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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #52
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GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #52 GLC Presents: Real Men of "Genius" #52 Today, I salute you, Mr. I'm Interested In You Now I realize that the "Mr." title I placed on this post doesn't explain itself right away. That's because the real title would be, "Mr. I'm Interested In You Now, Because I Haven't Been Able To Get Laid, And Because You've Lost A Lot Of Weight, I Figured You Might Give Me Another Chance, Since No One Else Has Fallen For My Crap." Yeah. Try to say THAT in one breath. This post is about a wonderful lady in my network who has done an amazing job of losing weight. The last tally was at seventy-five pounds...and counting. The good news is, she's not doing it for anyone else but herself. Kudos to you, babe. I only know a few details of this story, but it isn't the first one I've heard in my life. I've seen face-to-face the devastation of rejection based solely on the shape, size, or weight, of one's body. I'm going to give my opinion on this subject, and I will fill in the blanks where necessary. Any mention of weight is simply the means to an end, which is to make my point. Now, generally speaking, imagine a woman who is a bit overweight. Sometimes, self-esteem in these cases isn't exactly topping the charts, and some men actually count on that. Well, she meets a man who catches her interest, but the feeling on his side isn't mutual. Yes, you guessed it. Her weight is the issue. Rejection, in a hurtful form, ensues. Use your imagination. Wait. It gets better. Fast forward to a time where her body has changed almost to the point that at first glance she seems to be a different person altogether. She feels better about who she is, and what the future holds. She is more confident, sassy, and anyone knows that sexy goes hand-in-hand with those two. Enter the "genius" of the week. He's tried and failed so many times since he met her, and feels that now, because she's more physically attractive to him, he might give it another shot. What he fails to realize is that she is still the same person inside. Changing her body did not change the woman, it merely strengthened her resolve. The message comes, probably saying something like, "Hey! We haven't talked in a while. How about we get together soon?" Okay, now is the time where you put on your Nostradamus hat, if you need it, to look into the future and tell me exactly what is about to happen. Yep. Give yourself a pat on the back. You got it. Didn't you? She didn't fall for it. She knew that if SHE didn't deserve a chance with him then, HE didn't deserve a chance with her NOW. It didn't matter if his request was genuine or not. The trust had been shattered to smithereens long ago, and she was not the least bit interested in taking the chance that he was not still the same superficial person that she met before. If he had changed by some miracle, let him prove it to someone else. It wasn't fair for him to judge her solely on her weight. He didn't even try to get to know the person she is. He was only centered on her physical appearance. What he didn't get to see is that she's a funny, witty, and exceptionally intelligent person who loves life and everything it has to offer. She works hard to earn everything she has, and doesn't back down when times get tough. That is more than I can say for Mr. Sorry, Not Interested In A Big Woman. There's a reason why BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman. Big doesn't describe the size of their bodies. If something is tipping the scales, it is the weight of the enormous hearts that somehow find room to fit. This makes them love themselves, knowing that if they are beautiful in their own eyes, then it is all that matters. THAT is something that can NEVER be measured. GLC |
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Kudos to her.. GO 48!!!!
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10/18/2009 7:12 am |
Very well said as usual Mr. GLC!! Confidence is sexy! Sexy is a state of mind and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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10/18/2009 2:13 pm |
That was greatly written and very well thought out!
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GLC, I see why you are so well liked by the HotMatch.com community. Your words ring very true and it shames some of us to be reminded of how superficial we may have been at times in our lives. This woman has a good friend in you. 2LeadU ~ Crazy Sexy All Time Good Super Fun Reads ~ *Where to Get Laid on this Site *A Profile to Get You Laid on this Site *The ART of ORAL *Why We DONT STAY With You AWESOME WOMEN *BE THE FUCK *[post 2300522] ~ 2LEADU ~
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