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GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius" #17
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GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius" #17 GLC Presents: Real Women of "Genius" #17 Today, I salute you, Ms. Provocative Screenname User Ladies, if all you want on this site is no-strings-attached sex with a complete stranger who has no desire to treat you with any measurable amount of respect, and your Screenname AND profile clearly states it, then stop reading now. But if that's true, don't complain about every peeping Tom, horny Harry, and throbbing Dick that happens to form a semi-coherent email signifying his intentions to give you exactly what your profile states. If you're looking to change that, maybe you should keep reading. Picture, if you will, a horny man (is there any other kind?) browsing the profiles one day, and comes across your less-than-subtly-titled summary of you and what you want. He may see "letsfucknow" or "hotpussyforyou" or even "nostringsonlysex", but the thing is, you could have a picture of a female gorilla on your profile, and the title will be enough for him to look right past it and assume that all you're looking for is sex. Assume. It's that word that has the tendency to make an ASS out of U and ME. Now, I'll gladly give him hell for writing the two-word (subject included) "Wanna fuck?" email, but I think it's only fair for the ladies to realize that your Screennames-not only your profiles-say a lot about who you are. It also says volumes to the men who may or may not want to know more about you. It can attract the ones you are trying to avoid, and it can repel the needles in a haystack you are hoping to find. A Screenname such as "bangmefrombehind" or "lickmeallnight" is probably not keeping the "geniuses" at bay. Like a moth to a flame, it is most definitely attracting the ones who are looking for a quick fix, and don't care who you are or what you are really all about. Then, to try to make amends, the phrases, "stop sending me 'wanna fuck' emails", and "show some respect" are added to an already misleading profile. Sometimes it works. Most of the time, it doesn't perform its intended function. Profiles that seem like more of a complaint are more likely to be passed over by a guy who is looking for a drama-free experience...which is pretty much all of them. This, by no means, gives the guys a free pass, nor does it exonerate you ladies. Both men and women should really take more than five minutes to construct a good profile, because when someone reads it, they are discovering something about you. It's the same as a blind date. You listen to someone talk so you can find out if the interest is worth pursuing. Just like in a conversation, words are carefully chosen. Not to avoid making a mistake, really, but to be clear about what you want, and who you are. So, ladies, take a moment and read your own profile as if it were someone else's. Read it, and picture in your mind the person that wrote it. It should be you. GLC |
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11/9/2009 1:17 pm |
sounds like u put a lot of thought into ur blogs. cool. and cool blog post here.
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11/10/2009 1:25 pm |
I just watched an hour long tv show today that i wasn't planning on... so don't have time today but will for sure come back to read more. great day to you.
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