so (for want of a better word) jealous ? |
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I occasionally have the same problem, I try not to re-act, or use the iggi button. Some peeps don't seem to understand , that this site can be used for my things
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1/4/2012 5:33 am |
Ceri, does that mean you don't fancy me i'm gutted . Seriously though maybe it has to do with numbers, as we know the amount of guys far outweighs the number of women on this site, and the cock waving and BS that ensues to get a woman's attention is plentiful. The jealousy ensues when guys like yourself get the response from the women without having to resort to such tacticsMUMU 
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Ceri, you're a sweet guy hunni, very easy to talk to and not overly crude like some, I know it's a sex site, but we women don't really want to hear that in every conversation, therefore you will get a lot of female attention, you're a pleasure to talk to, as for the guys giving you a hard time, take no notice, bang them in iggy and lavish all your attention on us lovelies haha
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Says more about them than you really. And it's easier for them to take out their issues on the 'successful' chap in the room than analyse why they aren't getting anywhere. Block and ignore - simple They can only upset you if you let them. NG "What's wrong with comfort and efficiency?" "Nothing but no-one wants to f**k it."
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